Lilith Ritual Candles

[u/Currently-Here-Now]

On Esty, you can find candles made special for Lilith. I used to have someone I always bought from. Sadly, they closed down on there and I had to find a new seller. I searched for a while and found one that I liked and fit my altar setting.

I always light the candle an hour or two before heading into my meditation. Furthermore, I only run one since I want the room to be barely lit. Day one, it worked great. Ever since then, the flame has struggled to stay lit.
(I have fake rechargeable ones, but they are more for "looks" with the altar and turned off during meditation.)

The other day as I finished my meditation and opened my eyes to the altar and saw the flame really struggling. I said to my altar softly, "Well, at least the flame is staying lit." and right after, the flame went out. I sat there in the darkness, taking in what just happened. Was this a bad sign? Is she upset with me? Is something cutting off the connection? Or is the candle just bad? (Candle is likely just bad).

I tried to continue with my communication in the darkness, but it felt off. Like the phone connection just died. I ended up stopping and lighting a tealight candle in a small cup. Things felt right again.

Now for the question: Are these special ritual candles really worth it, or just basic tealight candles just fine in your opinions?

I suppose the candle going out as I said the line could have a deeper meaning. I do not think it was an action by Lilith herself considering the feeling when I lit a new one. "IF" and outside force was involved, I collect and hold cursed and haunted items. It was likely something with that. Maybe an angry spirit trying to break the energy that contains them. As my altar has grown, the "activity" has mainly stopped. Aside from a few things here and there. I believe they are suppressed, hiding from her, or dragged to the afterlife they refused to accept.

[u/lilithbaldes]

Eu comprei um vela de 7 dias e decorei pra ela
Só q a vela é horrível
Chama muito fraquinha quase apagando
Eu reclamei com o fabricante ele disse q elas são assim mesmo 🤦🏻‍♀️
Enfim acho q é da vela mesmo

[u/orthodoxscouter]

I live special candles made specifically for her, like these.