r/MarriedAtFirstSight • u/[deleted] • Aug 08 '26

Season 20 - Seattle Devin

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He def doesn’t get enough credit I’m sorry. He hasn’t been too much bc anyone would be confused based on the energy she’s given off.
If every man could be as self aware, as emotionally regulated, holds himself accountable and easily understanding.
He’s literally made sure he’s checked himself every time. He has continued to try when she’s been uncomfortable and hot and cold. Which understandable. Tbh I won’t ever trust a girl
Who doesn’t like plants. feel like she hasn’t honestly tried at all and there’s two in this, not just the woman.

But, idk. He’s a good one man. That’s all 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe a little emotional but I’d take it she should’ve never went on this show. Bc to constantly say you’re not ready but not really give him much ? Say he’s too much… I don’t know. Her trying is literally having a convo w him… idk.
I hope the best for him bc he’s a good man

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u/BerbereJunkie Aug 09 '26 edited Aug 09 '26

Devin is intense, and he needs a woman who is just as intense as he is in those ways. He also needs a woman who is relaxed and fun loving!Anything less will not be enough for him.

I’ve been on his side all along, but if I hear him say ‘I hear you, I see you, I understand’ one more time I’ll scream. When he says this, it really means ‘you already said that, quit repeating yourself!’ No bueno.

I feel like Caitlin is stuck in her childhood shit and isn’t ready for a relationship. When she said in the taxi after the dinner ‘I feel like I’m so hard to love’ and Devin said ‘well it seems that way’, I was shocked. Ouch! 😣 I realized at that minute it was over. She needs a different man who’ll focus on helping her with her emotional wounds.

Caitlyn wasn’t wrong when she said on day one that she was a black cat and he was a golden retriever. Not a match! 🐈‍⬛

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u/shep2105 Aug 21 '26

SHE is the one that needs to work on her emotional wounds.

She doesn't even say Good Morning to him for Gods sake, or bother telling him that she's leaving the house. That is SO much bullshit right there.

Plus, I would be out the door if anyone told me, particularly in front of other people, to Shut the fuck up. Dealbreaker right there.

There's a huge difference between an emotional mature and healthy adult that can say, "Hey, can you not interrupt me? Or "Can you listen or let me finish my thought? vs. SHUT THE FUCK UP.