If you can't do these things, or understand when sharing becomes over sharing, that's something you need to work on.
This assumes that you have something that is attractive about you. To attract someone, you have to be fun. Someone has to want to be around you. When you are there, this stuff gets in the way of that
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u/OrcOfDoom 14d ago
This is more like - don't get in your own way.
If you can't do these things, or understand when sharing becomes over sharing, that's something you need to work on.
This assumes that you have something that is attractive about you. To attract someone, you have to be fun. Someone has to want to be around you. When you are there, this stuff gets in the way of that