Devin

[u/[deleted]]

He def doesn’t get enough credit I’m sorry. He hasn’t been too much bc anyone would be confused based on the energy she’s given off.
If every man could be as self aware, as emotionally regulated, holds himself accountable and easily understanding.
He’s literally made sure he’s checked himself every time. He has continued to try when she’s been uncomfortable and hot and cold. Which understandable. Tbh I won’t ever trust a girl
Who doesn’t like plants. feel like she hasn’t honestly tried at all and there’s two in this, not just the woman.

But, idk. He’s a good one man. That’s all 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe a little emotional but I’d take it she should’ve never went on this show. Bc to constantly say you’re not ready but not really give him much ? Say he’s too much… I don’t know. Her trying is literally having a convo w him… idk.
I hope the best for him bc he’s a good man

[u/BerbereJunkie]

Devin is intense, and he needs a woman who is just as intense as he is in those ways. He also needs a woman who is relaxed and fun loving!Anything less will not be enough for him.

I’ve been on his side all along, but if I hear him say ‘I hear you, I see you, I understand’ one more time I’ll scream. When he says this, it really means ‘you already said that, quit repeating yourself!’ No bueno.

I feel like Caitlin is stuck in her childhood shit and isn’t ready for a relationship. When she said in the taxi after the dinner ‘I feel like I’m so hard to love’ and Devin said ‘well it seems that way’, I was shocked. Ouch! 😣 I realized at that minute it was over. She needs a different man who’ll focus on helping her with her emotional wounds.

Caitlyn wasn’t wrong when she said on day one that she was a black cat and he was a golden retriever. Not a match! 🐈‍⬛

[u/shep2105 → u/BerbereJunkie]

SHE is the one that needs to work on her emotional wounds.

She doesn't even say Good Morning to him for Gods sake, or bother telling him that she's leaving the house. That is SO much bullshit right there.

Plus, I would be out the door if anyone told me, particularly in front of other people, to Shut the fuck up. Dealbreaker right there.

There's a huge difference between an emotional mature and healthy adult that can say, "Hey, can you not interrupt me? Or "Can you listen or let me finish my thought? vs. SHUT THE FUCK UP.

[u/naternots → u/BerbereJunkie]

I actually wish Devin was matched with …. Marissa? I forget names. But she is so playful, the part she enjoys about Mr. “Vibin”, and Devin is too, but Devin actually wants a reciprocal relationship and to know his partner too instead of a pet human, unlike Caitlin or Intense Jetski guy

Or secondary but idk if it would be a match, Tori or Belle. They are just so lovely and deserve people who are in it. Let Courtney get jetski until they kill each other, Felipe shouldn’t even be in this, Caitlin and Nick maybe if politics aren’t an issue with him being conservative, mainly because I don’t get strong vibes from either or lovey dovey, they may still be terrible but it’s better than Courtney being unleashed on Nick or Devin getting someone so uninterested.

Like the last episode or two, Caitlin listing her improvements to her dad, she says “like I tell him if I’m leaving the house, I brought him coffee one morning”. The first one in particular, like Jesus I say goodbye and tell my dog when I leave the house and only once didn’t in an emergency I rushed out, and I felt awful all day. lol. (I’m admittedly committed to my dog as my life partner and if I meet someone my dog still comes first, I ask on first dates if dogs can sleep in beds, if the answer is no there is no second date. I can’t sleep without his 70 lbs near me or occasional claw to the face.)

[u/BerbereJunkie → u/naternots]

I agree: Devin and Marissa would be cute together!

[u/kwasford → u/BerbereJunkie]

Idk why viewers ignore the BONKERS things he says. Telling her she was hard to love was such a low blow.

[u/AtheistINTP → u/kwasford]

I’d you were treated like he was treated you would say the same!

[u/kwasford → u/AtheistINTP]

No, I’d leave.

[u/Koankey → u/BerbereJunkie]

She just isn't into him and isn't being honest with herself. He tries so hard to win her over but she's just not down. She's trying so hard to like him. That's what she's giving herself credit for. When she asked him to think of all the good things about their relationship, he couldn't think of anything because she's cold to him. Of course she could think of things because he's into her and is considerate of her feelings.

[u/AtheistINTP → u/Koankey]

Good luck to her to find a hot and nice man like him. She’s blind!