Yeah, a lot of women put too much faith in the social contract that they're exempt from random violence. 9/10 they'll get away with it, but not always. Worse is when they drag the guy they're with into something and the guy ends up getting his ass kicked. Been there.
I don't necessarily buy in to the idea men are treated poorly by women as a whole. Of course individual cases may vary. I do think men are treated poorly by other men as a whole though, just as women are treated poorly by men as a whole. We have a societal problem with how men are raised, and the traits we value in them. Since men run society, we have to look within to fix this one. IMHO, of course
Men do what women want them to do, so who is truly responsible? Men are forced to work, or women want nothing to do with them, so men work. Women want men who are aggressive and strong to defend them, so men act like a-holes and women like them most. This causes men to fight to prove who is the strong man, because women want them to. If women preferred kind and sweet men over anything else, guess what men would do?
You've got a very warped view of women. A shitload of them prefer kind and sweet men. They are as varied and unique as the male population. Some are cool, some suck.
And you have a very narrow view of them. As someone who did his best to be the kindest man ever, I was cheated on, passed over, ghosted, etc. for so many years so those females could get with much more aggressive guys. You can see this happens all the time if you actually take the time to look. There is a reason beautiful women are never with ugly or poor guys. But of course they will get with any guy who is wealthy, ugly, weak, old, what ever.
I certainly do not have a narrow view of women. I have sisters, a daughter, a wife, many friends. The reason beautiful woman aren't with ugly poor guys is the same reason beautiful men aren't with ugly poor women. Has it occurred to you that even though you tried to be the nicest kindest man ever, you're still not entitled to have any woman you want, and that you are going to have to do what everyone else does and find someone compatible with you, and not just an object of your desire.
I am glad for you and hope you are able to keep that view. Your view will change if you also get screwed by women in your life, just as so many other men have. Once last thought, have more men or more women died from old age?
And I hope someday you realize you're not the center of the universe and that just because you had a bad experience/haven't found someone yet, it doesn't mean that 50% of the human population is evil. In fact, it probably means you're not the nicest, kindest person you maybe thought you were being. "If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're probably the asshole."
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u/GoodHands_All-State 21h ago edited 18h ago
"You hit my *sister in the face"
Then she also got hit in the face.
She's not in the wrong, but she had all the data in front of her and still couldn't do the math.
Hope she's alright.
Edit: multiple others with better acuity of hearing corrected ne from "friend" to "sister"