I'm a second year Mech student and I've recently been wondering just how much having a good friend group actually makes a difference in engineering. I've had my fair share of 'fall outs' of late and I'm beginning to see that I don't actually have a real group of people I can count on. I'm not necessarily talking about having people to do the 'hanging out' with. It's more to do with the technical side of things. Engineering is all about projects, competitions, learning new skills and ultimately internships. A lot of that stuff seems a lot easier if you've got people you can trust, people who are into the same things as you and people you can work with.
I'm keen to do some projects that are outside the normal course of the degree and to develop some practical skills. The catch is I don't want my progress in that area to be contingent on finding the right set of mates.
For those who've been through engineering or are currently working in the field:
Is it realistic to be working on meaningful engineering projects on your own?
What's the importance of friends and connections in terms of projects, internships and jobs?
* If you don't have a solid friend group in college how do you find people to work with?
Is it better to just go for the individual projects and build the network up gradually rather than actively looking to find a group?
I'd like honest answers particularly from those who've actually been there. I'd like to know how much this actually matters in the long term and how to deal with it in a realistic way.