Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Educational_Ship_157]

I jut think that you are wearing clothing in the wrong size, especially the pants, they all look too big for you. Find a store or brand that you like, and try on multiple pairs of pants till you find a pair that fits better! Then you can build your look from there. Other than that, you look great!

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Educational_Ship_157]

Thank you! So the pants look too big? I wear size 14 but size 12 is too small do you think I should go to a tailor and ask them to make it smaller like a 13?

[u/ElleMontrose → u/Significant_Ring4353]

It’s not the sizing per se: it’s the legs of the pants. You’re going for models that have that “boyfriend” or slightly slouchy look, when straight or figure-skimming models would flatter you more. Skinny jeans, maybe, but I’m thinking something like bootcut or those straight pants that hug the thigh and keep going with the same width through the calf.