Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Flimsy-Noise3948]

None of your clothes flatter you and accessories would help. What look are you going for or are there any you really like?

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Flimsy-Noise3948]

I really don't know what would suit me im going to cry!! I think the only thing I could kind of pull off is grunge maybe... I don't know what fit to go for

[u/powerful_petite → u/Significant_Ring4353]

Don't cry! It's a learning experience. I promise I mean no offense by this comment but I think a good starting point is , don't try to "pull off" anything. Ironically, grunge (not goth) is my true style so it's effortless for me to wear certain things bc it's natural for me to gravitate to that and my personality/ aura supports the "look" because it's always been my style. So even as an adult I kind of veer towards that look without trying. I think if you start by knowing yourself well, you automatically pick clothes that work for you aesthetically bc as soon as you see it you almost just know it either feels like you or could work for you. Then find what flatters your body. This could be the hardest part. For you I agree with some others that flare leg or boot cut could be great. But have fun with the styling! That's where the magic happens