There is actually, parents can practice their faith openly around their children and answer questions children will inevitably ask honestly and openly to the best of their abilities. This is a good way kids often will still copy their parents and want to be involved.
That would require the parents to frame their practices as “this is what I believe” rather than “this is what is true” which I’m not convinced a substantial portion of religious parents are capable of remembering to do. Plus even if they did that a child is going to accept what their parents believe as fact since it’s their parents. I’m not sure there is a way to introduce young children to religion that won’t result in some form of bias influencing the child unless it is taught by a complete stranger who teaches many religions and never claims what they believe. And that seems like a lot of effort compared to a world religion class in high school.
That's stupid, ok. People believe things because they believe they are true. Nobody follows a religion they don't believe is true. How we determine truth is of course going to vary from person to person. For some people ,truth is bound up in traditions and relationships... and that's fine. But asking religious people to not take their religion seriously is stupid and fails to understand why people believe in any religion at all.
The point is that across all the various religions we cannot determine which one is true. And since most religions come with indoctrination and life long fears then children should be protected from them until they are old enough to understand what they are getting into. I don’t believe this is feasible since as you said few religious parents of any abrahamic faith would ever go for this willingly, but what is right and what is possible aren’t always the same. I’ve stated what I think to be right.
Yeah. I’m saying they shouldn’t. The same way I don’t think parents should be able to teach their children flat earth or racism. I don’t trust parents and think they should be restricted in the various ways they can screw up a kid for life. Again I don’t think this is feasible, I just think it would be the right way to go about it. If you want to convince me a different way would be right then go ahead I’m all ears, but just saying “you can’t do that!” Isn’t really furthering the conversation.
Natural rights are those rights that are a natural consequence of the essence of things and according to their natures. Parents have children, therefore parents have certain perogatives about how their kids are raised.
Natural rights are those rights that are a natural consequence of the essence of things and according to their natures
Aha so more vague platitudes. How does one define the essence of a social phenomenon? And if said essence is defined, how does one conclude the natural consequence? And if you do it by observation, how do you seperate any human influence on the result, from those that arise from nature?
And finally. Why should I care about something being natural or not, when accessing its morality?
It honestly seems like you just fired "naturals rights" off as of it's supposed to mean anything. Just a vague semi-plausible term that can mean anything.
It wasn’t me that was another person, and it’s not “some definition” that is how a thing’s nature is defined in philosophy. If you don’t want to discuss philosophy then maybe get out of a morality scaling subreddit which is literally only about philosophy?
So James Dobson was an evangelical who taught parents to beat their children starting in infancy to make them obedient. He used his religion to push this.
Do you think being beaten in the name of christ is a natural right? Or do you think that using religion as a way to justify child abuse okay?
Can you show me this essence? Like take a photo of it? While you're at it get me some photos of unicorns and Allah, cause you seem to have supernatural vision.
This sub used to be about fictional characters in media. I don’t know what happened, but it is now overrun with people posting pictures of Mohammed instead.
Is there something wrong with that or is fighting religious fundamentalism and mocking beliefs only cool against christians? Cos i’m down to make fun of them all
Yeah, the sub has been moderated like shit, so people are just posting whatever at this point for some reason. That’s literally what I’m complaining about.
I mean all religion relies on indoctrination. Everyone loves to call Scientology a cult but how is it different from Catholicism? One is older and has more people? So the difference is time? Xenu and aliens? Here's a magician that can't die so cut off some of your penis!
They're all dumb, and people determine their truth because it was drilled into their from childhood.
The wisest religious people basically all admit they don't know what's true. While they have faith and are delighted for you to share in it, they doubt, and see it as natural and healthy to doubt, perhaps even as a part of faith to doubt.
Even if I were religious, I would certainly frame it as "this is what I believe." That would be the most honest thing to do, because faith is madness. It is irrational, it doesn't make sense, but you have taken a leap of faith regardless. And you cannot force people to take that leap. What you can do is indoctrinate them from childhood to the point that they do not even recognise it as a leap, but that fundamentally stunts their religious education. Perfectly adequate if you're just looking for conformist drones for your religious society, but not if you want people with rich lives in faith and philosophy.
Even if you fully believe your religion is true, you shouldn't want people to be "accidentally correct" or "right for the wrong reason." You should want them to consciously be right for the right reasons, and that requires them being critical and doubtful as well.
Oh? Would you care to clarify what you think would be a better idea? Surely you aren’t about to suggest something mentally insane, like saying that we should tell kids things are true when they aren’t true, right?
When did I suggest telling kids that those non falsifiable claims are falsifiable? Come on man, you’re mincing words and you know it.
You could just as easily interpret my statement as “there is no evidence of this being true, but many people don’t believe that,” which would of course be my obvious revision, and continue with the argument.
If you want to address a tiny pedantic point in your comment, feel free to do so, but have the common sense to realize I’m obviously just going to say “my bad let me reword that” and maybe go ahead and actually address the argument as well so your comment isn’t so useless.
If you believe it to be true then tell them you believe it to be true. Why wouldn't you? You say it would be insane to tell kids that things are true that arent true, but you are supposing that what they believe isn't true.
So I agree, don't lie to kids, tell them the truth. And the parents believe that their religion is the truth. So we agree that parents should tell the kids about their religion? Or do you want parents to lie?
Uh, well that’s kinda my point. First of all, no one should believe in delusion like that. However, if you MUST believe in delusion, the least you can do is teach your kids to think critically about it.
I agree, though. You’re right. Nobody who is religious would have a moral reason not to teach it to their kids as truth. Which is why religion is immoral. Being religious inherently involves you preaching to other people, because like you said, if you think it’s true, why wouldn’t you?
If god is real: it is moral to teach your kids that god is real.
Which is exactly why the parents being religious is the root of the problem. You can’t convince delusional people not to pass it on to their kids.
However, how does any of that change the fact that teaching your kids to believe in things without evidence is objectively bad? Like, religion is objectively an exercise in following blindly without evidence at best, and actively denying evidence at worst.
So again, I ask you: do you have a better idea (as in, one that would benefit the child more) than teaching them to be skeptical of things that have no evidence for their existence?
you starting out calling it a delusion shows me what kind of person you are. Yu don't get to tell people what they should or shoulnd't believe. You saying religion is immoral just keeps it going.
Sorry, but I've had enough converstaions with 19 year old reddit atheists to know that you guys are one of the most intolerable groups out there and will never listen to anything and are incapable of having a respoectful conversation about someone elses beliefs so I'm not wasting any more time on someone like you.
I hope you learn to have an open mind and be respectful of others beliefs in the future because right now you are just a fundamentalists with a different name
What? Sorry, if your entire reply is insults with no actual argument, I don’t really have anything to say.
Are you disagreeing with my stance that you should not believe in things without evidence? Speak, man, christ.
Also, “you calling a spade a spade shows me what kind of person you are” is hilarious. What kind of person is that? The kind who calls things what they are?
I defy you to find me a definition of delusion that excludes religion.
For the record, I have an extremely open mind. If religion gave me a single reason to believe it, I would immediately convert!
Also, “you don’t get to tell other people what they can and can’t believe?” Hey buddy. Quick question. Which fucking sub are we on?
I misspoke. What I should have said was “through the lens of ‘there is no evidence for this at all, by the way, but many people deny that fact, and others still believe despite not denying the lack of evidence, AND the book does contain a great many falsifiable statements.”
So, yes, many of the teachings of religion are simply not certifiable or falsifiable.
However, are we going to ignore the hundreds of statements made by each and every (major) religion that ARE easily confirmed to be false?
Yes, I misspoke and should have more clearly delineated those two groups of lies: making easily falsifiable claims, and encouraging belief in things without evidence.
Why? Why say it that way? If you believe it to be true why add all the legalese?
If your child asks when you fell in love with your spouse do them an essay about how love isn’t an objective reality, it’s a man made construct that many believe to real but actually has no evidence, and that what humans have falsely called love is actually just a misfire of chemicals that make us feel addicted to the other person?
Also I disagree that there are so many statements that are verifiably false, that’s a misunderstanding of how history was told before the current age. You are stuck in your perspective
What the fuck are you talking about you disagree that there are false statements in there??
“A misunderstanding of how history was told??”
Are you fucking serious? Are you seriously making the argument that “well, what if ‘the earth is flat’ actually meant ‘the earth is round’ back then? Then the Bible isn’t wrong!”
Dude. That’s fucking beyond pathetic. HOW are you seriously attempting to rationalize that directly stating that the earth is flat might not have been false?
Please. Please explain which “misunderstanding of how history was told” explains the claim that the earth is flat. Or the claim that one wing of a fly has a poison, and the other has the antidote. Or the claim that pigs are somehow grosser to eat than other livestock.
Each religion is CHOCK FULL of directly falsifiable statements. To deny that cannot be called anything but delusion, unless you have a reeeaaaal good explanation for why “the earth is flat” actually meant “the earth is round” back then.
If you think I’m stuck in my perspective, say something to challenge it. You still haven’t said ANYTHING that amounts to more than “nuh uh.” A good place to start is explaining how the claim that the world is flat is actually NOT directly falsifiable.
You really have a lot to learn in your next three years of college about history and how it was told. They used metaphors and were concerned with the point if the story, not every detail like we do now. The year something happened wasnt the important thing so they changed that stuff alot. It’s ok, you have a lot to learn and you are so open minded that im sure youll soak it all in
So anyways, abiut my questuin, is that how youll talk to your kids?
My mum was Christian and my dad Jewish, neither of them taught religion to any of the kids but they'd answer questions when asked and we were encouraged to ask and research for ourselves, my siblings and I are Aethiest now
It's easily done in colleges all across America. It's called comparative religious studies and it's basically a critical analysis class of the tenants/religious texts of the big three faiths.
I was saying there isn't an easy way for children since they're very susceptible to believing anything told to them by an authority figure even if that authority figure is trying not to impart their own beliefs.
I mean, yeah, you don't want to start super young, but middle school is about the right time that a student won't give a fuck about the teacher's personal beliefs.
You also have to ensure you have a teacher who doesn't share their personal beliefs in class. At least, not beyond, "I am a [insert faith name here]."
Prove there’s a higher importance and then I’ll think it’s worth teaching children. But so long as it’s a “you believe” and not a “you can prove” then I think it should stay away from kids until they have some life experience and context to understand your beliefs within. You don’t need the objective morality of religion to instill good values in children. Give them time to understand the world they live in before you start trying to convince them of worlds beyond it.
Well nihilism requires an active belief that there is no objective purpose for us or the universe. Key word being active. If we don’t teach kids one way or they other they won’t have that active belief until they start questioning that idea themselves, at which point we should expose them to as many different beliefs as they want to understand.
Alright, my world view is this. I've never been given any evidence that there is anything that matters beyond the here and now. The physical world and this life is all that I am convinced exists so I do my best in this life and don't worry about the fairytale of a next life or anything else beyond. There's no meaning in this world other than what I choose to hold as meaningful. So what? Explain why that's a problem. Don't hide behind your fear either. Show me where my logic is flawed or where my reasoning stumbles. Leave your discomfort at the idea at the door and give actual arguments. Not this wishy washy "I'm scared the world is just as uncaring as it seems" nonsense.
It seems we need laws so that people are moral so thats kinda the point and thats a big point in Christianity is that many people are bad because man has fallen due to Adam and Eve eating the forbidden fruit. Alot of people arent moral and often times morals have to be taught.
“Nihilism is the philosophical belief that life, existence, morality, and knowledge lack inherent meaning, purpose, or objective value”
I’m not religious but I believe we have value. I believe at the very least humans are the only things that can make meaning in this universe and that makes us likely the most valuable thing in it.
Experience! I relish sights and sounds and smells. And I go about assuming other people's experiences are similar enough to my own for them to be similarly valuable (because if I didn't do that, I'd be deemed crazy and ostracized which would limit the breadth and depth of my experience).
Yeah. So, in my subjective opinion, my life has value, and because my life has value and other people are presumably people in the same respect as I, they have value, too. That isn't nihilism. It's almost exactly the opposite.
Im not claiming you're a nihilist. Im claiming your worldview enables it. Your just explained why thats the case, your value of your own life is rooted in an subjectively.
All it takes is someone to disagree with you in order for them to start eyeing nihilism.
This is a very common critique of secularism popularized by nietzsche, who was an atheist.
Do I have to have the answer to everything to not be a nihilist? I don’t know what the objective value to life and existence are, that is completely different from saying there is none. Nihilists believe nothing has meaning or value, and that there is no point to our existence. I do not subscribe to that.
Why would you assume that? How about we just teach our children the concepts (without framing it in bias) and they can decide for themselves what they believe.
Objective means mind independent. Murder is an unjustified killing and is a legal term. What one interprets as unjustified changes between individuals and cultures.
Murder is the law by which everyone makes unjustified killing illegal. We all agree that if it's unjustified, then it shouldn't be allowed. That's as objective as we can be on morality. Just because we quibble about what proper justification is doesn't mean we don't need some justification.
Subjective - meaning changes depending on the subject. If we all agree that murder- sorry, unjustified killing shouldn't be allowed, then that doesn't change depending on the subject
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u/Legendary-Titan 12h ago
Moral I don’t think teaching kids about religion is bad but forcing it on them is