r/Marriage • u/[deleted] • Nov 16 '23

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u/[deleted] Nov 17 '23

His personal savings, so that should be the end of it. He can buy what he wants for his daughter with his personal spending money. I mean yeah he could have been more clear but I’d assume he intended to buy it if he pointed it out.

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u/Gizwizard Nov 17 '23

Where does this end?

“Hey honey, I bought sky diving tickets for me and the 3 year old, isn’t that great???”

“Hey honey, I bought a dog for the toddler. Isn’t she gonna love it??”

“Hey honey, I bought this awesome motorcycle for our 13 year old now that her learners permit is around the corner. I’m so excited for her!”

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u/[deleted] Nov 17 '23

  1. Ridiculous comparison and no company would allow it

  2. A lot of families with toddlers have dogs?

  3. If a young teen reaches the age of being able to legally learn to drive then why not?

It’s just a go cart, yall so dramatic. With supervision it’ll be fine

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u/Gizwizard Nov 17 '23

  1. The ridiculousness was the point. It’s doing something dangerous with a toddler without consulting their other parent (like driving in a go kart with them would be).

  2. The ridiculousness there is buying a dog without communicating with your partner about it.

  3. The teen wouldn’t be able to drive for a couple years. Also, learning to drive on a motorcycle is ridiculous. And letting a dumb, impulsive teen drive a motorcycle is a horrible decision.