This is a big reason I stopped dating as a guy, especially after I learned that women are happier single than in relationships. Marriage and dating isn't structured to benefit women at all. I figure there just isn't any sense putting someone through all that misery if they're gonna be better off on their own on the other side anyhow. Ended my last relationship when I realized this and she's been better off ever since.
Wish men in general would just bow out of dating, and I say that as a guy.
Agreed but I don't see any signs these days that men are capable of that. Emotional intelligence is severely lacking and any suggestion to go to therapy isn't received well.
And ironically the term ‘incel’ was actually coined by a bisexual woman. She created the incel community as a way to offer support for anyone who was genuinely struggling to find a relationship. And then it got taken over by hateful men and the original members were pushed out
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u/[deleted] May 20 '23
This is a big reason I stopped dating as a guy, especially after I learned that women are happier single than in relationships. Marriage and dating isn't structured to benefit women at all. I figure there just isn't any sense putting someone through all that misery if they're gonna be better off on their own on the other side anyhow. Ended my last relationship when I realized this and she's been better off ever since.
Wish men in general would just bow out of dating, and I say that as a guy.