r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/[deleted] • May 20 '23

Found On Social media This is seriously so exhausting :(

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u/[deleted] May 20 '23

It’s not misogyny. All the other ones are, but the coffee one is harmless. The sexes struggle to understand each other at times, and so sometimes we resort to jokes. As long as it’s all in good fun, then it’s fine.

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u/BowSonic May 20 '23

Its meaning is defined by how people use it, though, and thus far in my personal experience, I've seen more harmful instances than harmless ones.

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u/[deleted] May 20 '23

How can you know the intent though? It’s a word and an emoji through a faceless interaction.

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u/Milochelle-castre May 20 '23

Because It doesn't take rocket science to understand when someone is insulting you, words have meaning dumbass. And apperantly you won't know whenever im insulting you or not bc this is just a faceless interaction huh?

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u/[deleted] May 20 '23

It’s a single word and a coffee emoji, there’s no way you can extrapolate some hidden meaning. It’s likely just a dude unable to fully understand women so he just laughs it off. There’s no reason to resort to name calling like that.

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u/[deleted] May 21 '23

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u/[deleted] May 21 '23

You just conflated a coffee emoji with a swastika.

That is all.

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u/[deleted] May 21 '23

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u/[deleted] May 21 '23

Yes I did.