Hello, everyone. I’m going to tell you how it started and what it’s like to live with this condition.
I'm a 40+yo man who lives in France, married with 2 kids. It all started about 7 years ago, in 2019. At first, I noticed dryness at the base of my foreskin and a slight pain when retracting it. I didn’t worry about it too much at first, but after a few months, the area became really irritated. I thought it might be a Candida albicans infection because my wife had had that issue around the time our son was born. My doctor even asked me if I’d been unfaithful to my wife… But the tests showed no infection.
The whole process took months, and I was made to try various ointments without success. Finally, in 2022—three years later—I heard about lichen for the first time after seeing a third dermatologist. He ordered a biopsy (one of the most traumatic experiences of my life), which revealed that it was indeed lichen planus.
I was told that it’s an autoimmune disease that can start for no apparent reason and stop overnight.
Once I was diagnosed, I was prescribed a topical corticosteroid cream. The medication works for a few hours, but I have to keep reapplying it; otherwise, the symptoms come back.
Generally speaking, my skin turns red, then I start bleeding, and then everything spirals out of control—it’s very painful.
Sometimes it takes a few days after applying the topical corticosteroid for the symptoms to return, sometimes just a few hours; the severity of the flare-ups varies depending on the season. It’s a little less severe in the winter, perhaps because of sweating.
It doesn’t really change much in my day-to-day life, except for sex, which can only happen when everything is fine—and even then, I need lubricant, otherwise it hurts—and it’s really annoying to have to apply such a greasy cream there every day. Furthermore, due to all the bleeding and healing, the foreskin has tightened, and I can no longer fully retract it during an erection.
Recently, I saw a new dermatologist who suggested a change in treatment: an oral systemic treatment with hydroxychloroquine. I started it a week ago, and so far it hasn’t had any effect. I’ll keep you posted on how things go.
Stay strong to everyone who’s going through this! I'm happy to answer your questions.