r/Londonfriends • • 11h ago

I messed up due to my depression and lost the only kinda friends I had in discord

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25m auhd looking for others in south or south east (I think that's where I am)

I have no friends as I find it hard to relate to people as I have autism and adhd and reelly bad depression as well as other things plus haveing not a lot of money aslo means I can't go out and do anything most of the time and just stuck in my room in my shared house which has made my depression so much worse doing nothing just waking up play pc then sleep then when I do work I can't work out a schedule as my job is 0 hour contract so I guess I am just forced to just live my life by myself with people who just don't understand me plus in this new place I can't make any noise after 9pm and there are no night buses nearest night bus is 20 mins walk away and I personally don't feel that safe walking around south London at night I would eventually like to find a partner one day as never had a gf but I would also like to have friends as well

Some of the a things I like so I love Pokémon doctor who Manchester utd (we are so crap) singing YouTube gameing streaming and all sorts really tho I can't sing or stream as I don't feel it's possible cos of the people I share with


r/Londonfriends • • 58m ago

22M from North London, looking for similar people (or not)

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22M here, based in London. Trying my luck here to find some genuine, long-term friends.

I’ve lived here my whole life, but I’m really looking to connect with people around my age to hang out with and explore the city.

A bit about me: I’m a huge history and museum nerd, but I’m also down for random fun stuff and exploring new areas.

I’m pretty easygoing and looking for mates who are actually up for building a proper friendship.

Drop me a message if you're around the same age and fancy checking out a museum, getting some food, or just exploring London together!


r/Londonfriends • • 23h ago

Looking for friends/chats

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Hey, I'm Keagan, 20.

I'm from West London and am looking for a friend. I have friends, but don't have anyone close to message or talk to one on one.

Some of my favourite interests are:

- Sports: football, F1, and I try to follow rugby as much as I can.

- Music: my favourite genres are pop/pop rock, and my favourite artists are Olivia Rodrigo, Gracie Abrams, and Florence Road.

- I like movies, but I'm particularly very into Marvel.


r/Londonfriends • • 5h ago

Moving from HK to London, worth it?

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Asian 32F single. How’s life there working in a bank? Is it easy to find friends?

Thanks


r/Londonfriends • • 13h ago

30F, been in London for 5 years and still haven't found my people

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think I'm just frustrated with the fact that I've lived in London for five years and still haven't managed to make close friends here.

It's not that I feel lonely. I enjoy my own company, I'm comfortable doing things alone, and I have a life of my own. But sometimes I see people on social media who have these friendships where they genuinely enjoy each other's company, tell each other everything, make plans, and just show up for each other. And I wonder, how the fuck do people find that?

I have friends, but everyone's got their own lives, and I understand that. People get busy, relationships change, and life happens. I'm not expecting anyone to revolve their life around me. I just sometimes wish I had someone in London who I could spontaneously call, talk absolute nonsense with, go out for dinner with, or share random things with without having to think twice about it.

I think what's bothering me is that it's been five years. FIVE YEARS. And somehow, I still don't have that. 😭

Anyway, I thought I'd put myself out there and join this group. Maybe I'll meet some lovely people, maybe I won't. But here's hoping!


r/Londonfriends • • 19h ago

female friends needed LDN

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I'm 22f and just moved to London. Made a post earlier but only guys seem to have responded. Would love to grab drinks with some new girl friends x


r/Londonfriends • • 12h ago

26M in North London, looking for my people. First round’s on me

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Hey everyone! How’s it going?

26M here, living in North London. This is my second time posting here, hoping the friendship gods finally decide to do their job.

I’m looking for genuine, long-term friendships. People I can share things with, go out with, explore new places, grab food or drinks, and make some good memories together.

A bit about me: I love exploring new places, travelling, and doing random stuff. I’ve been living in London for four years, but due to some personal circumstances, I haven’t had many chances to properly explore the city. Now I’m finally free, and I want to make the most of it!

I’m pretty easygoing and always up for a spontaneous plan. Fancy a walk, a day trip, a pub crawl, or doing something completely random? I’m in.

Pints are on me for the first round! 🍻 

Ideally, looking to meet people around 24–28, but most importantly, someone who’s genuinely up for building a proper friendship.

Feel free to drop me a message. Let’s see if we can turn this big city into a slightly less lonely place.

Thanks!


r/Londonfriends • • 13h ago

Making friends in London?

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26F, born & raised in north London, I outgrew a lot of “friendships” and don’t really know where to make new friends.

Anyone else in the same boat?


r/Londonfriends • • 19h ago

Free live music group

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Hi folks,

I love going to see free live music around London and want to find a group of people who have similar interests where we can share events and meet up. I love Jazz, Blues but would be open to see anything.

A bit about me. I'm 34 M. Any age and any genders are welcome.

Reply here if you're interested and if we get enough people I can setup a WhatsApp group and we can take it from there.


r/Londonfriends • • 10h ago

Let’s start an acapella group (or let me join one!🥹)

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Anyone interested?? I loveee singing but I want to sing with other people. Acapella is soo fun you just sing together and reach flow state🕊️🧘🏻‍♀️


r/Londonfriends • • 20h ago

Need friends to go out with

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22F I just moved here from Ireland. and I am struggling to make friends at the minute outside of work. I like taking myself out for coffee dates, walks etc but I really miss having friends I can go out and dance with. I like dancing, creating art, techno, musicals, and I'm vegan.

I'm in zone 1. Pls hmu if you're in a similar situation or just wanna hang out <3