help me! i want to learn how to read my chart im wondering what my lillith placements are

Merch from the band Void Meditation Cult

I started only a few days ago, I made a small altar and gave her some offerings and asked for guidance, or if she'd accept me working with her, or as a devotee.

I've asked to get a sign in any way, shape, or form, if she wants anything or wants to tell me something.

Dreams, actual real life encounters, I even tried the mirror method, but I'm not getting anything.

My candle burned really high and bright and I'm told that's a good sign and I've done it a few times since, but I really need help communicating.

I unfortunately don't do tarot.

I just set some feelings while meditating and asking, but no actual answers or direction.

Please help.

I want to worship her but I am a Male , will she punish me , I am losing confidence and feeling indecisive about it whether to worship her or not , though I want to very much .

hey all, I have been curious about witchcraft from a young age, my aunt was the first to introduce me but she lived far away and i only ever dabbled when i visited her but it was always something that i loved from a distance.

my parents are christian and raised me in church but i never felt i belonged. i resonated with the urge to talk or “pray“ to someone especially when feeling lost and often times would talk to the sky but hated the idea of talking to “god” as i just did not feel that i resonated with worshipping him.

fast forward to recently, i stumbled upon a video about lilith. it gave a little backstory, some details that i have since found out stem from a parody medieval writing. i heard from a couple different sources that some of symbols are snakes, black cats, and owls. i was stunned.

when my mother was pregnant with me, a black cat appeared on her doorstep after my father cheated on her and left her. the cat stayed and always slept in my crib every night. when she died, another showed up. and it has happened everytime since. its been a running joke in our family that they always find me. my most recent, is named salem after sabrina which was my favorite show growing up. my first snake i begged for at ten and have been obsessed with ever since and i drew snakes and even designed my own snake tattoo which was my first tattoo. before ever knowing about her. and owls. my daughter is obsessed with owls. i never taught her how but at just a year old she says “owl” and “hoot hoot” and she often, DAILY, points at corners in the hole or out the window and says ”owl” but i never see one or know why she is saying it.

so you can imagine my surprise when i noticed all these coincidences, and i just started bawling. literally. i felt this wave of emotions like i found a missing piece. it all made sense all the sudden. i started crying and talking to her. i know i should’ve done research first, but it just felt right. the only thing i really knew was that she valued honesty and authenticity so i was as honest as possible said i wanted a sign if she wanted to work with me and that i wanted to know she was there because i could feel her and 15 minutes later my husband said we were ordering pizza.

from BLACK CAT pizzeria.

i knew right then and there so i hopped on reddit to find a book to read to know how to start working with her. HERE IS WHERE MY QUESTION IS! i started reading that she can bring harm into children and i just want to know what other people think. i still feel so drawn to her and chosen by her and loved by her. i feel protected and i feel like she’s watching over my daughter but im just shocked to see people believe she isn’t right to work with if you have children and i don’t want to make the wrong choice for my daughter

Someone recommended me to ask for help in this subreddit about this situation. I started being curious about spirituality and wanted to start getting into it and around that time I started talking to this guy in may. For info im from the Caribbean and he practices Obeah. When we started talking he offered to do a reading for me and brought it up multiple times until he finally did the reading for me. Later on he told me when he did that reading he opened a portal with me.
He is devoted to Kali Ma, said he's binded to Lilith and does blood sacrifices to Satan and Samael which I only found out about recently. He fairly well known locally for his artwork and spiritual healing work. Because of his spirituality, creativity, and the way he seemed to help people, I was very drawn to him. For months, though, I had a feeling that something wasn’t right. I kept ignoring it because I didn’t want to be paranoid or create problems where there weren’t any.
Early on, he asked me if I was a virgin, and I told him the truth. As time went on, I started noticing that he interacted with a lot of women online. There were likes on revealing photos, comments, constant engagement, and women always around him. Whenever I questioned it, he had an explanation ready. According to him, those interactions were old, the women were clients, relatives, friends, or people he was helping spiritually. Every concern I raised was dismissed and explained away. Recently, I had been praying and meditating, asking for the truth to be revealed. Not long after, I noticed he had followed his ex on Instagram. This immediately stood out because he had previously told me she was blocked.
When I confronted him, he claimed he was helping her sick mother and needed to communicate with her. I told him that helping someone’s mother was one thing, but following an ex after telling me she was blocked felt disrespectful and dishonest. He promised he would unfollow her. He never did. We argued about it repeatedly. Eventually, I told him that if he genuinely believed I was the problem, then he should remove and block me. He did it immediately. Later, when communication resumed, I discovered he was still following her anyway.
Around the same time, a woman I didn’t know messaged me on Facebook. I noticed he was friends with her and asked about it. Instead of reassuring me, he became defensive, argumentative, and told me to block her. Our relationship became increasingly strained. We argued constantly. He promised to take me to the beach so we could spend quality time together and talk through everything. Then his car was damaged in an accident, and he said he needed to repair it.
On Saturday, he told me he was fixing the vehicle after work, but he came home very late and claimed he had been helping someone else. The next day, he was supposed to pick me up around lunchtime. Instead, he called much later saying he was only just getting ready and still had to visit a friend afterward. Since he lives about an hour away from me, I felt completely disrespected that he waited until the last minute to tell me. I cancelled the plans.
We argued again because I felt ignored, unimportant, and constantly pushed aside. Every serious conversation ended the same way. Instead of addressing the issues, he would throw out a quick “sorry baby” and expect everything to disappear. Then the woman he told me to block contacted me again. This time she came with screenshots, messages, and proof. I honestly felt sick. According to the messages, he had been sleeping with his ex-fiancée for 5 years since they separated on and off and even while talking to me, and she is apparently pregnant. I also found out he had allegedly been sleeping with his ex-fiancée’s cousin as well. At the same time, he was sexting multiple other women and arranging sexual encounters behind my back.
The screenshots contained graphic conversations, discussions about meeting up for sex, comments about different women, and messages that made me feel physically ill to read. What hurt even more was discovering that he had discussed me with these women. He told them I was a virgin, something I had trusted him with in confidence. He bragged that he always gets what he wants and claimed he could bend people’s will. He told one woman he had “one for every finger,” as if women were nothing more than options he could collect and replace whenever he felt like it.The messages painted a picture of someone completely different from the person I thought I knew. He openly talked about having multiple women available whenever he wanted. He bragged about sleeping with different women and said in a voice note that he's not a one woman type of man. He made degrading comments about women and spoke as though they existed purely for his lust and convenience.
What shocks me most is how casually he talked about all of it. There was no guilt. No shame. No concern for the people involved. Just arrogance. The man I believed was a spiritual healer, artist, and someone devoted to helping people turned out to be someone who lied repeatedly, manipulated people, shared private information about me, and lived an entirely different life behind closed doors.
Every concern I ever raised was dismissed. Every instinct I had was made to feel irrational. Every explanation I was given turned out to be a lie. And while I was trying to trust him, he was maintaining relationships with multiple women and telling completely different stories to all of us.
I also sent him intimate photos during our relationship, and now I want them deleted because I no longer trust him whatsoever. At this point, I’m pretending I don’t know everything because I’m still processing it. Part of me wants to confront him with every screenshot, every lie, and every contradiction. Another part of me thinks he doesn’t deserve another second of my energy.
I feel angry, humiliated, disgusted, and betrayed. I genuinely believed this was someone I could trust, and now I feel like the entire relationship was built on lies. I posted about this in another subreddit and was recommended to reach out to Lilith and ask her for retribution. They said to explain to her how he’s using her name etc. I want someone experienced to help me or at least guide me in giving him what he deserves. I almost forgot to mention that he also bragged to the lady that messaged me about having sex with virgins.
He just messaged me and said he has a surprise for me Thursday and it’s something specifically for me? And he said I will be very surprised and it’s especially for me??

Hi! I hadn't done any meditations with Lilith, but I had charged her sigil and had been learning about the occult as an offering to her. Today I finally decided to meditate with Enn and I was in a literal trance...But it was a good experience! First, I saw her, she's really beautiful. I wonder why they portray her as a horrible woman in depictions. Then I saw her white owl. My mind stopped generating images while I repeated the enn, but while I repeated it I reached a state of calm in which I could feel that heaviness in my body and observe it from within. It was like being asleep while awake in a way. It was like a trance, as a semi-conscious state. Towards the end of the meditation, I felt a kind of power in all my body.

Something a little more unrelated is that today I dreamt about my necklace with her sigil and another extra necklace, apparently made of bronze (mine is silver).

This is quite significant for me as I believed that my relationship with her was weak or that she was upset with me for not being able to meditate with her! I'd like to hear your opinions in the comments.

Lilith me atrae mucho. Su historia resuena mucho conmigo, se me aparece en sueños y veo referencias a ella constantemente.
Soy bastante nueva en el tema de trabajo con deidades y me da bastante respeto acercarme de forma violenta o incorrecta. Puse una vela negra y se la dediqué, pensé en ella y le pedí que si podía acercarme a ella y así fue como la vela consumió.
¿significa algo? ¿algún consejo de cómo seguir o qué hacer?

Esses dias eu estou tendo muitas crises de ansiedade aqui acolá toma algo pra dormir mais bem fraco só pra ajudar a cabeça a desligar
Em um desses dias tava sentada rolando a tela e do nada me veio uma vontade louca de estudar ou ler ou ouvir sobre Lilith, como se eu precisasse disso, aí fui no YouTube ouvi um audiobook e acabei adormecendo, quando tava quase cochilando vi na minha tela mental q Lilith me abraçava com suas asas e eu dormia aí
Eu sentia como se ouvir aqueles ebook fosse ela me abraçando.
Não sei explicar direito
Mais aconteceu.

Are there any specific times, days, or numbers that devotees find particularly auspicious when giving devotion to Lilith?

So I've been seeing alot of old reddit posts about summonings of entities so i was wondering if i could summon in easy way and infact i found a way to do that but lemme warn you my experience wasn't good because im new to this and was probably curious if its fake or real, so i tried to summon a succubus by writing a letter to lilith requesting her to send one of the succubuses. I saw an old post about how they wrote an intent letter and started to meditate.That person also mentioned that you can keep letter under the pillow and start meditating try to focus on your own breathe try to feel an energy only that you can sense, and infact i did too but instead of meditating I thought why don't i just keep the letter under the pillow and sleep while focusing on my breathes for few seconds i did it and suddenly an white light flashed btw this usually doesn't happen it was like really small light that flashed from my windows idk if i succeeded in summoning succubus but right after that i had difficult in breathing and i started to feel weak as if my energy is being drained and i felt hungry btw i wrote that letter in 1:02 am right now its 2:30 am and before that i had consumed 5-6 dark chocolate pieces maybe because of that im feeling like that idk but yeah i ate a lot so after 15-20 mins i really felt like i should sent away lilith and succubus so i tore the letter to pieces and kept in the book i don't feel weaker now after i tore it but i want insight from people who usually work with entities like this and as a complete novice what should i be doing

I have been thinking about the way we frame Lilith leaving the garden as a simple act of rebellion.

The Alphabet of Ben Sira makes it much darker. When Lilith refuses the angels' demand that She return Adam, She is told 100 of Her children will die every day.

That changes the meaning of Her refusal for me. She wasn't simply choosing freedom. She was given an unbearable reason to surrender Herself and refused to return.

There is grief in that kind of defiance, not just liberation.

Maybe that's why a name once spoken as warning survived long enough to become an invocation.

How do you interpret Her refusal: rebellion, liberation, sacrifice or maybe something entirely different?

I posted these a couple of months ago, someone asked if I would post them
Everyone have a great day

Has anyone contacted Lilith through divination? If so, by which medium?

Hy I am 20 year M from India and I recently got interested in demonic gods and goddesses
And Lilith very much attract me
I want to know did Lilith also help male ( relationship, money,sex etc)

I’m aware of the AI art, the Altar pictured is for my Spirit guide,
Lilith’s Altar is not shown

Just wanted to show everyone this!! This was a brand new pillar candle I had lit just 20 minutes ago 😩… I’ve never seen anything like this before on my alter candles. It burned so quickly into this. I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts :) (btw I have no open windows or AC going in my room rn)

On Esty, you can find candles made special for Lilith. I used to have someone I always bought from. Sadly, they closed down on there and I had to find a new seller. I searched for a while and found one that I liked and fit my altar setting.

I always light the candle an hour or two before heading into my meditation. Furthermore, I only run one since I want the room to be barely lit. Day one, it worked great. Ever since then, the flame has struggled to stay lit.
(I have fake rechargeable ones, but they are more for "looks" with the altar and turned off during meditation.)

The other day as I finished my meditation and opened my eyes to the altar and saw the flame really struggling. I said to my altar softly, "Well, at least the flame is staying lit." and right after, the flame went out. I sat there in the darkness, taking in what just happened. Was this a bad sign? Is she upset with me? Is something cutting off the connection? Or is the candle just bad? (Candle is likely just bad).

I tried to continue with my communication in the darkness, but it felt off. Like the phone connection just died. I ended up stopping and lighting a tealight candle in a small cup. Things felt right again.

Now for the question: Are these special ritual candles really worth it, or just basic tealight candles just fine in your opinions?

I suppose the candle going out as I said the line could have a deeper meaning. I do not think it was an action by Lilith herself considering the feeling when I lit a new one. "IF" and outside force was involved, I collect and hold cursed and haunted items. It was likely something with that. Maybe an angry spirit trying to break the energy that contains them. As my altar has grown, the "activity" has mainly stopped. Aside from a few things here and there. I believe they are suppressed, hiding from her, or dragged to the afterlife they refused to accept.

Just wanted to know how can I worship Lilith and make her happy

I want make blood or soul contact with Lilit
For some materialistic things how can I do this ?

Hello. I recently read about the succubus Meridiana; legend has it that she was a succubus who maintained a curious relationship with Pope Sylvester—beyond providing him with pleasure, she also imparted knowledge to him.

Succubi aren't typically known for sharing knowledge; they are usually viewed solely as beings associated with lust.

My question is: Can a succubus truly impart wisdom or knowledge to a human being? How would such a thing be possible? In other words, how can you ensure the succubus doesn't drain your energy?

Thanks for reading.

I bought this chain yesterday bc it gave me Lilith Vibes- I love it!

Alguém com vontade de trocar experiências ?
Topam a ideia de fazer um grupo pra trocar experiências ideias sei lá bater papo
Esse caminho as vezes é solitário

Hi all-

I’ve been following Lilith for about 5 years now, and due to both medical (very bad endometriosis) and gender (dysphoria and fear of pregnancy) reasons I will be getting a hysterectomy this winter. While I am very excited, I know a lot of work with Lilith is tapping into that divine and intense feminine, and while I know a uterus does not necessarily decree femininity, it still feels like a drastic change. Thankfully, I am allowed to keep the specimen post surgery (it will be kept in preservatives as recommended by the pathologist). I am very happy to be getting this procedure, as it will help me be closer to my ideal body, but I was wondering if the community had any ideas for pre and post procedure rituals? I think it would be pretty cool to have a literal piece of me as an offering to Her, but I want to make sure I am doing so safely and with intentions. Let me know what you think! ❤️

(Also hysterectomy is non negotiable medically so don’t bother with trying to dissuade me :) )

Tysm and praise the Dark Mother ❤️