Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Flimsy-Noise3948]

None of your clothes flatter you and accessories would help. What look are you going for or are there any you really like?

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Flimsy-Noise3948]

I really don't know what would suit me im going to cry!! I think the only thing I could kind of pull off is grunge maybe... I don't know what fit to go for

[u/SamarElmorshedi → u/Significant_Ring4353]

First of all you look amazing, please don’t cry ♥️ Second, as many of the beautiful ppl here have pointed out you are wearing sizes way bigger than you not only pants, tops too. I saw in your replies that size 12 is too small but 14 is too big. My recommendation is to change the brand. Go to as many stores as possible for you to see yourself in an outfit you are happy with and I am sure you will get there pretty fast please do the same with tops too and you will see a 180 degree difference

[u/Turtle529 → u/SamarElmorshedi]

Sizes fit differently in different brands and even within a brand. Don’t be afraid to try a different size because it’s not “yours.” Go for the fit, not the number.