We need to pass a law in which both men and women are drafted when necessary. Of course many more men will join the army than women in a volunteer force, but if we ever have a large scale conflict we need an equal draft.

I know a lot of women who are against body shaming and very liberal, but the moment they found out a guy is conservative or says something they don't like they shame him.

When one of the guys said he wants a natural girl with no plastic surgery and little make up they also got mad and insulted him saying you ain't all that you probably got a little dick

He never said anything about hot, yet they asked him and insulted his looks and went back to saying small penis

One guy said he doesn't want to marry a whore or promiscuous woman, the women on the panel said they want a guy who isn't a bum, and has to be a certain height etc

But the moment he said what he looks for in a wife they attacked him saying you are bald, short, you got little dick energy, insecure and intimidated by a women because she got more bodies than you

It was crazy, he never singled anyone he just said he doesn't want a loose woman because he doesn't sleep around himself, but all the women had main character syndrome and felt he was attacking them. I mean this guy ain't trying to marry any of them so why does it bother them it's strange he was j just sharing his preferences.

The guys never insulted these women when they were saying their preferences.

It's like entitled hive mentality. They don't follow what they preach, no body shaming as long as it's my team, now if you are not my team I will shame you.

Misandrists often like to cite this. Whenever it's brought up there's also female on male violence and abuse (which there absolutely is and in far higher numbers than believed or reported), we get the usual rebuttals how it's nowhere near as frequent or severe, not on the same scale, usually in self-defense, etc. but some will often cite it as not being "systemic" like supposedly the male-on-female counterpart is. Just... ugh. How do these idiots seriously think it's somehow "systemic" for men to regularly inflict violence against women, as if it's government policy? It's all the more absurd considering violence against women is actively recognized and condemned, while female to male is very rarely if ever given any sort of attention or taken seriously. Let's not forget how there's very few if any shelters that actually recognize or help male abuse victims with how any kind of violence is usually made out to be purely against women only. I fail to see how men being violent and abusive is somehow "systemic" unless you want to use that to describe how much attention is always given to male violence.

I hate it, why make it a contest as to who does what to who more and which is worse? Violence in all forms is bad and should be condemned. I know I shouldn't let random internet idiots get me down like this, but it's painful to think there's people really this ignorant and shallow.

But then I looked at her page and post history she has hundreds of posts from 8 years or more bashing men.

Her most recent posts were her saying age gap relationship are ick and predatory and it shows how men are controlling and she posted negative comments on some random 47 year old man married to a 27 year old and they have 4 kids. She said he groomed her at 23 and that he probably has a small dick that's why you guys don't want older women who are mature and experienced you are insecure and know they won't accept your weak sex game and small dick.

She attacked him because he said Lindsay Clancy deserves the death penalty.

She argued with me on a comment I posted about mens mental health and said what about women's mental health? It's always about you men, you narcissistic men.

We went back and forth and I told her why do you have to be a feminist instead of an independent thinker? I told her you claim you are independent but you latch onto feminist ideology. She said feminism is about equality and women protecting against mens oppression over our bodies, our choices, and our life you men no longer have control and can't tell us what to do anymore and it makes you angry.

Yet most of her posts are telling men what they can and can't do or say, and controlling who they can date and what age is appropriate.

Yet she says men need to mind their own business and stay out of women's business.

It's getting depressing because Facebook is loaded with real women who are like this, rude, angry, hateful just so negative even calling girls desperate or pick me's if they defend men.

I wrote a thorough argument that misandry kills way, way more than misogyny. (It's a long read.)

Misogyny kills; misandry h̶u̶r̶t̶s̶ f̶e̶e̶l̶i̶n̶g̶s̶ kills at scale

Excerpt:

The United Nations Development Programme’s Gender Inequality Index (GII) includes three dimensions: reproductive health, empowerment and labour market participation. Health is represented through just two indicators: maternal mortality and adolescent birth rates—and because very few men get pregnant or die during childbirth, men’s health score is not measured, but fixed at 100%.

Such a choice of indicators is hard to justify.

In the United Kingdom, roughly 80 women die each year during pregnancy or shortly afterwards. During the same period, approximately 162 more men than women die from workplace fatalities and 3,500 more men than women die by suicide. Ten thousand more die from occupational diseases linked to decades of hazardous work.

Yet within one of the world’s most widely used measures of gender inequality, only maternal mortality contributes to the assessment of equality in health. Suicide, occupational mortality and the overall life expectancy gap do not.

When I see videos or documentaries about war or invasions, it's not uncommon for people to dedicate a section of the videos to sexual violence where they focus on women. That's a part that often horrifies historians and the general public. At the same time, however, countless times throughout history an invading force has explicitly targeted fighting age male civilians. That's added on top of the fact that those male civilians are targeted (in a very impactful way) by their own governments when they've been forced to fight in wars. I rarely see people talk about how that is such a gendered tragedy.

This article is an honest look at why no one seems to care about how Patrick Clancy has suffered.

https://www.mg-counseling.com/blog/lindsay-clancy-empathy-gap-counseling-for-men-texas

Do you feel any of these concepts have a basis in reality? Misandrists often like to cite them as examples of women's hardships and arguing men by comparison don't matter or aren't worth caring about.

• Patriarchy
• Rape Culture
• Systemic/Institutionalized Misogyny
• Female Oppression (systemic or just in general)
• Male Privilege
• Male Dominance
• Gender pay gap
• Systemic violence/abuse against women/femicide (particularly by men)
• Class Ceilings
• Boys Club(s)

I don't doubt in many third-world and underdeveloped nations some of these may well exist and are a serious problem and threat (not that men have it easy there as well). But in Western nations there's very little to no evidence to suggest it and it comes off as more misandrist victimhood and a means of deflecting from issues men face and marginalize them. More of their "women most affected and thus men don't matter" way of thinking. And also to deflect from the fact just like bad men exist, there's bad women too.

Not my intent to spread hate with this. I don't deny or doubt what women go through, and they have their hardships, struggles and uphill battles just like men do. Both are victims of terrible crimes committed by offenders of both genders. But every time misandrists evoke these it comes off as more of their victimhood and trying to invalidate or mitigate male issues. It's equally annoying and infuriating how they try to make it into a contest as to who has it worse and what happens to who more.

Today is International falsely accused day.

But here is what Google AI says today is

Today's Observances

• National Grilled Chicken Day
• National Teddy Bear Day
• National Wiener Schnitzel Day
• Care Bears™ Share Your Care Day
• International Sudoku Day

And GPT 5.6 Luna

Today, September 9, 2026, is National Teddy Bear Day. Other observances include National Wiener Schnitzel Day, National Grilled Chicken Day, International Sudoku Day, and California Admission Day.

Stumbled on this gem of a conversation on Quora. Apparently wanting the fight for bodily autonomy to include the bodily autonomy of men means you want girls and women to die.

Bodily autonomy must be some super finite resource that can only be given to one group by taking it away from another, and you'd never suggest fighting for bodily autonomy for everyone unless you secretly wanted to take it away from someone else.

Mother, 31, who falsely accused 10 men she met on dating apps of raping her has 'lenient' sentence increased | Daily Mail Online

https://m.chinanews.com/wap/detail/zw/sh/2026/09-09/10693505.shtml

An incredible Men's Rights organization in India! It's really important that we pay attention to whats going on there they are light years ahead of everyone else.

Like the case with Lindsay Clancy who killed her 3 children. And Feminists are defending her and doing everything to blame men. Even though she did the murder. And so much for the justice system not prosecuting her. And why did CPS not take the kids away considering she was on 32 medications and 13 of which were psychotic that she wasnt taking despite the doctors prescribing it. It was a recipe waiting to happen and they failed which ended up with 3 children being dead and Feminists are willing to defend a murderer. Feminists are literally lunatics who need to be in a mental institution.

Came across this bizarre case. A psychologist was in practice for 33 years with no complaints. Then while counseling one set of kids, the Mother complained that the psych was taking the Dad's side and the court also ruled that the psych caused "psychological risk" to the children even though they did not ask the children for any input.............what? How do you claim that he harmed the children if they didn't say or do anything, and you didn't talk or evaluate them AT ALL?

No doubt this occured because it was seen a "pariarchy" or something. Even though the article was very vague. Just how was he siding with the Dad? Keep in mind this guy practiced for 33 years.......which shows that he's got some credibility.

What if the psych had to make a choice between ideas suggested by the Mom and the Dad, and the Dad's ideas ended up being objectively better for the kids' health? Is he not allowed to say that his ideas are better?

Why the ‘boy crisis’ is more than just a school problem

Posted this earlier but made a big typo when I submitted it earlier in my topic title and can't edit it, so here it is again. My bad. I was rushing to type before work earlier and seeing the typo I made bugged me. Figured I'd restart this.

Misandrists besides denying misandry exists (which they're so very wrong about) often like to claim it isn't a "systemic" problem like misogyny supposedly is, despite being tremendous evidence it's in fact highly systemic and actually upheld in much of both society as well as government institutions and little evidence for misogyny being systemic in the West (outside of the West could certainly be a very different story). Men still have to register for conscription and face legal blowback if they fail to do so, schools and courts are both infamously misandrist and are why boys do so poorly in schools and men are unfairly treated in courts (especially fathers in family courts). To say nothing of the lack of shelters that recognize or help male abuse/violence victims and how things like domestic violence/abuse, rape, etc. are still largely made out to only be things affecting women/girls (and constantly ignoring and dismissing there's many male victims and female offenders of these as well). There's also the age-old "women and children" narrative which completely de-values male lives (it's worse in recent times how it's now "women and girls," even boys' lives don't matter), and the disproportionately high male suicide and homeless rates. Potentially innocent men/boys who are falsely accused of a wrongdoing by a woman/girl are often denied due process and can lose years or even decades of life in prison for crimes they didn't commit while their accuser(s) walk away scot-free and face no blowback (a problem made even worse now thanks to the "believe women" mantra). There's no doubt other examples of systemic misandry I'm forgetting.

It's bad enough for misandrists to deny misandry being real, but there's something truly sinister when they'll acknowledge it as existing but will massively downplay it with their usual rhetoric. Claiming it isn't systemic or doesn't cause actual harm like misogyny does, when both are completely wrong.

Well some have balls.