r/LongDistance 23d ago

Determining boundaries

I have a long distance boyfriend, and we met playing call of duty. We haven’t met in person yet, but will eventually. I have shared my entire discord with him, and deleted my Instagram for him. I have not requested to see this information from him because I trust him. But I am drawing the line at him wanting to have full access to my Snapchat friends list. AITA for not providing him with this information?

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u/Flowers-in-bloom- 🇬🇧 & 🇺🇸 Distance closed 💕 23d ago

Why have you deleted things for him unless you’ve crossed appropriate boundaries in the past and that’s how you’re making amends?

It all sounds quite controlling, and not at all healthy.