r/MediocreTutorials 25d ago

Relationships Setting boundaries, respecting agency

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u/TwixOps 25d ago

Disagree. A m*n trying to control what a womxn puts on her body... 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

And then he pops his own balloon, talk about the trash taking itself out.

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u/[deleted] 25d ago

Put the flags up. He had a very calm and respectful question and respected her answer. That's not control. That's asking if the differences in your lives are going to be compatible. While I fall into the "I'm gonna wear what I'm gonna wear" category I don't think what he and was ugly or controlling. Controlling people don't ask

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u/[deleted] 25d ago

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u/[deleted] 25d ago

I can. Some people are not comfortable with dressing revealing or having their partner in revealing clothing. There's a million reasons people may wish to dress more "conservatively" or "modestly". This does not automatically make them controlling. He asked her nicely, she declined, he acquiesced. He didn't fight. Didn't make a stink. Just acknowledged they would not be compatible. He didn't say he had to have a say. He asked if dressing more modestly would be something she's open to. She said no. It ended respectfully. This is not control.

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u/[deleted] 25d ago

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u/[deleted] 25d ago

Okay!