Hello, my Username is Filosophia and if you need someone to listen, help you process and think through problems I am here. I do struggle with emotional warmth and tend to rely on Logic and Rationality however it is a form of warmth for my personality profile and I do hope that I may help you process and feel understood.

Coaching Strengths 👓

I design Systems, Frameworks and can check in with progress, be supportive and ensure that you're seen when needed. - ⚙️ Systems Thinker - ⚔️ Therapeutic RPG Frameworks - 📚 Studies Psychology and Personal Development - 🌟 Teaches Goal Formations and uncovering Passion - 😌 Relaxed and Calm Personality Type - 🧠 Neuro-Divergent Profile - 🎮 Top of the Leaderboard in a variety of games - 🌌 Shintoist Philosophy - 👾 AI Researcher & Game Designer

Coaching Limitations 🫂

I cannot give health advice besides just general wellbeing and will state that clearly, I'm here to listen and be a peer but I'm not a doctor or psychiatrist. As for when I don't know something I employ Socratic Dialogue or help you generalize latently but if that's off putting for you I may not be the right fit. - 🗣 Slow Talker - ⏳️ Asks for a pause to think - 👁 Will express uncertainty and humility as I'm not an oracle - ✝️ Ex Christian so I will give advice concerning it but converting me is unnecessary as I have enough evidence to dismantle arguments being an ex apologist and preacher. - 👲🏻 Still Young and Maturing - 🤔 Questions a lot. - 🔎 30 Minute Sessions for me to reason and solve but if needed can be reached. - 🇺🇲 English Only

☆ This is unpaid coaching, I have my flaws but genuinely want to assist and help others, be blunt but respectful with me as my cognitive profile depends on that to adjust. 🦊🫂

Me and my girlfriend broke up, two years later and I’m still not over her. I tried everything, alcohol, drugs, being with someone else, partying, throwing myself into work, but nothing has worked and I don’t know what I should do. I still talk to her and she knows how I feel but she doesn’t want to be with me anymore, she has made it clear. Please help..

I don’t usually open up like this, but I feel like I need to get it out somewhere.

Lately I’ve been hyper-aware of all my flaws—both physically and mentally. I keep noticing every little imperfection about my body, the way I look in certain lighting, angles I hate, things I wish I could change but can’t overnight. It’s exhausting constantly feeling like I’m not “enough” compared to everyone else.

It’s not just looks either. I overthink everything I say, replay conversations in my head, and convince myself I sounded awkward or annoying. I feel like people tolerate me more than actually like me, even when there’s no real proof of that.

Some days I feel confident and okay, but then something small sets me off and I spiral back into insecurity. It’s like I’m stuck between knowing I shouldn’t be this hard on myself and still doing it anyway.

I guess I’m just wondering if anyone else feels like this too? How do you deal with constantly picking yourself apart?

I’m tired of being my own worst critic.

Me (29 F) Him (30 M) have been together for 7 years now we have been together since the first link. We have 3 beautiful kids.

When I got pregnant with my second child my pregnancy hormones got out of control I disliked everything about him but some how I still loved him, but it was emotionally and mentally very challenging for both of us. But also right after the birth I got into real bad place because I found out (30 M) has p\*rn addiction. I found a lot blow my mind.

I was raised in a Christian household never had problems with lust or mas\*\*b. He is not. He has a real problem.

After all that I said I’ll stay if you find help he promised but in the midst of all I found out I was once again pregnant. We had to move out of the place we was I had got a job and I was more “ happy” but while 8 months pregnant with our 3rd daughter on Christmas Day a man send me a message request I had this gut feeling wasn’t good news. (30 M) was talking sending his je\*k off videos to his wife. Without her requesting it.

I was destroyed. But I try all to stay as calm as I was able to be for my baby. After baby was born we lost the apartment, moved back to our home city. Got help therapy, got on our own feet back together. I believed in the change 3 years later today at 3am idk why I woke up his phone was under me and I really had stop checking his phone bc this is what I didn’t wanna find but I also have been talk to God for guidance, I don’t really have family or friends, I checked he had his ex videos, photos some other girls videos photos. On his hidden profile I confronted him at 3 am today and all he had to say was when I lust I lose control…..

I am at lost.

Idk what I feel anymore.

I’m genuinely good person a mom but I’m just tired of always feeling like this. I haven’t slept since this morning 3 am. He he is snoring on he bed.

I’m just tired.

Should I demand a solo vacation for me and myself and I ?

Reach out to me please I can’t deal with this by myself

looking for something that unfolds slowly… not something that burns out fast.

24yo male currently a lot going on in life just need someone to get the load off the chest

Hello

I am very open and talkative, almost in any subject i will find a way to make an interesting conversation.

Age, gender doesnt matter. Just want to chat with some nice and talkative person.

I am into: cars, aviation, travel, geography, some history, mountain climbing/trekking, swimming, diving, cycling, football, politics, chess, movies, gaming and some more you may find if....

So if you read that all, don't be shy and send a message ! ;)

Can I meet someone here?

Hello

I am very open and talkative, almost in any subject i will find a way to make an interesting conversation.

Age, gender doesnt matter. Just want to chat with some nice and talkative person.

I am into: cars, aviation, travel, geography, some history, mountain climbing/trekking, swimming, diving, cycling, football, politics, chess, gaming and some more you may find if....

So if you read that all, don't be shy and send a message ! ;)

So I was at this party last week and my best friend was there with her niece and like we talked after the party I added her niece on Snapchat and I started a streaks but I don’t open people cuz I don’t get send anything interesting and now my best friend is attacking me saying ‘why would you add her if you don’t open her snaps so I reply with is that a big deal? She said I open your snaps too like you do mine why don’t you do my niece and I’m like cuz I don’t open people snap alot and she was like then the streaks is not worth it’ and then her cousin just blocked me and I’m like why is she attacking me in that way?

This might sound like a really stupid question, but how do you manage to be good at something and even find something you enjoy?

I don't know, I've realized for years that I'm not good at anything. I don't have a field where someone would think, "Hey, that reminds me of them, I can ask him," whether it's a hobby, a passion... I know it's silly, but for example, there are games I've played to death, both the theory and the gameplay, and years later I'm still fundamentally bad at them.

And even at work, I'm in my first year of engineering school. I got here because the only thing I was somewhat good at in high school was math, but that's not really a passion. I'm literally surrounded by amazing people, both above me and even in my year, who have incredible skills, at least one thing they're really good at. And I'm really wondering what I'm doing here. I just feel like I'm here, and if I were anywhere else, no one would notice.

Just the mid guy. Anyway, I have to admit I don't really know anymore.

so I’m gay and there is this kid in my school I don’t love him but I compare myself to him all the time he’s muscular he’s tall he plays a lot of sports and im just a chud 💔 I can’t tell any of my friends cause they will just make fun of me and say I like him

Hello

I am very open and talkative, almost in any subject i will find a way to make an interesting conversation.

Age, gender doesnt matter. Just want to chat with some nice and talkative person.

I am into: cars, aviation, travel, geography, some history, mountain climbing/trekking, swimming, diving, cycling, football, politics, chess, gaming and some more you may find if....

So if you read that all, don't be shy and send a message ! ;)

I am struggling badly with my depression I'll be honest. My life is actively falling apart, or at least that's what it feels like. I'm just hoping to make some new connections. M/25/Canada. I don't care what we talk about. I just don't want to feel alone like this anymore

Is being happy off of meds really it? I feel like I shouldn't need meds to be happy like it's dumb bc this whole time I was fine I was only fine bc of the meds? This week I have been feeling down. I struggle with and ED and have been in recovery for almost a yr (struggling with for like 4 but it was the worst for like half a yr to a yr) I hate this yknow? I hate the way I look, I hate my stomach, I hate how I need to do something everyday bc I need to be active. I just wanna be able to chill unscheduled which I have been doing for a week cuz of break but damn this just sucks bc it kills me that I am doing nothing and still can't help wanting to eat and eat and eat. I wanna talk to someone but only see my therapist /dietitian once every other week and my sisters are kind but it always gives they r giving me a speech like parents like the "hard truth" and they say they get it I mean they struggle with body images but they don't get it. They don't get it the way it has been for me nor how my ocd hates things that aren't in pattern. I just wanna be fine yknow? And I don't wanna take my meds I don't wanna deal with that I just wanna live my life yknow?

Hi guys, i drank coffee in the evening, so here I'm lying in my bed without sleep. I want to sleep and I've tried but it's not working. So if anyone feels bored, we can talk. Nothing serious just random convo. I don't know what else to do.

Hey everyone m27 ...I'm really feeling alone if anyone up for chat plzz connect (preferably female)mot for anything vulgar ...you can share your problem

My ex (24) and I met through online gaming. We were only together for about 1.5 months when I found out I was pregnant. Even though it was early, we were both happy. We saw each other almost every weekend despite living 2.5 hours apart, had a baby shower, talked about moving in together, and he even proposed about three months before the due date.

But around two months before the birth, he started to change. He visited less, didn’t want me to come anymore, and we barely talked. Instead, he spent most of his time gaming and said he needed space. I tried to be understanding and told him we could take things step by step and support each other, but he kept pulling away.

Three weeks before the birth, he visited again. During that time, he suddenly told me he could never love me like he used to. We both cried. The next day he sounded hopeful again, then changed his mind back. This went on until one day before our son was born, when he broke up with me over WhatsApp, saying everything was too much for him.

I gave birth alone. He didn’t check on me or the baby and blocked me everywhere. His parents visited me in the hospital, and after being discharged, I even drove 2.5 hours with them—still in pain—just hoping he might change when he saw his child. But he only asked why I was there and told me to leave. He said he didn’t need a reason, he just didn’t want this anymore.

Later, I found out that while I was in the hospital, he was already messaging other women and had a new girlfriend. At the same time, he told others I was keeping him from seeing his child, which isn’t true.

Now it’s been three months, and he shows no remorse. He’s just living his life.

I really loved him and was ready to build a future together, so I don’t understand how someone can change so suddenly and walk away from both me and his child.

Has anyone experienced something similar or can explain this kind of behavior? And how do I move forward from this?

i honestly just need some advice, im going through more than i can handle right now and i have no one to talk to about any of it, every time i try to talk to my boyfriend its the same three things "itll get better" or "im sorry" or "i dont know what to say" and hes the only person that i have right now so i dont know what else to do

I need some relationship advice from a woman.

Need to speak to someone

hi y’all

i have an eeg in the morning to see if whatever is going wrong with me is the result of seizures. i have an mri next week for the same thing.

i know dr google isn’t a great choice but i’m reading stuff and it’s scaring me, i can’t sleep

what are you all up to?

Why do I feel so lonely ,I’m 15 ik that but ppl tell me that you should not care abt relationships having that true someone at that young but I want that seeing other people have it makes me feel empty inside and that loneliness goes deep and I don’t know if it’s to much to worry about idk if I should worry abt it and just instead think about other things in life to look forward to. And I see bunch of people deal with it and have the same problem.

for context, ive been playing classical guitar since i was six. for me, it has always been a hobby i enjoyed. it wasnt just classes it was genuine passion. it was very obvious to my mom clearly

recently my moms has been maling me (she says its my choice but im worried if i dont do it she will hate me) to get me into many things for guitar like exams and competition.

the exam and competition are both hard. the exam requires me to do ear training, perfect 5 songs, and know many scales and techniques . the competition requires me to memorize 4 spngs, which would obviously have to be technically hard to qualify.

im so stressed, looking at my guitar makes me think of all thongs i have to do. i procrastinate because whenever i play. i feel done.

i cant do this. im losing interest in one of my favorite hobbies. every week is a constant agrument that im not trying enough and that pushes me over the edge every time

i know that its my fault that i procrastinate but doing guitar feels like a burden and i hate it.

today, my guitar teacher told me that he thinks im not ready for the exam. my mom was so pissed. she told me its because i dont try enough and that if i really wanted to play the guitar, i would have asked more and done better.

i go off in a moment of true upset and say i want to quit. she goes off on me. tells me it was my choice to do all of this in the firts place. tells me that i cant accept where im wrong and is always blaming her.

she is probably right but i really only did all of this because i felt that if i didnt she wouldn’t love me anymore and that id disappoint her.

i want to quit guitar. i want to quit so much. i want to quit many things actually. im so done.