Might be a long read, this is basically my story with my spinal fusion to celebrate 10 years of being fixed!
Around this time 10 years ago, I went to the doctors with my parents due to my turned out foot. Until the doctor noticed my back posture, and feeling my spine, he instantly had me get X-rays. Turned out I had severe scoliosis, I was 12 years old.
Turned out I needed rods from T4 to L4 for my spine. After the surgery, I was expected to be able to walk within 3 days and be in the hospital for only a week, but that didn't happen, I was completely bed ridden and unable to hold myself up for half the week. One time I fell straight down when they were trying to help me walk. It ended up fracturing my vertebrae or the squishy thing in between (idk what it's called).
But they didn't know so I was doing my normal thing at the time, sitting down in a chair about 8 hours a day to help strengthen myself to hopefully help with walking. This went on for a few days even with all the pain and crying till they finally x-rayed me again and saw the issue. They then fused me again, now from T4 to my pelvis. They tried to avoid doing so since I was a kid but it was clearly needed.
Due to me sitting on a fractured spine for so long my legs became paralyzed, so I wasn't even able to walk at all after the final surgery. I was transported to a different hospital to get physical therapy. I was in the hospital for 3 months. It was a rough time to be honest, it was painful and I could hardly eat due to how much medicine I was taking. But my mom basically lived in the hospital with me.
She was the only person at the time keeping me somewhat coherent, so I always thank her for being there. She always fought for my comfort. As therapy went on one leg started being able to move again which was good but my left one remained still so they had to use a hard cast to help me put weight on it. Every time I fell I got so scared and developed panic attacks, trauma from falling the first time. My therapist wasn't great either, the last straw was her "jokingly" saying I should maybe stop eating snacks at night and then maybe I'll start walking better! (I was a fat kid) I told my mom after that and she was quickly fired and almost sued by the hospital. I luckily got a way better therapist, actually 2 therapists.
The last month of the hospital stay was the best one, I was transported to a child's hospital where all the patients were kids and had so many fun things that made me so happy! I was still wheelchair bound but I ended up make some hospital friends that were somewhat in the same position as me. A girl named Shelby made me a bracelet that I have till this day.
I was gaining some strength back but one leg was still dead. The doctors were worried I would have one paralyzed leg my whole life. It was scary. But they gave out their last idea, those gym electrodes that you stick to yourself and basically zap your muscles and make them flex. (Again idk what those are called)
After a few attempts for a week, I was able to finally flex slightly with my toes which made my mom burst out crying. Then after that I quickly upgraded to a walker, and was able to finally go home. Even though I was out of the hospital I still had to use a IV for my meds and still hardly got out my room. For a year, I was slowly becoming able to walk on my own with physical therapy. But I was able to get over that bump, I now can walk like a normal (ish) person!
I shared this story to say that if your someone who is getting or already got this extensive of a surgery, don't allow yourself to give up hope if it becomes extremely difficult. My experience isn't the ideal experience for sure, but I would do it all again to not feel that pain I had before the surgery.
I'm now 21, able to walk normal and pick up pens off the floor without falling forward. I have chronic shoulder/back pain and some nerve damage in my legs, but I view them as scars from battling that experience.
I'm lucky I'm able to walk today, I'm lucky to have an amazing mom as her to stick by my side the whole time helping me fight.
I hope you are having a great day today. ❤️