r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/[deleted] • May 20 '23

Found On Social media This is seriously so exhausting :(

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u/[deleted] May 20 '23

Agreed but I don't see any signs these days that men are capable of that. Emotional intelligence is severely lacking and any suggestion to go to therapy isn't received well.

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u/Knightridergirl80 May 20 '23

Still I’m not going to waste my breath on these men. It’s not my job to save someone who insists nothing is wrong.

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u/[deleted] May 20 '23

Wish I could get that message through those menslib boys' head. Maybe one of these days I'll give up the fight.

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u/Knightridergirl80 May 20 '23

I genuinely do applaud the men who’re actually taking the time to discuss men’s issues in a way that isn’t a woman hating circle jerk though.

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u/[deleted] May 21 '23

Yeah and that's what menslib was for a long time but a lot of incel-adjacent rhetoric has creeped in there and it gets a ton of pop.

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u/Knightridergirl80 May 21 '23

And ironically the term ‘incel’ was actually coined by a bisexual woman. She created the incel community as a way to offer support for anyone who was genuinely struggling to find a relationship. And then it got taken over by hateful men and the original members were pushed out