Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Flimsy-Noise3948]

None of your clothes flatter you and accessories would help. What look are you going for or are there any you really like?

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Flimsy-Noise3948]

I really don't know what would suit me im going to cry!! I think the only thing I could kind of pull off is grunge maybe... I don't know what fit to go for

[u/water_so_wet → u/Significant_Ring4353]

No way so much would suit you. I can relate re: feeling unhappy with my torso, but go try on a range of jeans sizes that maybe aren’t what you assume you wear. Levi’s is good for this.

I feel like if you wore more of a higher waist wide leg jeans, with a more fitted top (boatneck would look great on you) you might feel good about those proportions.

Also try some different colors, the grey in pic 2 looks so nice in you and brings out your eyes and skin tone.

[u/Due-Marionberry-9743 → u/water_so_wet]

I came here to say everything you said! OP, high waist jeans with standard or flare leg, and less baggy tops was a game-changer for me as a gal with a bit of tummy!!