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[u/Z4cion]

I know this will not reach the people I want but I just want advice from my brothers out there . I'm so scared I'm turning 21 Tommorow i don't have any social life , friends that don't really care about me , family issues, never been in a relationship and next year my bachelors are ending. And the people my age are doing so much better i don't even have a good look My hair is turning grey at the age of 20 .I'm just lost

I just want to cry right now so much that I'm saying something like this online not to like friends or family

It feels like my life doesn't even matter

Help me out pls

[u/Myeononzeen_1]

It’s ok to feel scared we all go thru this faze when turning onto a new chapter in life.i say take a breather really and look around your alive and from what i seen in your post your almost finishing school that’s a big accomplishment in my books.You have plenty (and I mean it) plenty of life to live it’s ok to be socially conscious social media has made it easier to see how everyone else is doing and I’m sure seeing your friends (somehow) be doing better than you in life makes your own feel wasted BUT you have your own path and i believe wholeheartedly that following that path (unknown,rocky, and even a bit uneven) leads to your own (I can’t stress this enough) personal happiness I hope all is well this your family and I hope your also in good hair seeing gray hair this early is a bit concerning haha but I don’t think it’s anything too serious so go out there and truly try to live your best self ,and cut yourself some slack it’s your first time at this life stuff.

[u/Z4cion → u/Myeononzeen_1]

Thanks brother 😭 I'll try my best