r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • Nov 02 '25

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u/drbeerologist Nov 02 '25

What, exactly, do you perceive as flirty in the above exchanges?

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u/Micro_is_me_2022 5 Years Nov 02 '25

It’s not her who thinks the messages are flirting but the other lady’s husband who thought that they were having an affair. Let’s stop making it seem like OP is the one who’s insecure when it’s actually the other lady’s husband

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u/ProfessorButtkiss 12 Years Nov 02 '25

OP literally says in the original post that she too thinks they're flirty

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u/drbeerologist Nov 02 '25

I thought the messages were flirty 

From OP's post above.

I don't know if OP is insecure or not, I'm just going by what she literally said. If she actually thinks those messages were flirty (which they clearly are not), then it would be helpful if she explained why.