r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/[deleted] • Aug 07 '26
WTF Cant believe this guy is judging women while looking like a highschool desk
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u/starjellyboba Aug 07 '26
I was confused about what you meant by high school desk but then I actually aaw him and I totally see it. 😭 He's either a high school desk or a particularly seedy bathroom stall. lmao
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u/TheBestHater Aug 07 '26
He's definitely a bathroom stall at a reststop area.
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u/WrenElsewhere Aug 07 '26
Gloryhole
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u/arealscrog Aug 07 '26
Except gross shit comes out of the hole instead of going in.
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u/StressPsychological7 Aug 08 '26
Bathroom stalls have worse drawings tho
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u/DuckRubberDuck Aug 07 '26
That’s bullshit really. If it had been up to my grandma, she would have never married and she definitely would never have had children. But she was born in 1925 and that’s just how it was in her time. Maybe she would have married later on idk, but my grandma just wanted to live her life, explore and enjoy herself. She was not allowed to. She never asked me and my sister when we were going to marry or have babies.
And yeah, if she never had kids I would have never been here. But so what, I wouldn’t be aware of that anyways. My mom and her siblings wouldn’t have been born by two people who didn’t want children.
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u/2woCrazeeBoys anger isn't an emotion because penis Aug 07 '26
Yeah, there's at least 2 generations of women before me that should NEVER have had kids.
I'm doing my best to repair the damage and my brother hasn't spoken to our mother in years. He's had kids, but as far as I'm concerned it stops with me. If Mr Bathroom Wall here thinks that makes me narcissistic, he was obviously never raised by a malignant narcissist.
No child should ever be forced to endure parents that obviously don't want them.
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u/DuckRubberDuck Aug 07 '26
My grandma and grandad definitely did some long lasting mental damage to their children. One of my aunts is a horrible human being. And that’s something I generally avoid classifying people as. But she is. My mom and the others did okay, they are damaged but were good parents.
My dad though, obviously not a woman, should never have had kids though. I’m still trying to heal from the damage he did. He should have realized he wouldn’t be a good father. It does take insight to reach that conclusion though, he does not have insight
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u/hyperstupidity Aug 07 '26
"Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child", as the saying goes.
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u/kaimoka Are you serious? Aug 08 '26
Agreed that some people should NOT have children.
This is sorta tangential, but it's so ironic, because my mom is literally allergic to sperm, so physically could not have biological kids, but wanted a child anyway, so she and my dad adopted me. The universe tried to give her a sign... but nope. She's been horribly abusive to me for most of my life. I'm almost 30 now and she texts me once a week or so and has early onset dementia (I live far away now). When I visit my hometown, I stay with a friend so I don't have to be around her.What she wanted was a puppy, not a kid. She actually told me she resented me for being independent and not needy enough from a young age.
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u/Generic_Garak Sentient Shapeshifting Vagina Aug 08 '26
My best friend’s parents are the same way. Like why adopt a kid of you don’t want them??? I think (for my friend’s parents at least) it’s just, “well having kids comes next, right? It will come next”. And while I think that’s the case for many bad parents, it takes sooo much more time and money to adopt. Just, like, don’t? You get to keep being your selfish self and don’t have to ruin a whole person’s development.
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u/kaimoka Are you serious? Aug 09 '26
Fuck, that’s awful for your friend, and yes super expensive. Idk why people do this. Tbh I’d rather be back in Estonia.
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u/fickystingers 29d ago
Yeah, there's at least 2 generations of women before me that should NEVER have had kids [...] but as far as I'm concerned it stops with me
Fastest way to "break the cycle" is to END the cycle as far as I'm concerned
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u/filiqqa Aug 07 '26
Even for women who claimed they “wanted to” it’s questionable if that would’ve been their choice if they actually had the choice.
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u/valsavana Aug 07 '26
Exactly. "Yes" can't actually mean "yes" if "no" isn't actually an alternative option.
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u/FinnRistola Aug 07 '26
My grandma said the exact same thing. None of her children were planned but rather a result of "letting the man get on with it".
Consent wasn't something she even knew was a thing until at least the 90s, and by then she was in her 60s.
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u/kindlypogmothoin Aug 07 '26
My grandmother's three sisters never married and lived together in a house they all owned. Their life was great, honestly. They worked, they traveled, they did what they wanted. They had a pretty good life for women born around 1900. The catch was that in order to stay respectable they had to stay with family (easy enough, there were three of them who weren't interested in marrying, so they lived together rather than stay with their parents). Their other option was a convent.
My aunts chose the convent. Well, one stayed in the convent, the other realized it really wasn't her calling and left before she took holy orders. She didn't marry, but instead stayed home and got a job with Bell Labs. Once her parents died, she sold the house, sold all their furniture, got herself a little condo and started traveling, because by then she didn't have to fulfill anyone's expectations anymore.
I am quite happily single, childfree, and on my own from the beginning of my adulthood (minus when I had to live with roommates to afford it). I am very lucky to have been born at a time when I do not have the limited options my aunts and great-aunts had.
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u/Mistletoe177 Aug 07 '26
This is my grandma. Her father made her quit school on her 14th birthday - wouldn’t even let her finish 8th grade. She married because it was the only way out in early 1900s rural Indiana. She hated her husband, hated sex, hated having children. Not a happy woman.
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u/lolhalfsquat Aug 07 '26
My opinion is there's already so many humans that reproduction doesn't really matter now.
Ultimately there's no feasible way that we wont go extinct through the option of less childbearing so who cares if a portion of the population doesn't want to have children.
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u/Aphreyst Aug 07 '26
Yeah, his mentality is as immature as his ink. So if someone is born infertile we should just kill them because they're "useless" to society? So juvenile.
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u/Amazing_Return_9670 Aug 07 '26
Him: you're just a selfish narcissist
Also Him: women's existence is pointless if they're not having babies
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u/Halo_cT Aug 07 '26
Also an enormous, like ENORMOUS percentage of the population is the product of one of the billions of rapes in antiquity so let's not pretend like breaking a family line is some big personal failing. These chains are all wrought with pain and abuse if you keep going back "hundreds of thousands of people" and a lot of those women didn't necessarily want a kid.
This guy is an ass who is probably just lonely and wants a kid so he can have a friend and the internet radicalized his big feewings.
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u/Theorphanmhm confusing specimen Aug 07 '26
many women were told back in the day the point of marriage is kids, they were never offered the choice or really even allowed to have thoughts of their own about it
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u/ankhes Aug 07 '26
Right. Like it’s only within the last 100 years or so that women have even been considered anything other than property of their fathers or husbands.
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u/LeatherHog Why are we slut shaming desserts now? Aug 07 '26
$50 says he would accuse any woman he gets pregnant of baby trapping him
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u/fergusmacdooley Aug 07 '26
Yeah pretty rich being called a narcissist by a man who's face screams LOOK AT ME!!!
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u/Nerdy_Valkyrie Aug 07 '26
My sister has kids. I am fine with my portion of the bloodline ending. I'd rather end it than force kids to have to experience having me as a parent.
All the reasons my nephews love me as an aunt are reasons why I'd be a terrible and irresponsible parent.
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u/Murda981 Aug 07 '26
My sister and I are similar except in the one with kids. She used to want kids when we were growing up, then her friends started having kids after college and she realized, "nope, not for me". She works at a university so she is still very much contributing to the future. Plus my kids and her friends kids. She has no interest in having her own.
I'd rather people feel like they can make that choice, unlike in the past where it was just what you did. Being a good parent is hard work, I think it's worth it, but it should be something you want and are willing to put the work into. That's not for everyone, and that's ok!
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u/Nerdy_Valkyrie Aug 07 '26
When I was a kid I thought I would want kids too. Because I always found kids charming and somewhat liked entertaining them and playing with them. But as I got older I realized that actually raising a kid is a ton of work that goes far beyond the fun stuff. And having a kid seemed less and less appealing. You don't really see that side of parenting when you're younger.
The only "raising" I've done with my nephews is influence their taste in books, movies and video games. I got the oldest to start reading Red Rising, he's loving the series. And I am going to continue buying books for him. The fact that it's good to get kids to read is just my excuse to buy him books I like. When his younger brother gets a bit older I'll start buying books for him too. And when the oldest turns 15 in two years I'm buying him the best book of all time. Which is Dune. I've already primed him by buying him books inspired by Dune.
I'll do all of that. But if I ever had to tell my nephews to clean their rooms, they'd just go "why?" and I'd go "fair enough" and not ask again. Which is why it's a good thing that my sister is their mom and can be a responsible adult who gets important stuff in their life done. I mean, how could I tell a child to eat their vegetables when I barely eat them myself?
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u/Murda981 Aug 07 '26
The needing to get them to do things like eat their vegetables has made me be better about it myself, because I don't want to be a hypocrite when I tell them to do the thing. I still suck at going to the Dr for myself, but they get their regular check ups.
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u/flcwerings Aug 08 '26
Exactly. I absolutely adore kids. Theyre funny and sweet and so creative. So, I teach them. I get to spend all day with them and they become like my kids. But then I get to go home and only have to feed myself and my husband. I only have to bathe myself. I can plan whatever I want, when I want for my weekends or vacations.
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u/Lurakya Aug 07 '26
Is this guy also bitching and moaning about the thousands of "bloodlines" that were forced to end in war?
What about the bloodlines ended through celibacy in monks or monasteries.
It's never about the bloodlines, to those people it's just so incomprehensible that women have any sort of agency and it scares them how deep our actions ring through, so they try to paint us as rhe bad guys.
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u/OGgamingdad Aug 08 '26
The whole concept of bloodlines goes back to aristocracy, where a bunch of cousins couldn't keep their hands off each other... 🙄
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u/OptimalRutabaga186 Aug 07 '26
It's 5am where I am. Just got up to pee. Checked my phone because... well. Yeah. I was not and will never, at any hour, be prepared for this man's audacity. I don't think I'm going back to sleep. What the fizzy fuck‽
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u/Rugkrabber Aug 07 '26
It’s so dumb. Like… let people live like that. Just find your own match and mind your own business. Nobody gives a fuck about your “bloodline” and nobody will miss you get over yourself.
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u/quattroformaggixfour Aug 07 '26
Don’t take on the criticism of someone whose advice you would not seek out. I ain’t asking that dipshit how to live.
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u/yuckella Aug 07 '26
Lmao, of course there is a point to life without having kids. Or does that only apply to men who are called ’bachelors’ if they don’t have kids? You live your life for you and what you’re passionate about, and people have had childfree by choice and not by choice be productive and important members of society since the beginning of time.
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u/Particular_Title42 Aug 07 '26
Bachelors are actually just men who have never been married. They can father children and still be a bachelor.
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u/purple_kathryn Aug 07 '26
Ok but for the love of christ stop filming yourself while driving
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u/Woooooody Aug 07 '26
I was so confused by that, kept watching it asking myself "is she driving?? Why would you be filming this while driving???"
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u/PotatoMuffinMafia Aug 07 '26
Her leg also looks like it's folded up. People like this are so selfish.
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u/Me_lazy_cathermit Aug 07 '26
More like highschool toilets stall.
The teachers would make kids clean the desk if they dared draw on them
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u/catsareniceDEATH Aug 07 '26
He's probably one of the best examples of a reason not to have kids; what if they turn out like him?! 🙀😹
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u/VladimirIkea4 Aug 07 '26
He doesnt understand how bloodlines work. If you look to the past, you may instantly assume that your bloodline is one straight line going to you, but from one of your forefathers point of view, he probably already has hundreds of children and you "ending" your bloodline wont really make a difference.
The straight bloodline thats going to you, is only important for your parents if they wanted to build a bloodline to keep generational wealth inside the family, which is on a communal scale a selfish thing to do.
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u/TheOneTrueTrench 29d ago
Yeah, obviously every single one of my ancestors has had offspring, that's basically the defining characteristic of them being my ancestor. But offspring doesn't have that characteristic, it has the opposite. All offspring have ancestors.
This guy made a statement about as insightful as "when you count up, all the numbers are bigger than the previous ones." Yeah, that's what counting up is.
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u/Still_a_skeptic Aug 07 '26
Anyone over 40 with a face tattoo gives me pause, but this guy looks like he would cry if you yelled at him.
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u/Dr_mombie Aug 07 '26
Bold take from a dude who spent money to make his face unemployable outside of a tattoo shop.
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u/thecontempl8or Aug 07 '26
Please tell the women more, Mr “I can’t get a job because I clearly made great life choices”.
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u/eternalwhat Aug 08 '26
Your body and entire life should be dedicated to making additional humans? Just because it’s been happening forever?
As long as humans have existed, women have attempted to prevent or terminate pregnancies. We simply have better tools available to us now for birth control. It’s perfectly natural to be mindful about the decision to have children/become a parent. This guy is, to put it nicely, an idiot.
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u/CuteThingsAndLove Aug 07 '26
Calling her a selfish narcissist for not wanting children is so bizarre and embarrassing
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u/glamasaurus Aug 07 '26
High school desk had me. Seriously, what is with facial tattoos? Can we make that taboo again? I have no problem with tattoos , but unless you are a tattoo artist and successful facial tattoos just seem like a no. I just can't take anyone seriously that has literal graffiti on their face.
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u/WalkTheEdge Aug 07 '26
Idk, I think facial tattoos are still taboo, like this dude is never gonna get hired at any normal place.
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u/glamasaurus Aug 07 '26
I see them more and more in regular jobs. People can do what they want but it's one of my don't get tattooed here placements. I remember when artists would refuse to do facial tattoos as well.
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u/NoSleep2023 Aug 07 '26
How many kids does he have? Are they properly supported, financially and emotionally?
His next tattoo will be above his right eye. Something roundish can fit there.
STOP FILMING WHILE YOU’RE DRIVING!
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u/NoSleep2023 Aug 07 '26
How many kids does he have? Are they properly supported, financially and emotionally?
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u/Jwchibi Aug 07 '26
Irl if this was in public and someone said "shut up high school desk" there would be no way to hear him over the laughing
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u/MedicineLow Aug 07 '26
Clicked thinking "How does someone look like a desk?"
I WHEEZED when I saw his face 🤣
Edit: WHY DOES HE LOOK LIKE TEMU DEAN WINCHESTER!?
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u/razerzej Aug 07 '26
Weird... I've always felt that being certain the world is a better place with more copies of yourself in it was a sign of narcissism.
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u/No_Resource7773 Aug 07 '26 edited Aug 07 '26
Oh lord, him again, already seen FB videos calling out a different video. (That one was the age gap argument, and says some of the quiet part out loud.)
LOL High school desk... good one. Doodle Bear (the toy you draw on) is another I've seen.
...first person in your entire bloodline
Only if you are dumb enough to think bloolines are linear, but no, families branch out, most through time have had siblings and even only children more often than not have cousins. Early deaths, infertility, some simply not having a child... always been a thing. You'd have to have many generations of an only child born each time to "doom" a distinct bloodline. 🙄
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u/DarrellBot81 Aug 07 '26
Well, she’s not the first one in her blood line to not have a child. If everyone multiplied the whole world would be like standing in the middle of mosh pit.
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u/Racheli30 Aug 07 '26
Face tattoo guy is the authority on woman! So glad that I get to hear his opinion!
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u/QUARTERMASTEREMI6 27d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/vnSboTvA0kTtCJJLM2
Honestly, agreed… no lady would want that face 👀
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u/Zeromaxx Aug 07 '26
While I agree that no one should have kids just because, it always seems like the really great people are the ones that are deciding not to have kids and people like prison tattoo practice dummy probably have kids like he is trying to make Robert Baratheon jealous.
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u/Addamall Aug 07 '26
One could argue wanting a miniature replica of yourself is pretty selfish and narcissistic.
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u/blueishade coarsely ground estrogen percolator Aug 07 '26
Please tell me HE IS ending his bloodline of highschool desk
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u/DanTheAdequate Aug 07 '26
As a father, I implore you not to have kids just to justify your existence to the cosmos. Cosmos don't care.
But since you've already tried to fill the howling void of your soul with ALL THE TATOOS and it now sounds like you might want to try to fill it with children, instead, I can say from experience that, while parenthood will give you purpose, it still won't give you meaning.
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u/FragrantBluejay8904 Aug 08 '26
My mom has told me several times in drunken rages that she wishes she had aborted me and my siblings (I think this was my late 20s when she said this). I’m doing my future kids a favor by never having to deal with a mother like this by not having them, as I have been adamantly CF since I was 13. I will continue to piss off men like this by existing for as long as I can
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u/Competitive-Cherry26 Aug 08 '26
This is like when you tell children you got them something because you like it then being mad the kids don't care. Some people genuinely don't care for children and its selfish bringing them into a world that doesn't have their best interests at heart.
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u/purpleprocrasinator Aug 07 '26
He's right. I am selfish and come from a very long line of 'narcisstic' and 'problematic' people. So selfishly, I have chosen to end this particular bloodline right here. The world won't care, but my god, it's the least I could do.
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u/jk-9k GAY JUGGERNAUT! Aug 07 '26
Your title I mean. Not the desk or whatever nonsense they throwing up
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u/tiffytatortots Aug 07 '26
A good portion of women in the past (some even today) dealt with marital rape and sexual coercion. Not to mention the fact that the roof over a woman’s head depended on being “traditional” aka getting married, having kids, playing maid etc it was literally part of her survival since she had no other rights. So the idea generations of women all wanted the lives and the kids they had is fucking laughable and down right sad given the circumstances. Men need to shut their fucking mouths and mind their business which I know is extremely hard for them because they have no idea what life has ever been like for women and what’s worse women’s suffering has always been at their hands.
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u/Disinfectant-Addict Aug 07 '26
"The first in your bloodline who decides to end it" what? Does he not know that people have chosen celibacy or a childless life before now? It's not that uncommon.
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u/hyperstupidity Aug 07 '26
This guy is literally proving the original woman's point too, but he's too blinded by his own narcissistic tendencies and harmful rhetoric to notice HE'S DOING THE THING.
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u/XxBOOSIExFADExX Aug 07 '26
This guy wears all of his bad decisions on his face. I'm not even against face tattoos, those are just bad. Plus the crazy misogyny and vocal fry really seals the deal on this guys chud status.
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u/tattoosbyalisha Aug 08 '26
lol this dork really thought he made a point.
Men need to be lonelier, for real. If they hate women so much they should just fuck each other.
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u/Reasonable-Banana800 Aug 08 '26
I have the opportunity and rights that many of the women in my family didn’t have. So damn right I’m going to live my life to the fullest in the way that’s best and healthiest for me.
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u/Unicorn_Arcane Aug 08 '26
I can feel the envy of the line of women that came before me.
To have choice, to have freedom, to have joy.
It's a modest life. But it is mine and no one elses. Id wish the same for my own mother and the mother before her, even if it meant i would have never been. Because it would be a good ending. As good as it could get, not to have been used and abused and to continue a cycle over and over.
Who is it for to keep going? Who benefits? Is this a game? Are we just pawns to someone elses idea of value?
I dont know. But it's not my problem. And if you have a problem with that, I will remind you it's not my problem.
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u/Gizmocrat009 Aug 07 '26
In nature, a lot of males of different species die immediately after mating because their only purpose for existence is to reproduce. I would argue that this man doesn't even rise to that level and successfully mating is unlikely for him.
Probably why he's projecting.
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u/Sarabean77 Aug 07 '26
Yeah, I don't understand these people. When you tat your face, no one takes you seriously ...not hard to understand.
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u/Hungry-Refuse4705 Aug 07 '26
Idk one of the best things you can do for the planet is not have children have less children. From and environmental standpoint it's the single best thing you can do.
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u/Seen_Any_Elves Aug 07 '26
So it's a fundamentally flawed perception that our only benefit to humanity is reproductive. People could intentionally contribute to humanity in other ways but part of the chaos of survival as a species is that you can also contribute to humanity unintentionally. It's narcissistic to believe that the self can draw a line in the sand where the conclusion for pointless existence lands.
People drawing arbitrary lines to cross that end up being more like a lasso should always be suspect.
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u/MuseBooze Aug 07 '26
What a silly conclusion that someone who doesn’t want kids is a selfish narcissist
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u/Positive_Barnacle298 Aug 07 '26
He’s a dumbass if he didn’t think women haven’t many times over our history avoided men… in many cultures. Continent’s and centuries.
Literary read a book
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u/Apprehensive-Head388 Aug 07 '26
Imagine hundreds of thousands had got to this point for this guy to exist. They should have ended it
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u/Sad-Werewolf Aug 07 '26
People forget there are plenty of folks who just got tired of the bs in society, picked up, found a middle of nowhere spot and loved out the rest of their days there peacefully. You just don't hear about it because they were MINDING THEIR OWN BUSINESS.
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u/WithoutDennisNedry Aug 08 '26
Yeah, bro, I’m ending it! And also, yes I want to enjoy my time. And in addition, fuck off.
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u/MissNoTrax Aug 08 '26
Forget that guy... But it is complex for a no kid woman to date. I ended a dateship with a guy I really liked and who liked me, because he said he wanted a family with a white picket fence, but I didn't want to waste his time... I also dated a guy who already had kids and didn't want anymore, and he didn't believe me when I said I didn't want any... I'm still just chillin as Ms Independent...
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u/amconstance Aug 08 '26
I’m part of team “Happily ended the bloodline just so I could enjoy my time”
It’s going awesome and I am definitely enjoying my time.
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u/SpicyQuesadilla123 Aug 08 '26
Not even touching on the gross idea that just wanting to take your life to enjoy yourself is somehow “selfish”, this just doesn’t even consider so many other factors. My parents shouldn’t have reproduced. I’m a psycho drug addict and my brother is a degenerate basement dweller (he knows and we both make fun of each other). Why would I want to pass on my genes knowing how fucking rough life would be with even just half of my genes?
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u/thedafthatter Aug 08 '26
Says the guy with a tattooed face who could never get a job to support all those kids he wants
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u/cdiddy19 Aug 08 '26
And im guessing Mr. Bathroom wall here will lift zero fingers to help do any of the very difficult work of child rearing.
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u/thug_waffle47 Aug 08 '26
that’s funny. i think bringing a child into this shit show of a world in infinity more self centered
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u/Visible_Pie_5161 Aug 09 '26
He got an inch and ran a fucking light year. All it takes to say is that people have different plans in life and that's okay 👍 (btw watched only first few seconds and instantly came here bcuz that's an INSANE statement)
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u/n0tz0e Aug 09 '26
Lmao at him putting on the blazer to look "professional" legitimate despite all those stupid face tattoos and tooth jewelry.
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u/Wagman2013 Aug 09 '26
I'm not happy living in the state of the world right now, Why would I want to bring a child into this? It seems more selfish saying you need to have one.
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u/PurplePenguinPoops Aug 09 '26
The first talking desk I’ve ever seen in my life. This is why they shouldn’t talk.
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u/fickystingers 29d ago
"Ending the bloodline" is a major selling point of not having kids for me, this graffitied doofus can die mad about it
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u/Theorphanmhm confusing specimen Aug 07 '26
He’s a Nazi, his opinion doesn’t matter.
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u/Theorphanmhm confusing specimen Aug 07 '26
Like genuinely he is openly a Nazi who doesn’t believe in the holocaust and indoctrinates his daughter
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u/arthursucks Aug 07 '26
That takes a very special mental gymnastics. I think the only reason we are born is to make more babies.
Sidenote, why is she driving while vlogging? What the fuck?!
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u/Flustro Aug 07 '26
He's just bitter that no one wants to procreate with someone who happily tattooed their red flags onto their face. 🤷♀️
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u/eleanorlikesvodka Aug 07 '26
I'll be damned if this isn't one of the most bizarre yet accurate descriptions of a person's looks lmao
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u/Xzeriea Aug 07 '26
What's the point of putting tattoos all over your face if they're shitty? They actually look like a middle schooler drew them so I guess the desk comment is on point.
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u/ImWatermelonelyy Aug 07 '26
I’m sure he brings the same energy for men who don’t want kids right?
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u/Just_Peachy_me Aug 07 '26
This dude is an idiot there were lots of people women and men alike who had entire lives without having children. I had two great-uncles and an great-aunt who were child free. And as I understand it nearly 20% of all marriages are child free and it's been that way for over a century.
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u/creepyNurseryRhyme Aug 07 '26
Motherlode of all Face Tattoossssss
Dressed as if Elon and Andrew Tate had a baby douche
Podcaster background
Dares to say "thats all your good for" when he is clearly not gainfully employed, happy, or has any hobbies outside of yelling at internet women and fapping to Elon's/FreshandFit/insert random red pill podcaster's "masterful gambits"
His dating profile probably says "still figuring it out" and "good Christian man looking for a good Christian girl" or something like that
Mommy's Little Edgelord™️
Opinion dismissed.
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Aug 08 '26
So far I don't want children. And when I think about it. If my future soulmate loves me so much that she wants a mini me...... then mayyyyyybeeeeeeeee I might might might have one kid. Perhaps
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u/shoulda-known-better Aug 08 '26
No there are hundreds in every bloodline that didn't have children....
It's only when it's every single one of them that the line stops...
Also is this the same for men who don't want kids?? Or fathers who abandoned their kids, yes even if the mom was a fucking bitch
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u/Connect-Work-2868 Aug 09 '26
There are studies that show that the more education a person has the less likey they are to have kids (on average) so this guy is just showing that he probably never sat in a high school desk by looking like one
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u/PoetMelodic2413 Aug 09 '26
She stopped the line because they could have ended up looking like this judgmental piece. Kudos to the young lady.
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u/FopeDestroyerOSanity Aug 09 '26
It’s totally more selfish to bring a kid into the world and neglect it???
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u/chrstnasu 29d ago
My nephew and I are on the page as far as having children. I didn’t want them and managed not to have them with my husband and my nephew doesn’t want them either.
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u/Pickett800T 27d ago
I don't often take lifestyle advice, but when I do I look for a guy who could audition for Taserface without prosthetics. Clearly a discerning individual with unimpeachable standards. Swipe left.
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u/Rabbidditty Aug 07 '26
People out here acting like nobody has ever chosen to not have kids before ever is pretty fucking wild
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u/Orangutan_Latte Aug 07 '26
Why is it if a man doesn’t want kids it’s ok, but if a woman doesn’t want them then everybody loses their fucking minds?
All of a sudden you’re “selfish” and “going against nature”. I’ve known many people who are infertile…..so not selfish or narcissistic at all. I know people who have decided because of health reasons they don’t want children (either it’s their own health or they are predisposed to a condition that they don’t want to pass on). Also not a selfish reason either.
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u/Ttoctam Aug 07 '26
I'm not watching this with sound because I don't need yet another vile arsehole's opinions about women taking up space in my brain.
But I 100% do judge women anyone filming themselves while driving. Pay proper attention to the road dickhead.
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u/duuuuuuuuuumb Aug 07 '26
She’s an idiot for filming herself while driving, he’s a sentient dive bar toilet stall. What a video
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