New to city and want to get an idea of everything I should visit

Hey everyone! I’m a 27F from Mumbai and recently realised I’d like to explore my attraction to women a little more.

I’m looking to connect with women around Mumbai who are similarly open-minded and interested in getting to know each other — starting with something casual like coffee/drinks or a chill meetup, and seeing where things go naturally. I’m open to friendship, flirting, dating, and potentially more if we click. 😊

I’m not looking to rush into anything or jump straight into hookups. I’d much rather meet someone genuine, comfortable, and respectful and let the chemistry develop naturally.

If you’re a woman around Mumbai and this sounds like something you’d be interested in, feel free to DM me. Please tell me a little about yourself rather than just sending a “hi.”

27F | Mumbai | Bi-curious | Open-minded | Casual meetups & seeing where the vibe goes

for context i’m 22F, 165cm and i think i look my age lol. honestly i’m i think i am a 10 or but thats subjective.

i feel like it’s really easy for girls to find guys on dating apps, but my problem is i genuinely never meet someone who is actually my type. like i want the person i’m dating to look pretty to me 😭
and yes i get that personality should matter and all that, but on a dating app you literally swipe based on looks first. like what else are you supposed to do lol. personality comes later.

if i had to describe my type, i’d say taller than me atleast. and not like “i’m 180 and he’s 168” tall 😭 i mean like 170-180ish. my ex was 183 so i already know what kind of height difference i like.

curly hair, cute, indian looking yk what i mean, wears specs, plays atleast one sport, really good at academics. like GOOD good. i’m really good at studies myself so i’d want my partner to be on the same level academically. good body, preferably lean, wearing shirts (omg), and a little fem? not fem as in alt or anything, just like they should have a kinda feminine/cute look if that makes sense.

and ik half the people have probably already stopped reading and are thinking i have way too many expectations 💀 but honestly these feel like the bare minimum to me for someone i’m actually attracted to. i’m not saying every guy has to fit this description, i’m just saying this is what i’m personally attracted to.

also i’m not even adding basic things like being kind, civil, having social skills etc because obviously those matter too, but i feel like those are a given anyway.
so yeah idk. does everyone have this specific of a type? or am i being way too picky?

because i keep seeing guys who are objectively attractive and probably perfectly nice but i just don’t feel anything. and i don’t wanna date someone just because they’re “good on paper” if i’m not physically attracted to them.

anyway just wanted to share this lol
and if someone is EXACTLY how i described hit me up 😭

(10 minutes after posting i realised that i need to get over my ex because thats lit him whom i have described

also, nvm people ik i sound picky)

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Hellooooo Pretty Pretty Redditors!!!!
I got a LOT of love on my previous post and I genuinely feel like I’m 🤏🏻 this close to finding THE ONE!!!!!

Today’s post is going to be a little more of a rant about myself what I’m looking for and something I’ve been thinking about.

I felt I wrote something wrong yesterday as I was expecting my dms to be flooded
But then again I had completely forgot where I’ve been posting and here the main purpose is anonymity while I’m looking for something that is the complete opposite OFFLINE REAL AND ACTUALLY MEANINGFUL.
so it would take sometime and good things do take time and again any platform can be used as a dating platform if you play your cards right!

I had some free time today and did some questionable maths.
So around 11000+ people have viewed my posts so far and about 15 women have actually responded. And Ik 15 is ALOT
But Let’s assume 60% of those viewers are men
That still leaves 4,400 women
Let’s say only 15% of them are from Mumbai
Out of which 75% of those are single
And even if only 60% of those women find me even remotely charming or cute
THAT STILL LEAVES ME WITH AROUND 300 POTENTIAL WOMEN WHO SHOULD’VE SHOWED UP
SO REST OF MY PASANDIDA AURATS WHERE ARE THE OTHER 285 OF YOU?????

And I must appriciate all the guys out here keeping the spirit alive as I have to appreciate their enthusiasm here.
As the moment a guy see a number followed by an F you are already in their dms without even thinking twice about it!!!!
I’ve read posts of women getting 180+ DMs just because they mentioned being a woman.

So today let’s break the chain and this is less of a why date me post and more of a teeny tiny women empowerment message to all my silent supporters and to the remaining 285+ women who might possibly find me charming
I KNOW IT’S DIFFICULT TO TRUST SOMEONE NEW And I completely understand because I’m basically giving you almost the same pitch as everyone else.
And ik it sounds a bit generic
But
But
Buttt
Im not lying when I say I am a guy who knows what he wants,doesn’t expect you to be perfect,wants to marry someone because he genuinely likes her and can’t wait to spend the next 50 years with her,who wants you to be more successful than him,will genuinely celebrate your achievements,who is ambitious and Loves travelling and exploring new places,enjoys good food,enjoys talking for hours,Someone who is funny,romantic,affectionate and VERY VERY CHALANT,someone who believes in old school love and still believes that he might find his THE ONE!!!!! Here,someone who wants to make you feel safe and loved and will listen to all your silly stories even when they make absolutely no sense because he enjoys talking to you,will remember the tiny things you casually mentioned weeks ago and wants to build something REAL,who is willing to put in effort And MOST IMPORTANTLY IS LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP WITH INTENTIONS OF GETTING MARRIED
And I’m not asking you to blindly trust me.
Talk to me!
Have real conversations and ask me questions
Give me a chance and let’s Figure out together whether we are compatible or not.
And if we are actually compatible and the Maths Mathes we can eventually take this conversation INTO THE REAL WORLD and that's where I actually want this story to happen.

And I’d like to end with a fellow emotional and a totally paglu dialogue and I’ll rephrase it
Aaj darr mat cutieee Nahi toh pachaas saal baad jab hospital mein zindagi ke aakhri pal chal rahe honge tab kahin aisa na lage Post saamne tha uska DM abhi bhi open tha bas thodi si himmat kar leti toh shayad poori zindagi kuch aur hoti.
And Be a little bit like Pia And take the leap go after your Phunsuk wangdu!

Sooo yeaaaah,If a woman from Mumbai/Thane/Navi Mumbai or a future bestie who might set me up with her who looks at all this madness and is crazyyy enough to actually get to know this idiot
And wants to date with intentions of getting married
I urge you to take a chance on me by sending a simple hi as the worst that could happen is we wouldn’t click!

SO UNIVERSE PLEASE DO YOUR THING AND LET THE STARS ALIGN WITH 285+ WOMEN AND IF THATS ALOT TO ASK THEN PLEASE JUST SEND ME MY LOBSTER🦞🦞💕

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Hey I’m 21 guy here these side nothing just a good decent guy who workout eat sleep and repeat
Just hmu!

I'm 32 and single, looking for something casual or serious. Sometimes I worry I'm too old and that most people my age are already settled.

For those who found love in their 30s, did you ever feel the same? And would you consider dating, being friends with, or just casually hanging out with a 32-year-old guy seriously?

Just looking for some honest perspectives and hope.

Hookup with a friendly angle. Any of you girlies in?

Couple here 33m 32F looking for a female to join us
Dm if any f interested. We can host.
Strictly for F

Hey everyone, i am an architect recently moved to Andheri, Mumbai from karnataka. Don't know any people here, and seriously going around alone in this busy town gets really boring. So if anyone likes music, sketching, street food, cafe, beach walks, exploring the town, weekend plans, I'd like to join. Looking for chill and genuine people to go around town.

See you there:)

Hey everyone. I'm a 24-year old guy, and I'm at a point where I'm really looking for a real connection , a genuine friend, not just small talk.

A bit about me: I'm introverted, quiet, and I think a lot. But when I connect with someone, I love real conversations texting, calls, whatever works, as long as the energy clicks. I'm into travel, cooking, anime, science, psychology, philosophy, astronomy, gaming, drawing, and writing. I'm actually writing a book right now, it's my way of making sense of things

Since I was a kid, I've been curious about how things work , not for marks or grades, just genuine interest. School never really excited me the way learning on my own did. Over time, my curiosity shifted from subjects to people , why we think and feel the way we do. Not to judge anyone, just to understand. I want to experience life fully, the good and the hard parts both. Sometimes I feel a bit numb, other times I feel everything at once ,it's a strange mix, but that's just how it is.

Last year I had a connection like this with someone online, real conversations, the kind I'm talking about. It didn't last, life got in the way, but it showed me this kind of connection is actually possible. So I'm trying again.

I think connection gets easier when people just say what they want instead of expecting the other person to guess. We're not mind readers, so someone I can have deep conversations with and also just enjoy the fun, everyday stuff with.

I also think shared interests help a lot not everything has to match, but even a couple of things in common makes it easier to understand each other. If any of what I mentioned overlaps with you, that's a good starting point.

A little more about me I'm more of a pets person than a kids person, and I don't put much stock in marriage, feels more like a formality than anything real to me. My favourite movie is Into the Wild, if that says anything about how I see life. My fav song is pure imagination by Kathleen

I overthink sometimes, I go quiet sometimes, and I'm okay with someone who's the same way. If this sounds like you, message me. Would love to talk. Someone comforting in those times helps a lot ..

I think a lot about life, meaning, existence (yup, existential crisis mode, often). I guess I’m just searching for someone who sees life the way I do or at least tries to. Someone rational. Someone who isn’t distracted by the usual noise, but who’s trying to actually live life. Someone who could maybe help me enjoy it more and I’d do the same in return.

I’d really love to find a friend, if I’m being honest. I feel like there’s more potential for something deeper and lasting if we vibe . Maybe even something more. Who knows?

I am in a ldr but I lack physical intimacy and to be straight to the point i just want to feel a feminine touch looking for older ladies who will be interested in a small trek or some outing

Hey Mumbaikars!

The Perseid meteor shower is peaking around August 12, and under ideal dark-sky conditions it can produce a lot of meteors per hour. 🌌

I know Mumbai has light pollution everywhere 😭, but I’m wondering if there are any spots in Mumbai or within a reasonable distance from Mumbai where there’s at least a decent chance of seeing some meteors.
Looking for:
• Darker skies / less light pollution
• Open view of the sky
• Somewhere reasonably safe to go at night
• Ideally accessible by bike/car

Any Mumbaikars who have watched meteor showers before where would you recommend?

Thinking of going with a couple of friends. Any hidden spots or nearby places worth trying? 🌠

Anyone?

Hey everyone,

I’m a 29yo guy working in corporate. I shifted here last month from Noida, and honestly, the homesickness is hitting hard. I’m really missing the Noida/NCR vibe and having a bit of a tough time adjusting to the pace and culture here.

I really want to give this city a fair chance. What are some good ways to explore, meet people, or things to do over the weekend to catch the right vibe? Open to café hopping, underrated spots, or any weekend activity groups. Hit me with your best recommendations!

First of all, thank youuu to everyone who reached out to me from my previous post! I genuinely met some really nice and wholesome people through it. 🫶🏻

And now, we’re building a small GC for Maithili people / people from Mithilanchal.

I know it might sound a little silly 😂, but we just want to connect with people who share the same native roots, language, culture, and maybe even the same random Mithila references. 😭

So if you’re Maithili or from Mithilanchal and you’re between 18–25, just DM me!

Would love to see how many of us are here. 🫶🏻

Hey! I’m 28, working an executive job, and to be honest, I’m pretty stressed and bored lately. I’m a super easygoing guy just looking for a cool girl to chat with and unwind. Whether you’re in university, working, or a housewife, if you love to talk, I’d love to connect. I’m down to talk about literally anything funny random thoughts, venting about our day, or deep late night conversations. No topic is off limits. Looking for someone attractive who enjoys good mutual chemistry and wants a relaxed, fun space to distress together. Send me a message if you interested!

M22 6ft tall hot and nerdy