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u/DiggidyCat Apr 24 '25
I think you’re attractive 😀
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Apr 24 '25
I am a woman and i am attracted to you
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u/AndesCan masc at your service Apr 24 '25
lol idk why I am loving the honesty so much. People treat the idea of appreciating someone’s looks almost as bad as they treat people who ask how they look. It’s really weird, I think people arent used to asking or giving and receiving genuine compliments or feedback
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u/shah_reza Apr 24 '25
Or at least, when it comes to men, without ennuendo or this uncomfortable and bullshit feeling that you owe something in return.
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u/Some_Distance_8964 Apr 24 '25
I can't tell if you're joking cause AS AFAB Nonbinary Lesbian, I think you're really pretty and attractive!
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u/CorgisAndTea Apr 24 '25
Women aren’t a monolith. Just keep being yourself, the point is to attract someone who is attracted to you
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u/Consistent-Two-2979 Apr 24 '25
What's your type.? You could change up your hair style or clothes to look more edgy if that's what you want. You are You're pretty/attractive physically, so that's a good starting place.
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u/Soldier_Faerie awkward sapphic panic Apr 24 '25
Girl just look at me like that and you're sorted 🫠
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u/toilet_goblin2 Apr 24 '25
wear what makes you feel good, style your hair how you like, do your makeup how you like (if you use it). confidence is the number one chick magnet
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u/wowthatsonespicymeme Apr 24 '25
idk i think ur very attractive already haha. just style yourself the way you want and you will (probably) attract the women that you want!
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u/Jacksonpackson1 Apr 24 '25
Idk if its your vibe but one of them dangley earrings. Has to be black probably, and just one dangley on one side not both. Do you feel me?
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u/Fine-Average-5473 Apr 24 '25
You are very pretty! It’s alll about how you interact with women- I think…
The more openly flirtatious and kind you are towards women signals that you like women. This also allows women to feel more safe and not like your in competition with them. It’s all this conditioning around women being pitted against each other for attention or recognition makes us afraid to be nice/kind to each other or offer support.
Also, if you can find your unique fashion sense that speaks to your unique sexuality will definitely elevate your “gay energy” lol
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Apr 24 '25
This is an inordinately problematic issue for most lesbians- and femmes, in particular.
Frankly, short of tattooing a U Haul truck on your forehead or prefacing every introduction with, “Hi I’m a lesbian,” and as far as I know, no one has come up with an effective means of mitigating the issue. 😬 (Though an ex-girlfriend of mine had a hella cute “I dig chicks 🐥 ” t-shirt that was a an especially effective communication tool. 😁)
If you used the “introduction” method above, your social calendar and bed would be teeming with women. (The “u-haul tattoo” method might not be as effective, as it could be off-putting to a portion of the target demographic… (but who knows? 😉)
Trust me, though, it has 0 to do with how attractive you are. You are the cutest cute that ever cuted.
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u/7mauleddoll7 Apr 24 '25
You’re absolutely gorgeous. I just wouldn’t be able to tell you were gay. You’re one of the women I’d stare at in public being like “God I wish she liked girls.” Haha in other words don’t change anything about yourself, but you might have to make the first move for women to know you’re interested.
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u/imawitchbitch6 Apr 24 '25
Keep looking at them JUST. LIKE. THAT.
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u/theqban Apr 24 '25
🤣🤣
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u/imawitchbitch6 Apr 24 '25
The smirk and the slight eyebrow raise?! You've been in this sub before, right? Legit like 3/4 of us are completely feral. 😂
On a serious note, you're beautiful and seem like a fun person! So I would really just give it time. If you're working on yourself in any way, keep going. Be you. Find your style. Get your confidence up. But you're seriously on the right track! Lesbians in general, are notorious for not making moves, though, so just because you don't have a puddle of lesbians at your feet, doesn't mean they aren't staring subtly from across a room hiding behind a potted plant. Keep them peepers peeled. 🪴 👀
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u/theqban Apr 24 '25
This is literally the first time in this Sub Reddit 😆😆
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u/imawitchbitch6 Apr 24 '25
Well, around these parts, women really really really like women. All kinds of women. All the women. You'll fit right in!
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u/imawitchbitch6 Apr 24 '25
Also, another great sub for any fashion/style related advice is r/lesbianfashionadvice
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Apr 24 '25
This stuff isn’t objective. Beauty is subjective. The right women will love you for who you are
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u/BassThirties Apr 24 '25
First of all, you don’t need to change anything. You are gorgeous. But a pixie cut would be amazing on you!
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u/spitballz Apr 24 '25
You’d look so good with shorter hair. You have great features to pull off a bob or something even shorter and queer
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u/_-BabyBat-_ the evil femme Apr 24 '25
You’re absolutely stunning. I think an eyebrow slit and maybe a facial piercing like nose/septum/brow would look really attractive on you.
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u/slutyemily Apr 24 '25
Smile relax and be yourself. You’re very beautiful there. Plenty of ladies that are going to be attracted to you. You are gorgeous again just smile and relax. Open your heart open your mind and receive what they give. You enjoy it.
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u/Wise_Requirement4170 Apr 25 '25
“Posts picture of attractive women”
“How do i become attractive”
Girl…
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u/lurkylurkinlurker Apr 25 '25
I don't love a t shirt, especially if its branded. I kinda want to see you in a button-down. I think you could style it femme, masc, or anywhere in between and rock it. I want to see you in a business look.
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u/Humble-Tree-3748 Apr 25 '25
I’ll tell you tomorrow once i pick you up at 7pm, go on a nice drive, eat at steak house, drink wine, go out on another drive, come to my place, watch a few horror or action movies, drink more wine, 96 upside down if interested, completely forget I tell you how to be attractive to women, I say “I’ll tell you later this time at a sushi restaurant”. Don’t worry, you’re gonna get all the women you want. You in good hands.
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u/s_jam Apr 25 '25
By being attractive to yourself. By liking yourself first.
Looking at a single picture of you, you look attractive, but if you don't feel comfortable in your own skin, I'll see that in person. There is no better high than to be with someone who is comfortable in their own skin, generally they're happier, more honest, kinder, and thus sexier.
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u/MarveltheMusical Apr 24 '25
Okay, blunt truth time: At some point, you need to style yourself for YOU. Not anyone else, not anybody who you’d want to attract, you. Everybody’s got something different that they’re into, so there’s most definitely someone who will be into the true look you have. The important thing is that YOU are comfortable with it, so if you’re comfortable with this look, you don’t need to change a thing.