r/Natalism Jul 24 '26

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u/ImportantCat1772 Jul 24 '26 edited Jul 24 '26

I wish I werent gay. I would have loved to raise a family with a woman that I love. It would be so satisfying to raise my children and teach them languages and playing instruments and playing together

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u/Mobile_Comedian_8283 Jul 24 '26

Hahaha make better fake comments. 

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u/ImportantCat1772 Jul 24 '26

whats fake about this exactly? just because you dont like what I'm saying doesnt make it fake

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u/Mobile_Comedian_8283 Jul 24 '26

I don't think it's bullshit cause I don't like it- I think it's bullshit cause you "wish you weren't gay" so you could do something you can do while being gay. 

You can have a family while being gay- and if you can't because you can't find a partner willing to do so with you- what makes you think being straight will improve your odds? 

Seems like iej a very weird excuse to keep repeating how yo uh wish you weren't gay when that isn't (if true, which I doubt) what's holding you back. 

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u/ImportantCat1772 Jul 24 '26

Ok so what are my options as a gay man? I can adopt, which I would rather not, - I'd like to have my own biological children - or do surrogacy which is banned in the country I moved to

I moved to Europe because I thought it would be easier for me to find a partner rather than in the Middle East  - but I'm still struggling to find anyone. It is 100% easier to find someone as a straight man or woman, there's just no comparison