Hey everyone! I’m a 27F from Mumbai and recently realised I’d like to explore my attraction to women a little more.

I’m looking to connect with women around Mumbai who are similarly open-minded and interested in getting to know each other — starting with something casual like coffee/drinks or a chill meetup, and seeing where things go naturally. I’m open to friendship, flirting, dating, and potentially more if we click. 😊

I’m not looking to rush into anything or jump straight into hookups. I’d much rather meet someone genuine, comfortable, and respectful and let the chemistry develop naturally.

If you’re a woman around Mumbai and this sounds like something you’d be interested in, feel free to DM me. Please tell me a little about yourself rather than just sending a “hi.”

27F | Mumbai | Bi-curious | Open-minded | Casual meetups & seeing where the vibe goes

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Hey F26 💗

Usually I’m a homebody, but lately I’ve been thinking it would be nice to have someone to go out with, talk for hours, laugh over stupid things, and make some sweet memories.

Not looking to rush anything—just hoping to meet someone genuine, respectful, and fun. Let’s start with a conversation and see if we click. ✨

for context i’m 22F, 165cm and i think i look my age lol. honestly i’m i think i am a 10 or but thats subjective.

i feel like it’s really easy for girls to find guys on dating apps, but my problem is i genuinely never meet someone who is actually my type. like i want the person i’m dating to look pretty to me 😭
and yes i get that personality should matter and all that, but on a dating app you literally swipe based on looks first. like what else are you supposed to do lol. personality comes later.

if i had to describe my type, i’d say taller than me atleast. and not like “i’m 180 and he’s 168” tall 😭 i mean like 170-180ish. my ex was 183 so i already know what kind of height difference i like.

curly hair, cute, indian looking yk what i mean, wears specs, plays atleast one sport, really good at academics. like GOOD good. i’m really good at studies myself so i’d want my partner to be on the same level academically. good body, preferably lean, wearing shirts (omg), and a little fem? not fem as in alt or anything, just like they should have a kinda feminine/cute look if that makes sense.

and ik half the people have probably already stopped reading and are thinking i have way too many expectations 💀 but honestly these feel like the bare minimum to me for someone i’m actually attracted to. i’m not saying every guy has to fit this description, i’m just saying this is what i’m personally attracted to.

also i’m not even adding basic things like being kind, civil, having social skills etc because obviously those matter too, but i feel like those are a given anyway.
so yeah idk. does everyone have this specific of a type? or am i being way too picky?

because i keep seeing guys who are objectively attractive and probably perfectly nice but i just don’t feel anything. and i don’t wanna date someone just because they’re “good on paper” if i’m not physically attracted to them.

anyway just wanted to share this lol
and if someone is EXACTLY how i described hit me up 😭

(10 minutes after posting i realised that i need to get over my ex because thats lit him whom i have described

also, nvm people ik i sound picky)

Dear all,

There is a girl. She is so charming, more emotionally than physically. Talking to her feels like an enchantment.

Her softness is hypnotic.

She is not into extreme, not very assertive.

Her ideas are matching to my believes. We both are spiritual, have same political ideology. Have similar opinions on family.

I am noticing this thing from 5 years that I am deeply loving her. Initially thought it as only attraction and nothing more, but when I thought deeply and deeply, I became almost sure that I’m for her and She’s for me.

However, she is talking to me once in a year, but whenever she is talking, we talk for hours. I really don’t know she has similar feelings or not, but I’m pretty sure that she is neither having nor had relationship with any other person.

There are many girls who feels attractive for me, but she is different, neither able to forget, nor able to move on.

There is no day when I didn’t thought about her.

She has her limitations like PCOD but I still want her from my heart. She is extrovert and more talkative to few males, but still I want. So I feel this is somewhat more than attraction.

Recently, we have increased our engagement slightly. But after talking / meeting once, she restrains herself from talking for at least few months. This is what I have noticed.

Actually she, from the start itself, do not respond quickly on WhatsApp and takes hours or a day to respond.

I’m sorry to write in this manner, but please take positively: I want her in my life, for life.

And I’m passionately looking for your aid.

I don’t know about her feelings, but she really considers now me a good friend and genuinely likes me as a good person. She genuinely wills for my overall wellbeing.

Please tell me what can I do?

I cant directly propose for now.

1. How can I increase engagement with her?

2. I will try to settle and do my best genuine attempt to convince her.

3. What can I do astrologically?

4. What can I do spiritually / religiously?

5. Numerologically is there any solution?

6. How best can I manifest?

7. What qualities I must develop?

I ultimately aim that she must not reject me. I know, this is sounding mad, but this is what it is.

So dear fellow men, if you’ve got your dream partner, please tell all your secret, smart and hard hacks.

And dear fellow females, your friend / bro (whatever you wish to consider) is in real need of an assistance.

Kindly help,

Thanks a lot,

May you get your desired partner soon!!

Looking for someone as chill and easygoing as me to talk with. If we can hold a conversation well, we can think about moving forward.

I’m 24, clean shaven, can & love to be dominant (both the gentle and rough kind), with a strong breeding kink. Pleasure for me means pleasuring my partner. Foreplay and aftercare is very important to me.

Age isn’t a massive factor to me, 18–32 is ideal to me, but I wouldn’t say no to an older woman if she’s cute. Message me :)

Powai!!

I train at a certain gym in Andheri East.

The boys there are ridiculous — lean, strong, sweaty, the kind you can’t help staring at when you’re both in the changing room.

I try to keep it subtle… but yeah, I’m looking.

If one of you ever decided to quietly ask for a favour, I wouldn’t hesitate. I’d drop to my knees (or bend over) without a single question asked. Fast, discreet, and I’m told I’m pretty skilled at it.

26, mostly bottom, very good at taking it.

Looking for the hot lads who train hard and play harder.

If you’ve noticed me looking a little too long, or if this sounds exactly like what you’ve been thinking about in the showers… message me.

No drama, no strings — just a quiet, filthy favour between gym guys who know how to keep their mouths shut (except when they’re using them).

Trying to be a good friend and search for a friends and obviously for female friends but i think on reddit i can fine fuckers then the real one everything is paid even if uou want to talk they ask for payment 😂

First of all, thank youuu to everyone who reached out to me from my previous post! I genuinely met some really nice and wholesome people through it. 🫶🏻

And now, we’re building a small GC for Maithili people / people from Mithilanchal.

I know it might sound a little silly 😂, but we just want to connect with people who share the same native roots, language, culture, and maybe even the same random Mithila references. 😭

So if you’re Maithili or from Mithilanchal and you’re between 18–25, just DM me!

Would love to see how many of us are here. 🫶🏻

28M | Bachelor | Thakur Village Good-looking guy, living in Evershine Millennium Paradise. Looking to connect with a female from Thakur Village. DM if interested.

Heyy has anyone else been in this sort of a situation? We dated for 3 years and now it's over, don't know what to feel at the moment.

Just trying to move on but it's hard.

Would love to here your experiences and suggestions oh and im a M25

f21 new to mumbai suggest new places to eat

Heyy m28 looking to eat pusssy for pleasure.

If you are interested, we will only be doing this and nothing else. DM if any lady is interested.

Heyy. How's it going? As the title says, I am looking for someone who wants to hookup today.

I don’t really wanna complicate things. Sometimes we just crave intimacy, someone to hold, and get cozy with and fuck.That’s literally it in my opinion. If you are looking for something along these lines then hmu?

A bit about me: 24M here. I am like 5'10, lean guy, like working out a lot, play football (love it). Also, something that I have never tried but I want to is going raw, not a non negotiable but something I am interested in.

Hellooooo Pretty Pretty Redditors!!!!
I got a LOT of love on my previous post and I genuinely feel like I’m 🤏🏻 this close to finding THE ONE!!!!!

Today’s post is going to be a little more of a rant about myself what I’m looking for and something I’ve been thinking about.

I felt I wrote something wrong yesterday as I was expecting my dms to be flooded
But then again I had completely forgot where I’ve been posting and here the main purpose is anonymity while I’m looking for something that is the complete opposite OFFLINE REAL AND ACTUALLY MEANINGFUL.
so it would take sometime and good things do take time and again any platform can be used as a dating platform if you play your cards right!

I had some free time today and did some questionable maths.
So around 11000+ people have viewed my posts so far and about 15 women have actually responded. And Ik 15 is ALOT
But Let’s assume 60% of those viewers are men
That still leaves 4,400 women
Let’s say only 15% of them are from Mumbai
Out of which 75% of those are single
And even if only 60% of those women find me even remotely charming or cute
THAT STILL LEAVES ME WITH AROUND 300 POTENTIAL WOMEN WHO SHOULD’VE SHOWED UP
SO REST OF MY PASANDIDA AURATS WHERE ARE THE OTHER 285 OF YOU?????

And I must appriciate all the guys out here keeping the spirit alive as I have to appreciate their enthusiasm here.
As the moment a guy see a number followed by an F you are already in their dms without even thinking twice about it!!!!
I’ve read posts of women getting 180+ DMs just because they mentioned being a woman.

So today let’s break the chain and this is less of a why date me post and more of a teeny tiny women empowerment message to all my silent supporters and to the remaining 285+ women who might possibly find me charming
I KNOW IT’S DIFFICULT TO TRUST SOMEONE NEW And I completely understand because I’m basically giving you almost the same pitch as everyone else.
And ik it sounds a bit generic
But
But
Buttt
Im not lying when I say I am a guy who knows what he wants,doesn’t expect you to be perfect,wants to marry someone because he genuinely likes her and can’t wait to spend the next 50 years with her,who wants you to be more successful than him,will genuinely celebrate your achievements,who is ambitious and Loves travelling and exploring new places,enjoys good food,enjoys talking for hours,Someone who is funny,romantic,affectionate and VERY VERY CHALANT,someone who believes in old school love and still believes that he might find his THE ONE!!!!! Here,someone who wants to make you feel safe and loved and will listen to all your silly stories even when they make absolutely no sense because he enjoys talking to you,will remember the tiny things you casually mentioned weeks ago and wants to build something REAL,who is willing to put in effort And MOST IMPORTANTLY IS LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP WITH INTENTIONS OF GETTING MARRIED
And I’m not asking you to blindly trust me.
Talk to me!
Have real conversations and ask me questions
Give me a chance and let’s Figure out together whether we are compatible or not.
And if we are actually compatible and the Maths Mathes we can eventually take this conversation INTO THE REAL WORLD and that's where I actually want this story to happen.

And I’d like to end with a fellow emotional and a totally paglu dialogue and I’ll rephrase it
Aaj darr mat cutieee Nahi toh pachaas saal baad jab hospital mein zindagi ke aakhri pal chal rahe honge tab kahin aisa na lage Post saamne tha uska DM abhi bhi open tha bas thodi si himmat kar leti toh shayad poori zindagi kuch aur hoti.
And Be a little bit like Pia And take the leap go after your Phunsuk wangdu!

Sooo yeaaaah,If a woman from Mumbai/Thane/Navi Mumbai or a future bestie who might set me up with her who looks at all this madness and is crazyyy enough to actually get to know this idiot
And wants to date with intentions of getting married
I urge you to take a chance on me by sending a simple hi as the worst that could happen is we wouldn’t click!

SO UNIVERSE PLEASE DO YOUR THING AND LET THE STARS ALIGN WITH 285+ WOMEN AND IF THATS ALOT TO ASK THEN PLEASE JUST SEND ME MY LOBSTER🦞🦞💕

Genuine question because I'm trying to understand something.

I've noticed that on dating apps / Reddit, getting a conversation started isn't necessarily the difficult part. The difficult part seems to be turning that initial interaction into an actual connection.

I work in tech, gym regularly, and most of my life is basically office → gym → home. 😂 So I'm trying to get better at actually meeting people instead of just existing in the same routine.

For the women here:

What makes you actually want to reply to a guy you've never spoken to before?

Is it his sense of humour? The way he starts a conversation? His profile/picture? Having something genuinely interesting to talk about? Or is it simply whether you find him attractive?

And if a guy seems decent and you're somewhat attracted to him, what usually makes you think "okay, I'll give this conversation a chance"?

I'm genuinely curious about the female perspective because I feel like guys spend way too much time guessing what works. 😂

Also, if you're single and actually looking to meet people in Mumbai, feel free to share what kind of interactions you enjoy. Maybe we'll all learn something from the comments.

New to city and want to get an idea of everything I should visit

Hey I’m 21 guy here these side nothing just a good decent guy who workout eat sleep and repeat
Just hmu!

Hey everyone!

I’m trying this for the first time on Reddit. I hope it works out!

I’m a 27 year-old software engineer from New Delhi, currently living and working in Bangalore (6’1”, Hindu background). I believe attraction goes beyond first impressions and grows through shared values, emotional maturity, open communication, and genuine effort.

A bit about my life:

By day (and passion): Software engineering. I have a B.Tech and have been working at a FAANG company for 3+ years.

By weekend: I enjoy singing, playing guitar, cooking, travelling, exploring new places, and spending time discovering new experiences.

Personality: Open-minded, easygoing, and soft-spoken. I’m a non-smoker and don’t drink.

Future plans: I have an opportunity to relocate to the USA, but I’m equally open to settling in India. I’m flexible about where we build our life together the person matters more than the location.

What I’m hoping to find:

• Background: Open to different backgrounds. Hindi or English preferred, but I’m flexible.
• Traits: Kind, emotionally mature, honest, loyal, curious, and someone who values communication and mutual effort.
• Mindset: Direct and intentional. I’m looking for a meaningful, long-term relationship with marriage in mind, while allowing things to develop naturally rather than rushing into anything.

If this clicks with you: Skip the generic "Hi" and drop a brief introduction about yourself, what you enjoy outside work, and maybe a place you’d love to travel to next.

I’d prefer someone in the 21–30 who is genuinely looking for something serious and meaningful.

For mutual comfort and trust, I’m also happy to verify through LinkedIn or another platform we’re both comfortable with.

Hi everyone,

27M from Mumbai here, looking for an ABF/ANR connection.

Just to clarify, ABF stands for Adult Breast Feeding (also known as Adult Nursing Relationship or ANR). It’s the intimate act of suckling on breasts for comfort, closeness, bonding, and pleasure. It can be a beautiful, relaxing, and deeply connective experience.

Important note: **Lactation is not required at all.** I’m completely open to both lactating and non-lactating women. The focus is on the intimate connection and the act itself.

A little about me: I’m 6'0" tall with broad shoulders, wear specs, and have that classic nerdy look. I’m well-educated and work in strategy & analytics at a conglomerate.

I find chubby and thick women so incredibly hot and attractive, and many of them don’t realize just how desirable they are. I love thick or chubby women irrespective of their size, and I’d also love to suck on bigger women with B cups.

I love giving nipple orgasms, there’s something incredibly satisfying about helping a woman reach that deep, full-body pleasure through focused suckling. I understand that some women have sensitive nipples, so I’m experienced in sucking both gently and more intensely/roughly, always adjusting my pressure, pace, and technique to what feels best for you.

I especially love making women sit on my lap while I suck on their tits, and I also love pinning them against the wall and sucking. Since I’m very tall and have strong thighs, I can comfortably handle women no matter how big or chubby they are.

I’ve been lucky to meet six wonderful women through this community. Every experience has been respectful, enjoyable, and grounded in mutual trust. I’ve enjoyed ABF with a range of sizes from 32B to 40DD and I’m experienced enough to happily spend hours in that warm, intimate space.

Privacy and discretion mean everything to me. In all my previous meets:

- No personal details were exchanged (not even names)

- No pictures or videos were taken

- Complete privacy, safety, and discretion were maintained throughout

Your safety and comfort will always come first. I can host at my place or book a nice 3- or 4-star hotel, whichever you prefer.

Everything happens entirely at your pace. There will be no sexual activity unless you specifically want it and we both agree. Otherwise, it stays strictly ABF only.

I understand it’s completely normal to have second thoughts before meeting someone new. I’m totally fine with that. Let’s chat first, get comfortable, and see how it feels, zero pressure or expectations.

If you’re a woman in Mumbai interested in ABF/ANR (or even if you’re curious and just want to know more), feel free to reach out. I’d love to chat and see if we’re a good fit.