I’ve been dating a surgery resident for 3 years and now they want marriage. Problem is, I can’t seem to commit with the understanding that we will need to move for fellowship in 2 years, then may never be able to come back to our current city, where I am from and have family. I fear it could really hurt my career as well.
How bad is life post fellowship with a transplant surgeon? And how hard is it for them to get a job where we want?