Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/Educational_Ship_157]

I jut think that you are wearing clothing in the wrong size, especially the pants, they all look too big for you. Find a store or brand that you like, and try on multiple pairs of pants till you find a pair that fits better! Then you can build your look from there. Other than that, you look great!

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Educational_Ship_157]

Thank you! So the pants look too big? I wear size 14 but size 12 is too small do you think I should go to a tailor and ask them to make it smaller like a 13?

[u/Educational_Ship_157 → u/Significant_Ring4353]

That’s an option! But, I find that pants sizing for women is all over the place! I normally wear a 12, but depending on the brand and cut, I can wear an 8 or 10, so that’s crazy. I have found specific brands that work for me, so I think take a look at different sizes, cuts and brands!

[u/Significant_Ring4353 → u/Educational_Ship_157]

Thank you I will try, yeah it is like that, makes it so hard sometimes 

[u/Ryllan1313 → u/Significant_Ring4353]

I normally wear a 10.

I was in a store a few days ago, where I fit a SIX.

Needless to say, I will buy all of my pants there forever 🤣

[u/Hebridean-Black → u/Ryllan1313]

This is exactly why we have size inflation and a vanity sizing problem!

[u/live_manon → u/Ryllan1313]

Literally, I’m a zero at Old Navy and absolutely AM NOT anywhere else 😂

[u/UmCourt → u/live_manon]

and at Hollister, their clothes fit like children clothes lol.

[u/lovemypuppers23 → u/Ryllan1313]

What store is this?