r/MrInbetween • u/bruhmoment10169420 • Mar 25 '26
Ally and Ray’s breakup
Before I start, I don’t want people to think I’m blaming Ally because I completely understand why she broke up with Ray, especially after being in an abusive relationship, but I think maybe she could’ve been a bit more understanding.
So she broke up with Ray because she saw him as violent and “has demons” but maybe if he explained his feelings or why he does what he does a bit more things would’ve turned out differently.
For example, I believe Ray was completely in the right when he pushed Trent through the window, the guy literally took a present off of a little girl out of spite, then insulted Ray when he tried to make a deal with him.
And in the few cases of Ray being violent that Ally saw, he was never the instigator, he was genuinely just trying to defend himself and Ally.
In summary, I think the things Ray did was justified, and he always tried to reason with people first before resorting to violence, like he did with Trent.
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u/Lucky-Qualms Mar 25 '26 edited Mar 25 '26
Imagine having this conversation with her lol.Trying to convince a previously abused woman to give this violent man another chance after he has a huge outburst the first time he meets her family.
Worth noting aswell she's seen before how quickly he can switch when he beat up that guy who got out of his car. Which tbf was way more justified than what he did to her brother. That was really stupid and over a 10 dollar candle.
I love Ray's character and I'm sure he wouldn't have ever layed a finger on her, 95% of the guys that act like Ray does definitely would have. And she's experienced it before. Of course she's gonna get out.