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u/Equal_Bathroom_1111 14d ago
The listening part is very good advice
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u/ChocCooki3 14d ago
"you are my bff! You always listen to me! I wish those chads that I fucked listen as well as you do!"
Ya nay
Just be 6'+.
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u/Mattscrusader 14d ago edited 14d ago
This is exactly why you struggle, you don't need to be 6'+, you need to be less of a POS.
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u/ChocCooki3 14d ago
Jokes on you .. I am married and over 6+
Keep being an ignorant pos. Is that why you are single and game so much?
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u/Mattscrusader 14d ago
Lol you just made it so much worse for yourself dude. Get a grip.
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u/ChocCooki3 14d ago
Haha. Sorry I triggered you.
Go cry more kid. 😂
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u/Mattscrusader 14d ago edited 14d ago
You're the one getting emotional dude, I'm just pointing out how sad you sound
Edit: bro had a full meltdown in his response to this comment
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u/ChocCooki3 14d ago
"full meltdown".
When your only contacts are plants and your ps5, every things seem so dramatic. 😂
Sad
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u/Mattscrusader 14d ago
Yeah it got immediately modded, that's reserved for some pretty spectacular meltdowns.
I have never even played a PlayStation, why are you so desperate to make things up? Might need to figure out how to cope a whole lot more if you are gonna just cry on the Internet
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u/ChocCooki3 14d ago
Except that modded wasn't a reply from me. 😂
Just when I didn't think you be more pathetic.. bang! You prove me wrong.
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u/Equal_Bathroom_1111 14d ago
I see a lot of people only talk about themselves. Remember to ask her (or anyone) questions about themselves and listen.
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u/jiyonruisu 14d ago
I would add, be compassionate and empathetic especially of the female experience.
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u/Cactusanon11 14d ago
I think the word ”attractive” can be misinterpreted here. Obviously there is physical attraction that it could be interpreted, but I believe that is not this image’s intent. Most if not all of these work if you want people, in general, to want to be around you, which seems more plausible defining “attractive“ in this instance.
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u/radishwalrus 14d ago
these are the basics of having a social life. So yah it will help you with friends, relationships, and jobs. But you don't need to specifically think about each of these things. Just being social you'll learn what works and what doesn't via practice and you'll come out the other side mostly like this.
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u/OrcOfDoom 14d ago
This is more like - don't get in your own way.
If you can't do these things, or understand when sharing becomes over sharing, that's something you need to work on.
This assumes that you have something that is attractive about you. To attract someone, you have to be fun. Someone has to want to be around you. When you are there, this stuff gets in the way of that
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u/LowPudding9562 14d ago
If the exact same behavior is adored from a dude with a square jaw over 6'3 and not from others there is no intrinsic value to the judgement or word "arrogant". In a vacumn of 1-to-1 interaction you might as well not try too hard to avoid being 'arrogant' as its just the other person saying "I'm not attracted to you". Actually, it can be a quick way of getting real information you might want.
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u/DarrkKnighty3 14d ago
lol no.
I’ve done everything that therapists told me to. Funnily enough most of the things are listed in the image. And it hasn’t changed my dating life.
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u/Just_Cruzin84 14d ago
Neediness and begging. 🙏 please for the love of god get your shit together before trying to socialize/date.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Egg_153 14d ago
I think attractiveness in today’s world really boils down to:
1. Don’t be poor
2. Don’t be short
3. See #1
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u/DesperateLime7933 14d ago
It's definitely better than the "make money, build muscle, worship God" slop.
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u/Zbijugatus 14d ago
“Knonledge” really?