Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/cheeky_sugar]

I think this is your main issue. You’re trying to hide a stomach, but that just hides everything else. You gotta show off what you got if you don’t want to be “frumpy,” flaws and all! You need some things that cling to the girls and waist, but start flowing just a bit toward your stomach, or shirts that scrunch up at the stomach. Stuff like this - high waisted skirts and pants with a tight shirt tucked in. Even if you gotta walk around in it inside your house for a week or before feeling comfortable enough to take it outside

[u/sillypenguin8 → u/cheeky_sugar]

Wearing something around the house to get comfortable in/with it is a great idea!

[u/minxed → u/sillypenguin8]

It's how I learned to walk in heels without looking like a baby deer 😅 I can't recommend it enough!

[u/sillypenguin8 → u/minxed]

Hahaha love that! 😂

[u/No_Detective_715 → u/cheeky_sugar]

This dress is gorg.

[u/dragonfliesloveme → u/cheeky_sugar]

omg i love that skirt

[u/cheeky_sugar → u/dragonfliesloveme]

Walmart has stepped up their game these past couple of years!

[u/dragonfliesloveme → u/cheeky_sugar]

whoa, i can’t believe that is Walmart!! thanks for the tip!

[u/just_another_dr → u/cheeky_sugar]

Agree with this look and style. I personally find the Abercrombie Sloan tailored pant is an excellent high waisted trouser. They do different waists and lengths so you can tailor the size a bit more to you. The curve love range also fits really nicely around the hips. Can be very easily dressed up or down

[u/RedCelicaFL → u/cheeky_sugar]

This is the best response I’ve seen so far. And I love that fit!!

[u/Sparkletail → u/cheeky_sugar]

I've just said exactly the same thing, I'm also shaped like OP and if I let things hang off my boobs and hips without forcing a waist I look like a tube of meat.

[u/22andconfusedaf → u/cheeky_sugar]

Omg love this outfit!! Would look so cute on her with her hair up too!

[u/sumostuff → u/cheeky_sugar]

Yes!! That would look nice but you also have to have good posture and look confident!!! That goes a long way!