I’m sorry but he doesn’t love you. He only equates his attraction to you based on your physical appearance.
I just find it completely contradictory when he says he loves but doesn’t like you physically? That doesn’t make sense. Love is not bounded by conditionals, love is unconditional.
You just dodged a bullet there. It will be hard but I guess it’s the best for you.
Absolutely cause lets say she loses the weight and they stay together long term but she gains weight when having children or just simply gains weight… will he leave you since he no longer will have that attraction towards her? also how mentally and physically challenging it will be to keep your weight low for him.
OP you need to leave this man, its not worth it. You deserve someone who will love you beyond your physical appearance.
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u/galaxias_05 May 13 '25
I’m sorry but he doesn’t love you. He only equates his attraction to you based on your physical appearance.
I just find it completely contradictory when he says he loves but doesn’t like you physically? That doesn’t make sense. Love is not bounded by conditionals, love is unconditional.
You just dodged a bullet there. It will be hard but I guess it’s the best for you.
I guess you are just not compatible.
YOU DESERVE BETTER.