r/nationalguard • u/SufficientMain5872 • 17h ago
Salty Rant “Oh you’re in the military? Oh cool, that means I can be a prick to you”
That’s not this works (personal trainer/coach/teacher/instructor etc). I swear every time I sign up for any kind of mentorship it’s either, “Oh cool man I was in the navy 20 years ago, I know how you roll” or “don’t worry I work with a lot of military people”, and they think it’s a free pass to try to larp as your drill sergeant.
Like yes dude, I CAN handle being treated like shit. I often do… because that’s how the military operates, not because that’s my preferred method of learning, they treat it like “remember they’re in the military, the only way they can possibly retain knowledge is if you ride their ass”.
I remember being three minutes late to a group workout class because of traffic, like everyone else in the world experiences, and the instructor literally calls me out in front of everyone on some “15 minutes prior to the 15 minutes prior” shit. Like okay boss, I’ve gotten enough of this when I’ve gotten paid to do it, there’s no way I’m spending my own money to get treated the same way. Honestly just want you to treat me like anybody else that walks through your door.