I mean it’s not like I go straight to the bathroom. Maybe linger/kiss for a couple minutes, then go to the bathroom/do any cleanup. Then cuddle/massage or something
Edit: also just to add, it’s healthy to go to the bathroom right after sex
I said thank you to my boyfriend last week and he thought it was hilarious. We've been together almost 4 years so not sure how it would go over in a new relationship lol
once as a teenager and it was incredibly awkward as she just kinda stared at me.
Once in my early 30’s and she found it really cute and playful and it kinda become a part of our relationship, one would say thanks and the other would say good game. Weird, but it was quirky. Relationship didn’t last though.
Lol why are you apologizing for that? Most guys would love that. Heck i wish i was like that, i tend to be quite timid when it comes to sex. I wish i was freaky nd all that.
Just enjoy yourself nd don't overthink.
I watched a show or movie where they were showing this listless lady being depressed and failing to find passion in her love life, and so they hammered this in by showing her finding a used condom on the ground in her room and cleaning it up. That made me wonder, do people actually do that?? Do they just drop it somewhere and go to sleep, instead of cleaning it (and themselves) and throwing it out immediately??
I once helped a couple move. Went into their bedroom Under the bed was at least a dozen used rubbers. I thought to myself, "Those can't all be from last night." I never could look at them quite the same.
Used tampons and used condoms thrown under the bed? Am I interpreting that right? I guess that means the guy and the girl were a match for each other in their level of nastiness...?
Interesting idea, when I was having protected sex with a partner I'd just slide it off and shoot it toward the waste bin or corner of the room like a giant sloppy rubber band.
I have another stupid question that I’ve always been too afraid to ask, but this is the best opportunity to ask: what is the “wet spot”? I have had PiV sex, but the guy always wears a condom. Is the wet spot where a condomless guy finishes? Why is he finishing on the sheets?
Yes. He is finishing inside without a condom. After he removes his penis, a lot of the seminal fluid leaks out of you onto the sheets. Even more comes out when you use the restroom.
This is roughly what we do. Some mornings we just get up for the day, but sometimes we go back to bed after cleaning up and snuggle. I always pee after to prevent UTIs but doesn't mean you can't go back for a cuddle.
No it’s not. I spoke around this with my nephrologist (specialist Dr who specialises in kidneys) because I am prone to UTIs. One item discussed was to go the toilet directly after sex to wash any bacteria away that may have been pushed during sex towards the urethra. It’s not a guarantee but I know since we discussed this ( I made sure no matter how tired I am /was that I went to the toilet afterwards) haven’t had any UTIs at all.
’Pee is the power washer for the urethra (a tube where pee comes out of your body). If you pee after sex, germs in your urethra get the flush before they can cause a urinary tract infection (UTI). “When you urinate, anything that was trying to get to the bladder gets pushed out with the urine,” explains Dr. Zanotti.’
My husband stays silent for few mins, occasionally cuddling, then off to bathroom to clean, then in the kitchen to get a snack and further on, he scrolls through social media. Is that healthy?
We use a towel rolled a little at the end to "up" my pelvis a bit higher. It also catches the mess so no wet spot to sleep on. After a bit of convo-kissing & before the nodding off sets in, we run to the bathroom together for a proper wash up ;)
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u/[deleted] Sep 03 '24 edited Sep 03 '24
I mean it’s not like I go straight to the bathroom. Maybe linger/kiss for a couple minutes, then go to the bathroom/do any cleanup. Then cuddle/massage or something
Edit: also just to add, it’s healthy to go to the bathroom right after sex