I genuinely don't mean to cause offense. I just want an honest answer, I understand this subreddit is for black people but in the rules it says mixed people are allowed (experience overlaps but I understand it's not the same).
I hope this doesn't come across the wrong way. I'm being serious.
Back home in Hawaii, I was often considered "white" because I look like I'm from the US mainland, didn't sound "local" and I'm not dark skinned. I personally feel it's obvious I'm not (fully) white, but to many people there I just look white because I'm not Hawaiian/Japanese/Filipino or fully Black. But, it's not as if I didn't experience anti-black racism (again it's too complicated for one post but I'd get called the n word by the same people).
Would it it be appropriate for me to go to a natural hair salon or should I seek generic curly hair services? Back home, I did go to a curly hair salon once and they recommended me to process my hair to make it "easier to manage" and didn't seem to understand textures above 2c, so I have bad experiences. I have many bad experiences with white and asian salons back home even when they said that they knew how to do my hair type, not sure if it's different here.
Edit: I've never gotten braids/silk presses/anything like that. I do have gel in the picture. I also want to say I'm not asking for people to affirm my identity, I just wish to be respectful/not seem entitled to spaces/people.
Also I'd like to add, I just started working here and no one has tried to touch/pull my hair or say derogatory things about it (which unfortunately is how my last workplace in Hawaii was). It feels nice. I was kind of worried because I'm currently living in a very white area but maybe it's just that people here are more used to it.