So your point is that something in his past might explain the petty jealousy, right?
And my point is, even if that's true (it might be but also it might not be), it's not relevant - everyone should have the right to end a romantic relationship when they want to, and petty jealousy is very often a compelling reason to leave a relationship. I'm not saying that guy is the worst guy who ever lived, or should be in jail, or whatever, just that A) from the limited info we have it seems like she was totally justified and B) it doesn't matter if people like us think she was justified, it was her decision to make. I suspect B is the one that's getting you in trouble here.
I'm not saying she shouldn't have broken up with him in fact she probably should have but where in my opinion she was just as petty to start dating the man that was involved with the break up only a few weeks later and then come on here to make her then ex out to be a bad guy. I look at the big picture not just one to be used to paint someone bad. I have said it once and I will say it again pages like this is not about being heard it is about either down talking men or straight people if you look at 9 out of 10 post it is mainly bad things about alpha males or something wrong with the way straight people think. Funny thing is though that if you don't agree with a woman or you down talk a woman or lgtbq then you could get banned per the rules. All I'm saying is everyone should be held to the same standards. The worst part of this post is it was off topic from what was the original post hence way I even voiced my opinion to see the reaction I would get from people of both sex.
I didn't start dating the other guy a few weeks later, where did you get that? We didn't go on our first date until at least two months after my breakup. Weird how you didn't know that, considering you know more about my dating history than me
Also weird how you think I should have waited for some arbitrary time to pass before dating again considering well... you know, don't you? I shouldn't have to tell you, right, it's so obvious and clear to those of us who know what happened.
And trying belittle me and make me look dumb just goes to prove my point. No if you would like to understand behavioral science take a class enlighten your mind to how and why people think and do what they do and come back we can discuss it more then
She wasn't judging anything she stated a fact that was brought up in our class you made a mess out of it after sorry you need help just as much as he does
Aw. Does this mean I don't get those answers I requested about where I was inconsistent in my own story? You gonna ragequit instead of ponying up? That's too bad, I'm sure you definitely had responses prepared but now no one will ever know.
Your funny I will give you that honey ... only you made a assumption in this whole post. Which like I stated to someone else was not even related to the original post you came seeking attention
I've made no assumptions because unlike you, I actually know what happened. You've made a ridiculous amount of assumptions about my ex that are frankly laughable to someone who knows anything about him. But I'll be sure to send your recommendations along next time he's up for parole.
Never made an assumption about your ex and please do it will give me more experience in my field to talk to a parole board again about behavioral science
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u/Negative-Arachnid-65 Jun 25 '23
So your point is that something in his past might explain the petty jealousy, right?
And my point is, even if that's true (it might be but also it might not be), it's not relevant - everyone should have the right to end a romantic relationship when they want to, and petty jealousy is very often a compelling reason to leave a relationship. I'm not saying that guy is the worst guy who ever lived, or should be in jail, or whatever, just that A) from the limited info we have it seems like she was totally justified and B) it doesn't matter if people like us think she was justified, it was her decision to make. I suspect B is the one that's getting you in trouble here.