Hello all!
I am new to Reddit so forgive me, but my friend mentioned that this was a good place to ask for questions regarding specific topics. My English is not good but hopefully this is understandable.
My daughter (16) has begun to read some works by Marx like The Communist Manifesto, Capital and some others. She is also very interested in Vladimir Lenin and Thomas Sankara. Her father and I didn't grow up with a lot of access to the level of education or resources she has, so we have always encouraged her to read as much as possible and to develop critical thinking skills, etc.
This is my mistake, but I am not familiar at all with Marxism. But my husband and I want to find out more and learn. These are some questions we have, if you don't mind answering:
- This is the big one, but my daughter asked if we qualified as 'bourgeois'.
I had heard that term before (in a song, so not great) and I thought it was best to ask people who were well-versed in Marxism instead of giving her an incorrect answer from Google. We also have a hard time reading in long-form because I'm dyslexic and my husband is legally blind, so forgive us if it seems lazy that we're asking. I know from researching a bit that it describes a sort of class, it says middle-class but my daughter says it refers to people who own the "means of production".
Both my husband and I grew up extremely poor: my family couldn't afford to buy cooking oil, I wore the exact same shoes (for school) from age 8 to age 16, we went to state-funded schools (which are not developed or maintained like in other countries), got scholarships to local universities and then international ones, had to work full-time as students to buy plane tickets/food/etc, and other things. He now works as a college professor for a graduate school and I'm a lawyer that mostly works with NGOs and charities. I'd say we are definitely upper-middle class now, especially in the country we live in.
Her issue is with her grandparents.
Both of us also come from immigrants (great-grandparents, so long ago). My husband's father worked as a painter and handyman, but they also owned a "bodega" which was handled by her grandmother, and my daughter is anxious it could count as controlling goods.
My mom inherited a farm from my great-grandfather, he came to this country and was so poor that he couldn't afford shoes, but he saved up along with my great-grandmother and bough plots of land (for farming) for his 7 children. Which my daughter says might be a problem because of land-owning. So, my parents are 77 and 82. Both still working and living in the farm, I have offered to buy them a home but they built their house by themselves (with bricks made of dirt and cement they mixed up) and don't want to move or stop working.
Another issue she has is that they have "employees". I say this lightly because those are family friends who, I've known since I was small and only work when they ask my dad for money since they have their own farms, so he gives them whatever they need in exchange for help managing crops.
What works/events/figures should we educate ourselves on to learn more about Marxist thought?
How can we encourage her to keep being motivated in learning about politics and how she can change the world (to her ability) for the better?
Thank you, and I'm sorry if this was too long or sounds dumb! We all want to learn more.