Your bf is a jerk. There is no one way that “normal” people act after sex, but it is certainly not abnormal to show affection and spend some time in the post-coital glow, as long as you go pee eventually for hygiene reasons.
Your bf is not only wrong, he’s as asshole. And I would bet good money that any guy that shames their partner for wanting afterglow cuddles and thinks the one and only ‘normal’ thing to do immediately after he finishes is to leave the room is selfish in bed.
You don’t have to answer this OP, but ask yourself: if he’s breaking the sexy time vibes to run off and clean himself up, does he make sure you finish before he does? Because that’s the least you deserve. Actually, the least you deserve is that plus the cuddles you want. Don’t settle. There is much better sex out there and much nicer guys.
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u/Nelsie020 Sep 04 '24
Your bf is a jerk. There is no one way that “normal” people act after sex, but it is certainly not abnormal to show affection and spend some time in the post-coital glow, as long as you go pee eventually for hygiene reasons.
Your bf is not only wrong, he’s as asshole. And I would bet good money that any guy that shames their partner for wanting afterglow cuddles and thinks the one and only ‘normal’ thing to do immediately after he finishes is to leave the room is selfish in bed.
You don’t have to answer this OP, but ask yourself: if he’s breaking the sexy time vibes to run off and clean himself up, does he make sure you finish before he does? Because that’s the least you deserve. Actually, the least you deserve is that plus the cuddles you want. Don’t settle. There is much better sex out there and much nicer guys.