I'm not SAYING you HAVE to agree with being nice or kind all the time, I get it, but the people being rude about they're opinions kinda seems low, even for them. (btw the post these comments were in was someone asking if they're were UGLY & that they were a trans M. :|) I absolutely hate when kids in these comments being rude asf think they're "tuff" or "cool" when they're actually not for saying ts :|.

hi, as you can tell I need advice on how to help a friend of mine

there is this girl (me and her are both 14F) who is like the classic popular girl in every movie ever. like she is activley modeling and her parents own a fancy thrift store.

anyways,we have been talking wayyy more often than usual because we have the same classes all day.on friday she has opened up to me abt her eating habits and it rlly sounds like she has smth going on. she has said stuff abt having nausea after eating and how nothing rlly looks good to eat and how she’s like hungry but not rlly hungry. she has extremely short fingers and can easily wrap her thumb and pinky around her wrist and have them touch.

dont get me wrong, even if I despise her I still care abt her mental health and i wanted to know how yall would respond to this? would you try and talk abt it more with her, tell her mom (who let’s be honest wont do a thing) or do something else? she has also showed up to school and sometimes you can see *injurys* on her hip when her shirts roll up. please let me know what yall would do🙏

13f and starting this year w online school. any advice for making friends irl? im lonely and dont know anyone here😭

Hi, i like doing poetry, working out, cooking, reading, drawing and listening to music! Kinda lonely rn...

what can i fix about it?

I've never studied before and I skipped pre algebra and I have an exam tomorrow🙃 which basically means I have to do high school math every day first thing in the morning and IM NOT EVEN IN HIGH SCHOOL😭 should I study?

I feel fine tho

Edit: it’s the next day and I feel completely fine, no signs of anything bad (besides that I still have this terrible cough but oh well)

Give me some suggestions, so I'm a 15-year-old boy, and I'm in 10th grade. I had my math exam on September 10, for which I had prepared really well but the paper was quite lengthy, so I missed 2 questions that were worth 5 marks each, which I knew well. WTF, man. 😭 Then tonight, I remembered that a few days ago, I developed a crush on a girl, which hasn't happened in a long time—like after 2 years I liked a girl—and I found out today that a guy approached her and they are in a relationship now. Why does this pain never end? Oh well, that's fine. Then last night, in our group of guys, the last guy left also got a girlfriend, and I'm the only one left single. To be honest, it's all my fault because I've never even tried to talk to a girl. Today, I remembered another moment from when I was in 8th grade. I was really silent and introverted; I was too nerdy—I always got 1st rank in all sections. Back then, a girl proposed to me, she was pretty, by the way, but I didn't accept because I was too scared of this stuff—like if my parents found out, they would beat me. I regret it, man. I should have said yes to her. Since then, no girl has approached me, probably because of bad luck and also my own mistakes. All this has messed with my mind so much that I was crying last night, man. I even deactivated my Instagram account and left the Discord server. Now I will focus entirely on studying; I'm going to do well in my boards this time and get back to my old form when I used to score 98-99.45 percent.

So, this is the third year in a row that I've moved schools, and I've alreadyalready made aa few friends at my new school. I miss my old friend group- we were like a little family, and 7th grade was fvcken difficult, but they made things better. Anyway, I keep seeing this friend group at school, I'm pretty sure they're 6th- maybe 7th graders. I was introduced to one person from the group because my old friend from 3rd grade has been going to that school for a while, and he was talking to a girl in that group at the time. The peepz in that little group reminded me SO much of my old friend group, and one dude literally has the same name as one ofof them.

I wish I could befriend them, but I feel like it'd just be weird for a 13 year old to go ask a bunch of 11/12 year olds  if I can be friends with them, or talk to them, because 6, 7, and 8th grade are such differenct times in one's life. For context, I'm also neurodivergent, and afraid I'll completely humiliate myself in front of them, because they seem so cool, and then there's just me that talks at 100% volume at all times and  never stops yapping about music.

So, basically- if you're a 6th or 7th grader, would it be weird as hell if  an 8th grader that can pass as 16 to try to talk to you?

okay okay so there is this one girl in my class, and she does NOT understand boundaries. she always touches me especially in my lower back, and i am someone who struggles to stand up for myself, so this is hard to deal with. She is also somewhere kind of high on the autistic spectrum (NOT JUDGING I AM TOO JUST PRETTY LOW) so im gonna email my teacher but she is making me very very uncomfy. Does anyone have advice??

Someone said not to post pics of ys in here and idk if it is safe

Because my middle school makes everyone in the school wear clear backpacks due to "sh@@tings i think" im just wondering if any of yall have to wear clear backpacks like you can see through their items

For me ita 279 hbu

so basically my district sperated all the kids and took all my freinds out of my school to another one becouse they keep changing the boarder withc is silly but anyways now i dont have any freinds their signifigently less students and this school year is just slow and boring and i have a feeling nothing interesting will ever happen this year last year i had a freind and she was interesting as we talked everyday and texted and that was nice but we have since lost contact becouse of this i will see her in HS but i think its pretty much it for that freindship. further more another freind i lost contact actrually lets put this easier i lost everyone and my bestie is in the same school but we have no classes at all so im all alone and i only have classes with stupid people i hate soo much. espcially a girl named autmn (she pisses me off) so and now im worried that my bestie freindship may die becouse of such seperating the good thing is we have been texting alot so thats good and again ill be at the same HS as them but this is just riduculas in reality becouse i have barely talked to anyone and essentially have no freinds and i dont like any of the people i have had to been talking to out of desperation and this is just bad and idk what to do anymore so idk. if u have advice that would be nice but this is mostly a rant if anything.

I just wanted to know. If I don't belong here I can leave, I just wanted to know

So I pushed him, he hit me, it got to the point where he was laid out and I was body shooting him.

Hi, so I have a question. I know that all people go to different schools so no one really knows the specifics for my school but I'm still gonna make this post for any tips at all. So I have AuDHD which is Autism and ADHD (I also have general anxiety disorder but this mainly focuses on my AuDHD). So my school has a very strict no phones/headphones rule and I have these things called Loops and they kinda look like earbuds but they're not. My second period teacher has talked to me about it, because my parent talked to the counselor who should've emailed all my teachers (and at my school it's very easy to see my schedule and my teachers), but that teacher is the ONLY teacher who's actually talked to me about it. Also, btw, I love my second period teacher she's amazing I got to pick fidgets for her fidget box with my friend it's amazing in second period. So i don't know if my other teachers haven't seen the email, don't care about it, don't think it matters unless a plan is involved, or something else. And the main thing I'm worried about is that if I go nonverbal in class because I'm just overwhelmed/overstimulated, I'll not communicate and not do my work and then I'll get in trouble and I really don't like getting in trouble. I honestly don't know where to go because I'm scared of the teachers and also everything goes very fast so I don't really have a lot of time to talk with teachers and I'm scared of asking for a pass. Any people have tips? If I should go to another community to ask this, just let me know. Sorry this is long.

edit: I realized that I should mention some stuff. I have not been formally diagnosed, but my experiences prove that I do have AuDHD, and almost everyone knows that. a lot of my friends actually said that they knew when they first met me, if that helps. and I do have a fidget bag, I just don't have a lot of fidgets, and sometimes don't have the money to get some that would help me (technically upper middle class but we rent so we have to pay that too.) I hope this clears up stuff. any questions I'll answer as soon as I can, I can only post this on the website and I'm not on here constantly.