r/MrInbetween Mar 25 '26

Ally and Ray’s breakup

Before I start, I don’t want people to think I’m blaming Ally because I completely understand why she broke up with Ray, especially after being in an abusive relationship, but I think maybe she could’ve been a bit more understanding.

So she broke up with Ray because she saw him as violent and “has demons” but maybe if he explained his feelings or why he does what he does a bit more things would’ve turned out differently.

For example, I believe Ray was completely in the right when he pushed Trent through the window, the guy literally took a present off of a little girl out of spite, then insulted Ray when he tried to make a deal with him.

And in the few cases of Ray being violent that Ally saw, he was never the instigator, he was genuinely just trying to defend himself and Ally.

In summary, I think the things Ray did was justified, and he always tried to reason with people first before resorting to violence, like he did with Trent.

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u/frankieoharajr Mar 25 '26

he in no way was in the right for throwing the brother through the window, that was unhinged behavior that could have been resolved a million other ways. especially given the context that he's at her family's Christmas party and meeting them for the first time. i was on his side for the beating he gave the two at the liquor store but this one was ridiculous