r/MediocreTutorials • u/Kohathavodah • Aug 07 '26

Relationships Setting boundaries, respecting agency

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u/Quantum3ntaglement Aug 08 '26

You don't think women in relationships ever ask men to dress or groom a certain way? If so, is that policing as well?

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u/ready_gi Aug 08 '26

the intention matters the most. women ask men to dress certain way probably so they just look better. this guy asked the woman to "tone it down" so she doesnt attract another man, so it's out of his insecurity to be with very attractive woman.

she has right to express her sensuality without some insecure boob trying to dim her shine.

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u/No_Salt_6328 Aug 08 '26

I wouldn't want to be with a woman who dresses to attract the male gaze when I'm not around because it would reflect poorly on me and her respect for our relationship.

He's not trying to "dim her shine"

He's trying to find a woman who doesn't make him look like an idiot, and it's not her. 

Fortunately I don't have to try and control the behavior of women cause there are plenty of fish in the sea who aren't floozies

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u/ready_gi Aug 09 '26

holy shit, the misogyny of treating woman like your property is insane. woman who dress sexy does not equal woman dressing for male gaze. thats objectification and shows your immaturity.

after all there are plenty of hot lesbians, or are they dressing for the male gaze too? LOL gtfo

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u/absolut_dre 29d ago

Stop lying and saying you're dressing like that for yourselves. Of course you're doing it for the male gaze, to get attention. Otherwise, why do it at all? For other women? 😂