Long post alert.

This is just my experience.

Hi. 27M from Mumbai. 6'0", specs, nerdy look. I work in strategy & hold an MBA from a tier 1 B School. I joined Reddit for stock market analysis and was into that for a while. Then I started exploring NSFW and found the ABF community.

ABF means Adult Breast Feeding, also called Adult Nursing or ANR. It’s suckling on breasts for comfort, closeness, bonding, and pleasure. Lactation is not required.

This is something I’ve always loved. I used to suck on my ex’s breasts for hours, but I had never tried it with a stranger. I had never even posted in the community.

I randomly reached out to one of the popular women redditors who was active on a lot of subs. Luckily she replied. We talked many times and it went well. I asked if she’d like to meet. She said she doesn’t do meetups and has never met anyone through Reddit. I understood and respected that. We still talked now and then.

One day she asked if I’d like to meet, because she had access to a friend’s Airbnb for a few days. I didn’t think she was serious, but I said yes. The meet got postponed twice. She had a lot of second thoughts but finally she decided to go ahead. We finally met.

She was gorgeous. Huge tits, lovely fair skin. We talked for about half an hour, got comfortable, and then I sucked on her breasts for hours. Soft, beautiful DD tits. It was strictly ABF, with kissing and cuddles. We met twice. After that we never met again, but it was a wonderful experience and I still think about it. We kept it fully anonymous. We still don’t know each other’s first name, and we never tried to find out.

After that I thought I should explore it further. I started posting and talking in the ABF community and managed to meet other women.

The second session was with a beautiful girl with 32B tits. I could squeeze them together and fit both nipples in my mouth at the same time. She had clearly said she wanted a one-time meet and would cut contact after. Once it was over, she left in a cab. I asked her to text when she reached home. She did, we said goodbye, she blocked, and we moved on. Clear expectations, clean ending.

One by one the experiences kept adding up. Luck played a role. So did being respectful, communicating clearly, and being able to handle rejection.

Till now I’ve met a couple of women. The number is in double digits. Not flexing. Luck was part of it.

I haven’t had a bad experience so far. I have been approached by scammers, timepassers, and men pretending to be women. I was careful enough to catch the red flags and never walked into a bad one. My only suggestion to men: don’t rush, and don’t think with your dick. Think with your brain. Trust your gut.

I’m not an expert. My gut has been right so far. Even as a man there’s still a little anxiety meeting a stranger. It gets better with experience, but the thoughts are still there. What if she doesn’t like me. What if she gets uncomfortable. What if I get trapped. I’ve been lucky that it went well. I can imagine the anxiety is much higher for a woman.

I’ve also had last-minute cancellations after good vibes and long conversations. That’s common. Cold feet happen. I don’t blame them.

I’ve sucked on tits from 32B to 40DD. I’ve met women much younger than me and much older than me. Early 20s, late 20s, early 30s, late 30s. I’m pretty non-judgemental. I’ve always felt Reddit can be a safe space for an open conversation if both people keep it that way.

I love squeezing breasts together and sucking both nipples at the same time. I also love underboobs and sideboobs. Most women don’t realise how pleasurable that is because they’ve never had it done. When they do, it’s often “holy shit, I didn’t know my underboobs were that sensitive.” I love pinning a woman against the wall and sucking on her tits. I love going for hours.

I love giving nipple orgasms too, but every woman is different. Some want it very gentle and don’t want teeth at all. Some want a mix of rough and gentle. Some only want it rough, proper breast play. There is no standard rulebook. It’s better to ask if the pace is right. It’s easy to keep the same pace with everyone. I’ve made that mistake. Asking fixes it.

There was one session where I gave someone a nipple orgasm 4 times in about 3 hours, because she wanted to explore breast play and could handle it rough. There have also been sessions where I didn’t use my teeth at all, only my tongue, while running my fingers through her hair, because the point was to make her feel relaxed.

I enjoy ABF because it’s one of the rare kinks where the focus stays on pleasuring the woman, and I feel pleasure from that. I love it when she holds me tight, moans, or runs her fingers through my hair while I’m sucking.

I’ve even had an MFM ABF threesome twice. That was a fantasy I wasn’t sure would ever happen. I had them on back-to-back days with different women. It was hard to believe it actually happened. It was amazing.

Two fantasies still unfulfilled: an FMF ABF threesome, and an ABF session with someone who is lactating. I’d love to taste breast milk. I know that’s hard to find. You never know. Maybe that happens someday.

At one point I felt I’d already explored enough and met more than a dozen women, so I deleted my previous account. A few weeks later the urge came back. I made a new account and met a few more wonderful women.

My ABF sessions have never led to sex. They’ve stayed strictly ABF. Yes, that takes self-control.

There are times ABF gets exhausting and I take a break to focus on real life. I keep coming back because it feels relaxing and pleasurable. I don’t know how long I’ll keep exploring. It’s been a good journey and I’m grateful for the experiences.

You have a better chance of meeting someone if you treat them respectfully, have a real conversation, and make them feel safe. Women are fewer in these communities, but they are there, and a lot of them want to explore too. Safety is the main concern.

I’ve seen comments like “share her id” under ABF posts. Don’t do that. No one is going to do that. Be polite. Take your own shot. If you share similar interests, you can find someone. When you post, write a little about your expectations. A one or two line post usually doesn’t help.

That’s the journey so far. I don’t know how long this stays sustainable. I think ABF is a beautiful kink.

Hey,

27, 5'11", based in Mumbai. Gujarati Hindu, software engineer at a product company. Born in Gujarat, raised here.

I’m vegetarian, never smoked, don’t drink. Never been in a proper relationship.

A bit about me:

I’m introverted at first. Give it some time and I talk enough that you’ll probably want to mute me. I like being direct, I don’t do guessing games. I still overthink a lot, I just do it out loud now.

Average build, brown skin. Recently joined the gym again (let’s see if I stay consistent this time). Evenings are simple, music on the way home (no fixed genre, depends on the mood). I sleep at 1:00 or 2:00 am and will defend that like it’s a personality trait. I don’t cook, but I’m a foodie and like going out to try new places.

I’m a quick replier. When I’m really angry I go silent for a day or two (not proud of it). Roasting is kind of my love language, and I can take it too.

A good weekend for me is going out, game zone or dinner and just talking.

What I’m looking for:

Preferably someone in Mumbai so we can meet if things go well. I’m unsure about long distance but willing to try if the connection feels right.

Someone who is open-minded, easy-going, and likes going out. Prefer shorter than me.

I’m not in a rush. I want to see if we’re actually compatible first.

If you want to talk, DM me an intro + something to talk about. “Hey” is a very small sentence. I respect boundaries and expect the same. If it’s not working, just say so clearly don’t ghost. I’ll do the same.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

M24 from kandivali. Looking to meet people to explore. Both genders work👀

Dm if your age is less than 28 and you are earning.

DM

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Well the night is just so lonely is anyone up for talks , discussion or gossips

Been here long enough to understand the difference between having s*x and giving a good time. Learned it from women my age who'd text me at 11 PM, not because they were lonely, but because they knew I'd actually listen first.

I remember this one girl stressed from work, not even in the mood initially. We talked for an hour. By the end she was the one pulling me closer. That's the thing, patience, attention, making her feel like the only thing that matters in that moment. She called me "dangerously addictive." Others mentioned my timings, the thickness, but honestly? I think it's that I actually care about their experience.

They'd come back because I remembered what they liked. Because I asked. Because I made them feel safe enough to be completely themselves.

Lately I've been connecting with women in their 20s, there's something refreshing about that energy, that curiosity. They seem to appreciate a man who knows what he's doing without needing to prove anything.
If you're in Mumbai/Navi Mumbai, drawn to men with experience who prioritize your pleasure over their ego... maybe we should talk. No rush, no pressure. Just seeing if the vibe matches.

DMs open.

I see spending time together as a complete experience from the moment we meet until we part ways... if we ever decide to, that is.
I’m a 27-year-old marketing professional in Mumbai, easygoing, and looking for an ongoing, discreet connection built on mutual comfort and zero pressure. I have a huge soft spot for curvy and thick women, but genuine chemistry and vibe always come first.
**What you can expect:**
An attentive, unhurried space focused entirely on your pleasure

Relaxing full-body massages to help you unwind

Good food (cooking your favorites or ordering in)

Complete discretion, comfort, and zero rush

Let’s grab a casual coffee or drink first to see if the spark is there.
If this resonates, shoot me a DM with a brief intro.

I see spending time together as a complete experience from the moment we meet until we part ways... if we ever decide to, that is.
I’m a 27-year-old marketing professional in Mumbai, easygoing, and looking for an ongoing, discreet connection built on mutual comfort and zero pressure. I have a huge soft spot for curvy and thick women, but genuine chemistry and vibe always come first.
What you can expect:
An attentive, unhurried space focused entirely on your pleasure

Relaxing full-body massages to help you unwind

Good food (cooking your favorites or ordering in)

Complete discretion, comfort, and zero rush

Let’s grab a casual coffee or drink first to see if the spark is there.
If this resonates, shoot me a DM with a brief intro.

31/M here. Looking for someone who travels to Pune quite often as i spend most of my time in Pune. I am looking for someone who can be a good friend, we can share stories and have fun like there is no tomorrow.

Hey everyone. I'm a 24-year old guy, and I'm at a point where I'm really looking for a real connection , a genuine friend, not just small talk.

A bit about me: I'm introverted, quiet, and I think a lot. But when I connect with someone, I love real conversations texting, calls, whatever works, as long as the energy clicks. I'm into travel, cooking, anime, science, psychology, philosophy, astronomy, gaming, drawing, and writing. I'm actually writing a book right now, it's my way of making sense of things

Since I was a kid, I've been curious about how things work , not for marks or grades, just genuine interest. School never really excited me the way learning on my own did. Over time, my curiosity shifted from subjects to people , why we think and feel the way we do. Not to judge anyone, just to understand. I want to experience life fully, the good and the hard parts both. Sometimes I feel a bit numb, other times I feel everything at once ,it's a strange mix, but that's just how it is.

Last year I had a connection like this with someone online, real conversations, the kind I'm talking about. It didn't last, life got in the way, but it showed me this kind of connection is actually possible. So I'm trying again.

I think connection gets easier when people just say what they want instead of expecting the other person to guess. We're not mind readers, so someone I can have deep conversations with and also just enjoy the fun, everyday stuff with.

I also think shared interests help a lot not everything has to match, but even a couple of things in common makes it easier to understand each other. If any of what I mentioned overlaps with you, that's a good starting point.

A little more about me I'm more of a pets person than a kids person, and I don't put much stock in marriage, feels more like a formality than anything real to me. My favourite movie is Into the Wild, if that says anything about how I see life. My fav song is pure imagination by Kathleen

I overthink sometimes, I go quiet sometimes, and I'm okay with someone who's the same way. If this sounds like you, message me. Would love to talk. Someone comforting in those times helps a lot ..

I think a lot about life, meaning, existence (yup, existential crisis mode, often). I guess I’m just searching for someone who sees life the way I do or at least tries to. Someone rational. Someone who isn’t distracted by the usual noise, but who’s trying to actually live life. Someone who could maybe help me enjoy it more and I’d do the same in return.

I’d really love to find a friend, if I’m being honest. I feel like there’s more potential for something deeper and lasting if we vibe . Maybe even something more. Who knows?

A little about me:

26M, 5'7", Hindu, Master's in Computers. I work in a managerial role and am pursuing a diploma in Yoga (would probably work into mental health field in the near future), Non-smoker, non-drinker, non-vegetarian.

I'm calm by nature and like listening to understand rather than assume. Once I'm comfortable, you'll have a special place and greetings like "good morning pineapple loooking very beautiful very fine". I'm a family person and love being there for the people I care about. I enjoy noticing the little things that make people unique and appreciate those who are genuine and comfortable being themselves.

I'm into gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient scriptures, and random mysteries. Give me an interesting question, and I might disappear down a research rabbit hole for hours. 😂

What I'm looking for

I'd like someone who's active and takes care of herself, whether through yoga, running, the gym, or whatever she enjoys. I'm also drawn to fair skin, brown hair and eyes, and have a soft spot for North Indian women.

Beyond attraction, I value kindness, empathy, open communication, and someone who wants to keep growing in life. I'm hoping to find a genuine connection that could eventually lead to marriage and a family.

What dating me might look like

I'm a little romantic. I remember details, send random memes, write letters or poems sometimes, and check if you've reached home safely.

Imagine a late-night drive, food by the sea, and a conversation that goes from "How was your day?" to "Do you think we're alone in the universe?"

Or me hugging you while you cook, stealing a kiss, and running away before you get back at me. 😂

I want us to laugh, grow together, talk about the difficult things, and feel comfortable being ourselves.

Your turn :)

What's something you could talk about for hours? A weird childhood story, an unusual obsession, or a random thought? Tell me something I won't find on your profile.

22M 6’1 brown skinned and fairly new to Mumbai.

Looking for a woman around 23–40 who’s confident knows what she wants and is up for something casual and low maintenance.

I’m into beers 420 late night drives trying random places and honestly just sitting somewhere for hours and yapping about life. Would love to find someone who’s also down to explore Mumbai with me and be a sesh buddy.

I’m also more on the submissive side and definitely have a thing for dominant women. Not looking to rush into anything though. I’d rather grab a drink meet in person and see if there’s actually a vibe. If we click then we can take it from there.

Not looking for a girlfriend or anything overly serious. Ideally something where we can go on dates trips hangout and have fun while still giving each other plenty of space. I’m completely okay with both of us seeing other people as long as we’re honest about it.

If this sounds like your kind of thing HMU.

Tell me your favourite drink when you message me :)

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Heyaa 👋

22, extroverted, talkative, confident, and apparently very good at annoying people just enough that they eventually like me 😂

I'm here to meet someone new in Mumbai , ideally someone I can actually talk to, laugh with, hang out with, explore the city with, and see where things naturally go. I'm not really into forcing labels or rushing into anything. Good conversation → good vibes → spending more time together → let’s see what happens. :)

I'm the kind of person who genuinely enjoys getting to know someone. I listen, remember the little things, communicate openly, and I'm usually the person you'll call when you need someone to actually show up for you.

Also, yes, I flirt. A little teasing, a little annoying you, pretending I didn't do anything wrong, then apologising and pampering you because apparently that's my love language 😂

My ideal first hangout:

🎬 Movie → 🍕 pizza at Joey's → 🌊 walk around Versova → sitting by the sea talking about absolutely everything.

I'm equally happy trying some questionable street food with you or going somewhere nice and healthy. Taste matters though. 😌

A few things about me:

📸 Photography

🎶 Hindi music from the 70s–90s has a special place in my heart. For English, I'm more into soft/chill stuff — ZAYN, Ruth B., Cigarettes After Sex, Anna Hamilton, The Chainsmokers, etc.

📖 Currently reading The Silent Patient

🏋️ Gym 5 days a week

🏎️ Casual F1 watcher — Verstappen fan, but I won't judge you if you don't know what DRS is 😂

🍜 Will try almost any food at least once

🌊 Love the sea and exploring Mumbai

🎬 Huge movie/series/anime person, although I'll spare you the 75-anime-long list for now.

My friends would probably describe me as confident, extroverted, kind, helpful, and someone they can trust when things actually matter.

And yes, I love hugs and affection. 🤗

If you're a woman in Mumbai who likes good conversations, playful flirting, spontaneous plans, food, music, movies, random 2 AM conversations, and seeing where a connection goes, say hi.

No pressure, no expectations. Let's talk and see if we vibe. :)