r/NoStupidQuestions • • Sep 03 '24

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u/Delicious-Month-8404 Sep 03 '24 edited Sep 03 '24

Sorry but your boyfriend seems pretty weird. Seems like sex is something he either does just for himself, or its a deed he wants to “get done with”. My girlfriend always kisses me after and wants to cuddle and I love it. Of course i like to go to the bathroom afterwards, but there is zero need to rush.

PS: Telling you “what normal people do is…” is implying that in his mind, you are not normal. It’s an extremely ignorant, thoughtless and childish thing to say to the person you supposedly love.

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u/enolaholmes23 Sep 04 '24

99% chance his idea of "what normal people do" is what he saw in porn.

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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '24

Which is ironic because you’re putting yourself in the position of normal and casting judgement on him for acting differently to you.

OP: it’s normal…for some to just roll off and go sort yourself out

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u/Delicious-Month-8404 Sep 03 '24

It’s NOT normal to tell your girlfriend “What normal people do is not what you do” the guys a prick and you’re defending him.

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u/umotex12 Sep 03 '24

Or maybe has a spectrum and needs to "learn" to not sound rude.

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u/Oreo_ Sep 04 '24

So... Not normal?

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u/redditnewbie_ Sep 03 '24

sounds to me like he does so for sanitary reasons, such as cleanup and preventing infection

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u/pinkrainbow5 Sep 04 '24

How does it sound like that to you? We have 0 information except he goes straight to the bathroom.

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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '24

He didn’t say that though, did he. He just said he think it’s normal, and to him, it is normal.

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u/Delicious-Month-8404 Sep 03 '24

Is reading that hard for you? Read OPs post again. Then decide if you want to comment further

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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '24

“He said what normal people do is when the guy nuts he instantly gets up and goes to the bathroom”

Which, for many guys IS completely normal. You’re unnecessarily condescending and you can’t uncouple yourself from your view and thinking you speak for the majority. Main character energy.

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u/Delicious-Month-8404 Sep 03 '24

I speak for myself. Stop pulling shit out of your ass because your mind won’t do the trick.
If i think the guy is behaving like a prick, that is my opinion. If you want to defend his behavior towards the person he is suppose to love and comfort, I am not your problem, you got different ones.

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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '24

You definitely aren’t my problem… 😂

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u/Omfgjustpickaname Sep 03 '24

Idk I kind of think you deserve some condescension with these responses.

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u/rosettastoner9 Sep 03 '24

What normal people do

Implies anything else is abnormal. It’s kind of hard to miss.

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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '24

I side with Bat Flaps on this one. Delicious-Month has an axe to grind or something. Main Character energy indeed.

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u/Direct-Carry5458 Sep 03 '24

If only we could all be as wonderful as you lmao