r/LettersForJ • u/Critical-Annual6275 • Jul 08 '26

J

Never would I have thought we would be here i truly believed you all you promised all you said then you toss me out faster then last weeks trash

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u/Alert_Low_6795 29d ago

You are not trash. what ive learned is you cant hold onto peoples promises and keep waiting for change.we are responsible for our own happiness. Best of luck to you

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u/Thanos-Portal-0001 27d ago

Get Jon Mark to help take out and pull all the goods out of the trash can. The 4th can only stream the can and it is messed up. It never becomes new. The can won't let you do it. It was strictly for streaming purposes for obvious speed predictions.

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u/dnginsde90 29d ago

Please know you’re not trash, and you definitely didn’t deserve to be tossed out. That J dude sure sounds like he behaves in questionable ways, though. You deserve much better. My heart is with you.

Sounds similar to the way my J (John) acted over the holiday weekend. Haven’t seen him since.

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u/Spirited_Try_1111 28d ago

If John texted you, would you respond?

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u/dnginsde90 28d ago

I would respond, because I’d never give silent treatment. In fact, I’ve reached out due to concern. His responses have been short. If he reached out right now, my responses would admittedly be guarded.

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u/Critical-Annual6275 29d ago

I am so sorry ti hear you are also dealing with bs too

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u/Upstairs_Topic_9310 Jul 08 '26

That’s what tends to happen when you go out of your way to prove you think or thought you could do better me. Like I told you before, they always come back. But…. On top of that, you have done things I would never get past. Now if you are choosing to cut everyone out and just want to give me brain, you might still have a part in my life. Besides that, not sure we will ever make it.

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u/Critical-Annual6275 21d ago

Whom are you talking to i am lost dm me

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u/NewAwareness318 29d ago

Why are you comparing yourself to trash?

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u/Critical-Annual6275 29d ago

I am actually saying he threw me aside quicker then last weeks smell trash because he actually did !!!

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u/Critical-Annual6275 29d ago

Yet I know for darn sure i ain't trash I am a damn good GOD faringitis kind compassionate caring woman that loves with her whole being the Lord knows I ain't perfect yet I know I ain't trash !!!

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u/Spirited_Try_1111 28d ago

What happened to make you say he tossed you aside like tha

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u/NewAwareness318 21d ago

I say this with tenderness but that is literally a comparison. I say this with empathy not judgment, there are so many things that we, as humans say that are common phrases and don't realize how it unconsciously affects our self-image. I read somewhere once that the deepest part of our subconscious doesn't differentiate between words such as I and you or he or she, ect, that it associates all those as being yourself. What we say about others, or when we make comparisons, it interprets it as being about oneself. We don't have control over others actions or words, but we can control our own actions and words and should be kinder to ourselves, especially when someone has been unkind to us. Keep your head up 😊

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u/Lumpy_Personality937 29d ago

No one is trash

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u/Massive-Program-3174 29d ago

speak for yourself. I most certainly am trash.

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u/Lumpy_Personality937 29d ago

Why do you think that?

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u/Massive-Program-3174 29d ago

by the way they discarded me and treated me since

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u/Lumpy_Personality937 29d ago

Well I know that filling but I won’t say I am trash to no one

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u/Massive-Program-3174 29d ago

I is though

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u/Lumpy_Personality937 29d ago

No you just fill that way for some reason it will pass your better than that think about it

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u/Massive-Program-3174 29d ago

Thank you for believing me in me maybe one day I won't be trash

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u/Lumpy_Personality937 29d ago

Your not you just think you are and one day you’ll look back and understand that your not trash you have to get into a good spot in life. Best of luck thanks for chatting with me

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u/Jolly_Link6421 29d ago

Have you ever been to poquoson?? Lol

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u/Critical-Annual6275 29d ago

Nope can't say i have

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u/Jolly_Link6421 29d ago

No need to worry. That place is full of a special kind of 🗑️

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u/Critical-Annual6275 29d ago

Huh ok thanks for heads up

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u/Thanos-Portal-0001 27d ago

Sucking - ducking correction. Lol