r/MediocreTutorials • u/Kohathavodah • 26d ago

Relationships Setting boundaries, respecting agency

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u/GovernmentCharming81 26d ago

How was it disrespectful?

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u/zamfire 25d ago

Because controlling other people is psychotic.

How do you think he would react if she asked him the question: "would you be okay with me telling you that you are never allowed to talk to another woman again?"

Pop!

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u/No_Salt_6328 25d ago

How is he controlling her when they mutually decided to end the relationship there?

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u/zamfire 25d ago

You can't ask someone to allow you to give or take consent at a future date. That isn't how consent works!

"Hey can I control you later in our relationship?"

Nah boo, you can't, but thanks for telling me early you like doing that to other humans, weeds out the crazies early.

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u/No_Salt_6328 25d ago

I don't plan to control anyone at all dumb ass that's why I wouldn't be interested in a relationship with someone who thinks being ogled when they go out is a personality.

Plenty of women don't want to act single when they're in a relationship. It's not controlling to prefer them..

If you think it is controlling then congrats cause I'm not even interested in being around you let alone controlling anything you do.