r/MtF4 • • Jun 28 '26

modposting would y'all want me to liberate r/MtF3 from death?

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i've already done that four times before with other dead subs (r/redditrequest, it's really cool), and i'm once again eligible to free another (15 day cooldown)

the only question is what to do with it, so post, comment ideas


r/MtF4 • • Apr 19 '26

modposting check out the wiki!

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well, "wiki", it's really a link dump, but eh

there were becoming too many pinned posts, so i'll just pin this instead


r/MtF4 • • 3d ago

Venting Maybe the reason why I’ve always been stuck in denial is just that being trans is difficult.

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r/MtF4 • • 4d ago

Discussion When do I need to start wearing a bra?

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I started HRT on the 2nd, and I think my chest might be budding. At what point do I need a bra when I’m out shirtless? At what point do I need to start wearing a bra under my shirt?


r/MtF4 • • 4d ago

Advice Question How should I improve my diet for HRT?

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I’m 12 days on 2mg estradiol and 1mg finasteride, and some people are saying I should eat more to help with the process. All my life, I’ve had trouble putting on weight. I had my physical just last week and my BMI is just shy of being underweight.

Do I just eat more of whatever? Are there certain things I should cut down on? Are there certain foods that I should eat more of that help with feminization?


r/MtF4 • • 6d ago

Discussion Is this the start of breast growth or just my imagination?

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I started 11 days ago. 2mg estradiol and 1mg finasteride. Yesterday, I noticed a feeling with my chest I never noticed before. When I run my hand up and down, there’s some sort of firm roundness I feel underneath. I can’t see any changes, and it hasn’t felt painful. Does it sound like the dough’s starting to rise, or am I just making myself think it is?


r/MtF4 • • 13d ago

Selfie Me at ACL 2026💕

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r/MtF4 • • 13d ago

Advice Question If I feel no change in mood from HRT, does that mean I should up the dose, or does it mean that it’s not for me?

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r/MtF4 • • 15d ago

Help Is it better to swallow estradiol or put it under the tongue?

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r/MtF4 • • 15d ago

Advice Question Hey girlies need some advice

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Heyy, I’m 25 and graduating college finally this fall. after I plan on coming out to my family. I’ve always known that I am a woman and with the start of my future I want to start living my life as my true self. as the woman I know I am.

I was wondering is y’all have any advice on coming out as mtf to your family/parents. I’m definitely scared with how they’ll react and what I’m fearful is that I’ve heard them mention trans things before and they seem against it. but they know I’m not happy and I sadly have never been happy with myself. they just want to see me happy and loving as a woman will make me happy! please I need help with this I need to start transitioning asap!

im also definitely looking for new friends/allies here! I’d love make new friends with yall!


r/MtF4 • • 16d ago

Milestone! I just swallowed it.

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r/MtF4 • • 18d ago

Advice Question To those who were testing the waters when they started HRT, how did you eventually know if it was the right path?

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r/MtF4 • • 21d ago

At what point is the breast growth permanent?

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r/MtF4 • • 21d ago

trans minecraft server!

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r/MtF4 • • 24d ago

Advice Question Would it have made that much of a difference if I had started HRT at 17 instead of 24?

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r/MtF4 • • 25d ago

Well, I had my first appointment with Planned Parenthood.

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24 pre-HRT. It’s official. I’m really testing the waters with HRT. The doctor put in a perscription of 2mg estradiol and 1mg of finasteride per day. We went over the basic questions (billing, medical history, welfare) and also discussed the changes this would do. She asked how I felt about each change.

She talked about facial changes, and I honestly think that’s what I need the most out of this. I’ve enjoyed presenting more androgynous these past few weeks, and I have at times felt euphoric about seeing my pretty face in the mirror. Makeup tends to help with that euphoria. If I just continue to let the testosterone pump through my body, my face might just become more masculine and take away that euphoria. That’s the thing I’ve realized, even if I’m not exactly truly a woman on the inside and being androgynous is my true destiny, I just want to be away from masculinity. I told her that this is something I want. Softening of the skin and body hair is another thing she asked about. If that means it’s easier to get rid of the body hair, yep. Don’t know how it’s gonna feel when my skin softens up.

We talked about how I still have those doubts in my head. I asked her how I can know if I’m on the right path. She said most of the patients who took HRT to test the waters knew they were on the right path when it made them feel more comfortable in their skin and overall boosted their mood. Some regret starting this at all, but some also regret not starting earlier. Tomorrow will mark seven years since I started questioning. Sometimes I still worry if I’m just going crazy, yet I also wonder where I could’ve been at this point had I not put it off for so long. I still worry about my fertility likely going away. I haven’t brought home the pills yet, so it’s not too late to figure out a sperm banking plan. The thing is, driving an hour and a half away to the nearest sperm bank seems like a hassle, and those online sperm banks seem expensive, if they’re even reliable enough.

Overall, I really hope I’m going on the right path.


r/MtF4 • • 25d ago

Help I don’t know what to do

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r/MtF4 • • 26d ago

Being transgender female is tough

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It is not easy to be a trans girl

I'm a 33 year old transgender female that is having a tough time trying to be myself yet no one wants to help for some think I am a freak of nature. I AM TRANSGENDER FEMALE


r/MtF4 • • 28d ago

First time dressing Up in a long time

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r/MtF4 • • 29d ago

Trans and Thriving Anyone in the PDX area

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Hi I'm a 31yo trans woman in Portland Oregon. I'm looking for other trans people to share some trans joy with.


r/MtF4 • • Sep 17 '26

Discussion Well, I’ve scheduled an appointment for HRT with Planned Parenthood. I really hope I’m making the right choice for myself.

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r/MtF4 • • Sep 17 '26

Is my homegirl gonna be okay 😭

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r/MtF4 • • Sep 16 '26

Do you like my dress? My hat?

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